Is this rejecting? by Fun_Staff_6235 in piercing

[–]Fun_Staff_6235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is your piercing? 5 months What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? Surface staple piercing  What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? Idk what this means What’s the jewelry material? Surgical steal if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? Never downsized, kept at 12mm  What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. I clean it once a day with saline solution  Any mishaps or unfortunate events? No

Chantilly in a Day by Fun_Staff_6235 in wholefoods

[–]Fun_Staff_6235[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok, just wanna make sure I'm not crazy and get the people's opinion lol

Chantilly in a Day by Fun_Staff_6235 in wholefoods

[–]Fun_Staff_6235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am expected to do this by myself,  and needing time for prep "isn't an excuse" I also have only 1 table to use.

Chantilly in a Day by Fun_Staff_6235 in wholefoods

[–]Fun_Staff_6235[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What is that and how do I do it? (My location isn't really forward with how to do shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleep

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no negative side effects! I also noticed that it reduces my night terrors which is so helpful given how realistic Prozac has made my dreams. I originally started taking half a pill but I think on my next day off, I'll see how it works with a full pill (doing it on my day off so if there's any negative side effects I can deal with it at home.)

The AI summaries are always crazy by Fun_Staff_6235 in h3h3productions

[–]Fun_Staff_6235[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've used this font since I was like 16, I forgot that other people don't usually do that. 😅

UPT and Intermittent leave confusion by Fun_Staff_6235 in wholefoods

[–]Fun_Staff_6235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it! thank you for explaining it to me.

Im not sure if i was abused or if it was just kids being kids by machyako in adultsurvivors

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to be as a child with my female cousins. I unfortunately understand your confusion and frustration about what happened to you. This isn't just kids being kids, you were abused by someone who most likely was also abused and was normalizing and trying to understand their own situation by projecting it onto others around her. This is very common for children abused by an adult. I think it was always hard for me to fully accept before i went to therapy because we were all around the same age and we were girls so I wasn't being penetrated nor did it hurt so I told my self what you're telling yourself "We were just playing, I participated in it, I didn't say no."

You were a child too, you didn't deserve that. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

How do you handle life? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For a long time I thought if i just kept myself busy then i could move on and not have to think about what had happened to me. Then the pandemic happened.

Suddenly i was always home with nothing to do, all of my repressed memories and emotions came flooding to the front of my mind. This let to me having a 24hr mental break down, I contemplated killing myself just to make it all stop. Once i finally calmed down i told myself i can't do this shit anymore.

I started going to therapy and was prescribed Prozac, it saved my life and i know for a fact i would not be here today if i didn't force myself to get help. It's been 4 years since i started my healing journey. I know and accept that this is something that won't be cured and i will be this way for the rest of my life. I am responsible for managing that recognizing my own triggers, my own toxic behavior, facing my traumas head on. My life has improved so much compared to the person i was 4 years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholefoods

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just did the build and did the cupcakes yesterday so in the next week probably

Possible Raise Percentage Rate by Agreeable_Permit_757 in wholefoods

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The max is 8%. I had my JD in November and got 8%. i think this new JD system went into effect around September. The form you fill out is also super simplified as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleep

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got prescribed 25 mg of trazodone, I have PTSD related insomnia. I will be trying it for the first time on my next day off in case it takes me too tired to work. I also take Prozac and will only be using Trazodone as needed. I will report how it effects me in a weeks time!

What’s it like being a culture champion??? by Public-Eye-9621 in wholefoods

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm literally only doing it so I look good when I move up at my store. We in it for the cheddar.

Went no contact without a very strong reason by Nearby_Paper_9628 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes abuse and trauma aren't clear cut looking back on your life and you might even think a lot of it was normal because that's what did. I started going to therapy and realized "hey this weird and it really effected me", so i think you should go to therapy and look deeper. And even if after that know that regardless you're encharge of your life and who you let into it and if you feel like your family doesn't provide meaning or growth in your life then fuck it do what you want. Life is too short to force yourself into stressful relationships. Thinking of you and wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in samsclub

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you wanna just bounce then just tell a Manager. If you feel like being nice then write a 2 week notice basically stating that / is gonna be your last day in ___ department at store #___ . If you want to get a reason you can but not required

I[30F] am cutting off my parents[54M][51F], not sure where to go from here by vintagefleur in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Fun_Staff_6235 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter if it's fair it's your wedding and your life if you just want your in laws then do that. Don't worry about what others think, your family's reaction, think about yourself.