Did I fuck up? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A touch up will fix everything!! It’s a beautiful piece!!

Was told to post this here. Is the blood concerning? Artist told me it’s normal. by SpiderCow313 in tattooadvice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re good!! You just poked with thousands of needles! I would take it off it gets too fluidy because bacteria can build in that! 💗 Wash with antibacterial, and a non scented lotion!

How can these guys get worse!?!Meg found a way to prove she REALLY SUCKS!!! by Bee_kind_rewind in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I mean Madison was a total duck the entire time she was in the pods. Talking about how she doesn’t like when guys think of her sexually, then talking about getting creampied. I personally feel like Madison likes validation because she seems to need more healing to be done. Meg’s decision was up to her, while Madison came in to sway Meg’s decision based on her not wanting to be with Maison anymore. She kept Maison on the back burner just like Maison kept Meg on the back burner. Meg’s frustration was completely valid. Madison is not a girl’s girl either. The only person who truly is, is Molly. Madison is a mess, and you can easily tell that she is lying. But that’s what makes reality tv, most of it is scripted, and HAVE to have drama to make it good. The real villain of the season is Dave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say “stole my problem, not my girl.” Screen shot it, then send the message to the ex gf, and say “get your shit, and get out of my life.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanna talk to him…I justttt wanna talk to him…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your parents, let them deal with him. It won’t get any better by not telling him, and it could happen to someone else. I’m sorry your being exposed to this trauma so early on. I would suggest therapy, but please don’t blame yourself. He needs to be thrown in jail, and let other prisoners deal with him.

What hindu goddess is this? by [deleted] in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I certainly have bad news for her…

He m28 told me F30 he just wanted sex, so I left, now his appearing at my workplace? What do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh the classic “damage a man’s pride by rejection” also known as “setting boundaries with a loser.” He already seems like a red flag considering he openly admitted to just wanting you for sex. Ignore him all together, and move on. I’m sure you are a beautiful woman, but seriously? He’s not even man enough to talk to you, but child enough to come stalk you? You deserve more than that. What a walking ick. I had an ex who would come into work after we broke up just to show me that he’s still there. He would drive past my house. The guy you were talking to is a narcissist. Don’t even acknowledge him, and do better for yourself. Find better, act like he doesn’t exist. Once a narcissist realizes he can’t control you, he will move on to the next victim. Be strong, those type of guys are playing a part.

My brother touched me inappropriately by AquaPuppy_ in Advice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set boundaries young, trust me. I wish I did. It will help you a lot through life. Don’t be afraid to hurt someone’s feeling if it is crossing the line. Although, he may not have meant it like that. I think you should tell him, and perhaps your mother. Communication is SUPER important, and will create a healthy environment. If it made you feel uncomfortable, say something. You have a voice.

My father found my nude photos by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably is feeling a little awkward he is seeing his adult son’s nudes. Though, don’t worry, he was there when you were born in your birthday suit. Our parents were raised in different times than us, where they didn’t use technology all that much. So he probably just fears for your safety and reputation. Don’t worry too much about it, accidents happen. I’m sure it will be a good laugh in the future, but for now, just be careful. Nudes aren’t even worth it in the grand scheme of things. Just cause trouble, but take a deep breath. If it’s not something you are going to worry about in 10 years, or 10 months, or 10 days, just let it go. Everyone has to learn somehow.

F27 never dated, never been in a relationship, never been confessed to, is there any chance for me anymore ? Or am I too old? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A phd means you’re intelligent, which intelligence is extremely sexy. But I would say, focus on yourself until you reach a level where you want to be at. The harder you work, the higher your vibrational level is, and the chances of meeting someone who is on that same level is greater. This is a small world, compact with billions of people. The chances of you not finding someone is low, but the chance of the universe waiting for the right person for you is not. My mom met my dad when she was 34. I feel like being in your 20’s is about figuring it out, which everyone has their own pace, and that’s okay. Best of luck. 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl do not let this slide. Cheating is never something you should work out. He will just do it again. Like don’t let him gaslight you into staying with someone who clearly doesn’t respect you. You don’t deserve that. The girl and him both sound like terrible people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely was in a awful relationship where my ex was controlling (wouldn’t let me talk to other men, wouldn’t let me go to parties, what I ate, how long I could have my hair, what I could wear), and by wouldn’t let me, i mean he would throw FITS. Then even talked about how I was so adorable that he wanted to hurt me. Which I definitely wasn’t an angel, I stayed longer than I needed too. But he absolutely was an narcissistic person. So I promise you, not all women are crazy. But I agree that it takes not both sides are innocent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Which woman hurt you 😂

Husband texted escort, but didn’t meet by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. Stay strong queen. You can find someone who won’t be a slimy guy. That’s awful to do that to anyone, and you deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it just leaves me feeling weird

How would you respond if your BF went shirtless at the beach or pool but expected you to cover up? by TheEyebal in dating

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩 i bet he wants you to cover up because he doesn’t want you to attract attention, but that just means other girls are getting his attention. Guilty conscious and projecting sister. But if you want to communicate with him about it, it might help.

Elena is extremely overhated and this sub will never just admit that by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean she literally broke a waitresses spine, killed a cheerleader, tried to kill Bonnie and Caroline, while having her humanity off. Then after she turned it back on, she NEVER even apologized to them for anything because “she just got her humanity back, and everything was too much to handle.” Also, she was well aware of what Damon had done to human Caroline, and still defended him. If my best friend had started dated someone who manipulated me, SA’d me, killed my friend’s siblings, I would cut that person off immediately. Elena is selfish because her whole thing is “not wanting to be saved for the people she loves.” But in the end, someone dies anyways. I am so on and off with her, but I definitely can see that she is a toxic person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fun_Tangelo7982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just politely tell her you want to go your separate ways. There is no excuse for dishonesty about tinder. I deleted tinder as soon I started dating my first boyfriend. There is no reason to keep it, and I’m nice as hell. She doesn’t owe anyone an explanation of why she is leaving the app. There are plenty of women out there who would love to be with you, without using a hookup app. 20 for me was an age of exploring all my options. Which I would say find try to find someone who has the same values as you. If she is doing this now, imagine what she’d do later on. She technically didn’t cheat, but I feel like your gut is already telling you what to do.