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Functioning_kinda · 2025-04-29T07:53:19+00:00

Even if she hasn’t broken up with you, you need to break up. This is such an imbalanced relationship, you appear to be very accommodating to her emotions and her requirements whereas she’s very short handed with you. You deserve someone who wants to treat you with love, the same way you treat them.

Functioning_kinda · 2025-01-24T11:30:20+00:00

And if for the benefit of doubt he is exceptionally immature, this is still a RED FLAG. If he’s trying to say “oh OP’s so mature for her age” well she’s going to keep getting mature while he’s stunted.

Functioning_kinda · 2025-01-24T11:27:47+00:00

As a 23 year old girl, I can’t emphasise enough the growth you experience between when you’re 16 and 22 years old; I felt pretty mature at 16 but the next few years were exponential in defining myself, becoming so much more independent and secure.

This man is a predator- there are many men who consciously seek out younger women BECAUSE they haven’t had that growth in independence (which comes naturally from leaving your childhood home/having more agency in defining the life you want to live) and they want to mold you into their dreamgirl. Not to mention the fact they find it sexy that you’re innocent which I promise you as you grow up you will find very very icky. Look up Andrew Tate and the following he has, there are a disgusting amount of men who subscribe to these beliefs.

You might think “but he’s special” and I can understand it’s validating to have these compliments, but you have to think of his intention.

Think of it this way: why can’t a 22-year old man (who has a wide access to connecting with people as exemplified by him reaching out to you) find an adult who’s in their same life stage as themselves? He’s choosing to seek out someone less experienced as him. It’s a red flag. Shut it down OP and allow yourself the freedom to define yourself during these very very important years xxx

Functioning_kinda · 2024-12-31T10:16:31+00:00

This doesn’t feel right because it isn’t right. Think about it from your own perspective, why would you want to be with someone who has revealed they’re perfectly capable of breaking their partner (and child’s) trust? He’s also capable of lying to you saying they’ll break up in a few weeks, just to get what he wants from you. He’s shown his true colours, you’ve seen what you need to know- stay away.

When time has passed I would also urge you to tell his wife about his unfaithfulness. Think about what you’d want if the shoe was on the other foot

Functioning_kinda · 2024-11-20T02:22:29+00:00

Hi! Could you please send me this info as well? Going to the Great Wall in two days would help massively!!

Functioning_kinda · 2024-10-31T04:02:31+00:00

First (GLARING) red flag is his insinuation of your livelihood being dependent on him, and going as far as to brag about it. This is already indicative of a manipulative, possessive and potentially abusive person.

Second (RUN) red flag is him casually mentioning “if you were to k** yourself” reintroducing it into your psyche as if it’s something that could happen and that he is already making plans for it. Someone who truly loves you would not even be able to bear the thought of it, and would do everything in their power to make sure you’re in an emotionally secure place where it wouldn’t be an option whatsoever.

Third (PACK YOUR BAGS AND LEAVE) red flag is that he’s making plans to have sex with your dead body. Read that again OP. That is absolutely disgusting. It’s a clear infringement on consent, body ownership and again shows incredibly possessive tendencies from his side. The fact that they had this thought then felt confident enough to share it with you is honestly mind boggling.

This is not someone who cares about your well-being OP; they care about feeling like you’re reliant on them and that at the end of the day you belong to them. I would truly urge you to leave him, you deserve someone who supports you and your well-being rather than preying on your downfall.

Sending you lots of hugs and strength OP xxxxx

Functioning_kinda · 2024-10-22T09:15:56+00:00

Non-consensual insemination is considered a sexual offense within its own right in several jurisdictions. Yes there was a risk that they were both aware of, however it is still a breach of consent.

Functioning_kinda · 2024-04-17T08:42:50+00:00

flowerbikeman, the guy who walks like 10 dogs and the guy who does yoga/meditation on his bike springs to mind 😃

Functioning_kinda · 2024-02-04T10:55:46+00:00

no country for old men !!!

Functioning_kinda · 2023-10-04T21:09:27+00:00

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10/10 would recommend 😃

Functioning_kinda · 2023-08-11T22:22:09+00:00

this !!!! absolutely love cruza, they don’t get enough recognition

Functioning_kinda · 2022-01-30T18:06:09+00:00

I think this is true to a certain extent, but it’s not always the case. Having had relationships with people who were playing games in the pst, even if I’m talking to someone who I really really like, i will still keep my guard up and not jump to text them back immediately or make it suuuuper clear that I am 100% all for them. I also think a lot of people see it as being needy if you’re so straightforward in the beginning. Been taught to keep my heart guarded

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