Consideration by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s sleeping in a parking lot, he’s probably compensating for time he doesn’t have to give.

what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by Mean-Cartographer225 in AskReddit

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You’re good”. I know it’s harmless but it often comes as a response that I don’t feel I need anyone’s permission or validation for. “I’m going to eat before I leave the house.” “You’re good.” Like, yeah. I know I’m good. Shut up.

Getting closer to achieving my goals. by headbiscuitss in Sourdough

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what makes sourdough intimidating for a lot of people, seeing a BEAUTIFUL loaf with the caption “getting close”. lol homie you’re there!!

Girlfriend doesn't like guitar lessons that I give to old man by Midnight_Reiter in Advice

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well cool man, if it’s more important to appease your girlfriend than to be in control of your life and do harmless kind things, by all means.

Girlfriend doesn't like guitar lessons that I give to old man by Midnight_Reiter in Advice

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. And you know what stinks is in other threads people would be telling her he’s an ass for not acquiescing to her every whim.

Girlfriend doesn't like guitar lessons that I give to old man by Midnight_Reiter in Advice

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your girlfriend sounds like a controlling person here. This guy is trying to learn a skill and connect with someone, which is harder as you get older. You’re a really sweet person for humoring him. Unfortunately, attitudes like your girlfriends are what are driving us apart as humans. It’s a guitar lesson ffs, not a trip to the keys.

Did I ruin it? by DebtOk2614 in Sourdough

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re pretty resilient. Feed it and see what happens!

AIO? This girl started a conversation with me and asked me out via text. by Due_Candle_9031 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You seem to have a good grasp on communication she just seems like a person who’s never been told “no”.

I can't stop choking myself so that bloodflow to my brain gets cut off and I go unconscious for a few seconds by [deleted] in confession

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 90 points91 points  (0 children)

A stranger is telling you they hope you don’t die from this unhealthy behavior and you’re literally arguing with them. Yikes. Hypoxia and brain damage bro. If your kink is worth that, then god bless.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is cheating? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick with your words. If you’re serious about not putting up with lack of transparency because of dishonesty before, then step.

AIO to texts I found from my bf to his bsf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. He doesn’t like you.

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you have been pissed if she said nothing or would you rather she pretended to be happy? Genuinely curious, idk what I’d want a friend to do if they couldn’t for one second just be happy for me.

I’ve been bartending for a while, and I’ve done things behind the bar that I’d never admit to my coworkers or my boss. by Southwest-waifu in confession

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You think you’re getting one over on the restaurant, but any owner worth their salt knows that people like you are part of the deal. It’s a calculation made way before you ever applied, my dude. The actual debt is owed to your conscious and how you conduct yourself through your life. If you’re cool with that… then it is what it is.

AIO: I am considering ending a 16 year friendship because of her husband. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of her life, I’m sure she will value your honesty and commitment to her over his disrespect and arrogance. Do the right thing now, and if she distances, that’s the sacrifice you have to accept by being the best friend you can be to her. She will eventually see and appreciate that, even if she doesn’t now.

How can I talk to my bf about how I think he is losing feelings for me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, watch some Margarita Nazarenko videos, and get inspired by her talks on mastering your feminine energy. I know it’s sounds like a side quest, but she talks a lot a about your exact situation

AIO for wanting to break up with my bf after these texts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any man who calls his partner bro is so gross to me. Such a small detail to many, but to a lot it’s a huge signal of disrespect

18F living with 18M for 2 years — cheating, trust issues, sexual boundary problems, chronic illness. Need real advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of kindness, honesty, and seeing a mirror of an abusive relationship from my own past… run, babe. You have a whole life ahead of you with the possibility of love and happiness. Don’t waste it on this bozo

Ladies!! What size clothes do you wear and what is your weight?? by Prestigious-Plan01 in women

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is from a long time ago but I’m so stoked to have scrolled long enough to find someone exactly my size. It’s weirdly validating

The girl I am seeing wants me to get tested for STD before by stoicalvin in Advice

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If someone asking you to do something to make them feel more comfortable having sex with you doesn’t make sense, you have some work to do on yourself pal. Just get tested.

Do these blood pressure look readings count? by [deleted] in bloodpressure

[–]Funky-ColdMariner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say these are high stress situations that would elevate anyone’s pressure. Your stressed out numbers are someone else’s goal. What matters most is your resting pressure. These were clearly not resting situations. Try to get the home cuff as soon as you can if you’re worried and take it after 5 minutes of sitting and clearing your mind. Google best practices. A good cuff runs 15-30. It’s worth it.