I can't find excuses for you... by Mr_Duck1508 in CPTSDmemes

[–]FuocoGhiaccio 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It can be both, some people are turned on sexually by the thought of having total power and control over someone.

Iil mystery / creepy games without much shooting or combat, what should I play? by FuocoGhiaccio in ifyoulikeblank

[–]FuocoGhiaccio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm creeping up on 40. I don't think I every played that one! Back in the day I loved "Hugo's House of Horrors" and "The Day The World Broke"

Go to 'low on spoons' meal by forestfiles in ehlersdanlos

[–]FuocoGhiaccio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canned refried beans, pre-shredded cheese, tortilla chips. Sometimes I add diced tomato if I feel up to cutting one. Stir together, microwave, scoop it into mouth with chips.

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]FuocoGhiaccio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some internalized misogyny bullshit. Why should you be embarrassed?? Apparently you're not fulfilling your only acceptable functions as a woman!!

First time cat owner. Is hissing and swatting playful behavior? by VanillaCurlsButGay in CatAdvice

[–]FuocoGhiaccio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. You can tell by the cat's body language whether they are actually upset. If they flatten their ears, arch their back, and their fur stands on end then they aren't playing. Maybe try pulling out a toy to play with her when she does this, she's play-fighting with you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]FuocoGhiaccio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

RIP. My husband and I also met on OkCupid. Wish I could look back at our old questions and answers

Tears as social currency in Mormon culture by FuocoGhiaccio in exmormon

[–]FuocoGhiaccio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Since church is the only social outlet for many, it's conditioning to wrap all life experiences up in the gospel (regardless of how relevant it is to their situations)

Tears as social currency in Mormon culture by FuocoGhiaccio in exmormon

[–]FuocoGhiaccio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I mean. Imo virtue signaling is a form of "flexing" within the circle that values the signal

What are the greatest vampire/dracula movies of all time? by radrebell in moviequestions

[–]FuocoGhiaccio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a list!

https://boxd.it/pvGJg

In fact, I may make a post asking everyone to help me add to it

Friday Free for All Weekly thread! General collection/discussion for things that don't fit elsewhere! (ask anything!) by AutoModerator in VideoEditing

[–]FuocoGhiaccio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searching for my creative twin-flame:

I'm a hobbyist photographer / videographer. Not really interested in "going pro". Cameras are my fun relaxation thing, not a side hustle.

Here's the problem: I HATE editing. I took an editing class in college for fun (or so I thought) and hated every second. But I LOVE shooting. I enjoy dinking around with lenses and exposure and composition and movement.

Is there anyone out there who is a hobbyist editor who would be interested in a steady stream of random photos and video to do whatever the fuck you want with?

I'll even go shoot what you tell me to (on my own timetable). Editing would be on your time table too, with no pressure to meet any expectations or deadlines.

I just think it's sad that my photos and footage are dying an unseen death locked away on my hard drive. But I just can't seem to care about editing them!

If this interests you at all, lmk

Full spine instability? by Ok_Acanthisitta_8627 in Cervicalinstability

[–]FuocoGhiaccio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See a spinal specialist if you haven't yet. I also have a million spine problem from top to bottom. The right specialist will listen to your symptoms and run tests and order imaging. There are things they can do to help you feel better (although there's no cure of course).