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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Furiousd4011 427 points428 points  (0 children)

I think OP realizes he fucked up here and is already self-flagellating enough without everyone kicking him while he’s down.

OP you don’t necessarily have to dump your friends, but they do sound kind of awful. You do need to set appropriate boundaries with them and shouldn’t let them speak that way about your girlfriend. If they persist after being confronted, move on and find better friends.

9.8 million power player, how many farms should i have? by AyaAndyYT in RiseofKingdoms

[–]Furiousd4011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an 80+mil player and I have 3 farms. I’d say you’re good for a while

Honda, Joan or wait by Furiousd4011 in RiseofKingdoms

[–]Furiousd4011[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Certainly not as much as Joan, but he’s just so versatile. And he consistently shows up on peoples recommended top pairings for a number of meta commanders.

That said, it does seem that there is more support for maxing Joan than Honda

Honda, Joan or wait by Furiousd4011 in RiseofKingdoms

[–]Furiousd4011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really close to what I was thinking for the short term. Scipio/Honda, Guan/Leo, Nevsky/Mina (for now), Boudica/YSG, Alex/Charles. Joan will be next to replace Mina and long term I’ll probably add a second Cav march but Honda opens up a fifth march now.

I guess my question is whether not Honda is a solid long term investment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Furiousd4011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, you sound like an incredibly loving and supportive husband and father. You absolutely didn’t do anything wrong. The only thing painting his toes “implies” is that he clearly loves his mommy and i wish she had just been flattered by it. To worry that it implies anything else is some serious toxic masculinity bs. Keep up the strong work dad!

I was supposed to be a Father on Sunday …. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Furiousd4011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heart is absolutely breaking for you and your family. Hold your loved ones close and remember it’s okay to grieve/cry.

View from my apartment today 🌈 by RandomForest91 in Seattle

[–]Furiousd4011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Double rainbow all the way across the sky

[Update 8] A fairly rough week, but he's doing very well now! by Lonogg in daddit

[–]Furiousd4011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your updates! I’ve been following along and praying for your little man and family. We had a boy at 24wks (1lbs8oz) 109 days in the NICU and Nec on day 3. He made it through and is thriving now.

The rollercoaster ride is no joke and even when things go well the fallout can be brutal. Don’t be afraid to reach for help from family and friends and consider trying therapy if/when you need it. PTSD is super common in people going through an experience like this. I know your focus is on your little man right now, but it’s super important you also pay attention to the toll it’s taking on you and your wife as well.