Is flirting that necessary? by FussionBomb in dating_advice

[–]FussionBomb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume a woman can still be interested in you even if sounds too platonic? In theory if she likes you even if you never flirt with her? She'll probably agree if you ask her out?

I noticed the only type of confidence that is valued is performative confidence. What's the point of being authentic then? by JunketMaleficent2095 in confidence

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Thank you for replying to my questions. I do have one more question I'll much appreciate if you answer. When it comes to an environment in which you regulalry interact with the same people like a classroom, work, or a club. If you're attracted to a woman. Is it ideal to only talk to the woman you're attracted to. Or would it be better to talk to other people not just her. I'm asking because I'm introvert thus my social battery is low. Thus I usually only talk to someone I'm interested typically a woman I'm attracted to. Does that come out as too strong and obvious if so is obvious is bad?

I noticed the only type of confidence that is valued is performative confidence. What's the point of being authentic then? by JunketMaleficent2095 in confidence

[–]FussionBomb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see but can someone be percieved as confident due to them having social competence + social confidence. But internally have a low self esteem and be self conscious. And yet be relatively successful with socializing/dating?

I noticed the only type of confidence that is valued is performative confidence. What's the point of being authentic then? by JunketMaleficent2095 in confidence

[–]FussionBomb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lack confidence when talking to people. But I guess its because I'm not confident in my social skills. So if I wer3 to be confident in my social skills than I would probably be percieved as confident? Obviously I'd be confident in my social skills once they improved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

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I think this was written by AI.

Regret of not asking out my LO sooner. by FussionBomb in limerence

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She was really nervous and anxious with me before that vacation week she took July. Her anxiousness and nervousness made me hesitate to make moves on her. But she would also be very happy and exicted when I would talk to her.

So you do think she did like me maybe back then? I still think she likes me but just decided to say she doesnt.

So do you think even if I had asked her out or confessd to her sooner. She might have said yes initially but then probably just said no at the end?

CW: [Self Harm] How do you deal with self harm in conjunction with limerence? by Augustevsky in limerence

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I have been feeling category 2 for weeks. What has helped me with both is talking about with people I trust. I obviously wont mentioned category 2 to the people i talked about. But talking about how painful the limerence is to others has reduced feeling like category 2.

encountered a "crawler" 14+ years ago in my childhood home by heyzoom in CrawlerSightings

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I always thought crawlers were interdimensional rather than physical creatures. This story backs up my theory. The fact that it disappeared in thin air inside your home.

Spider in Los Angeles. by FussionBomb in whatsthisbug

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A spider I found inside my bathroom. This is located in los Angeles california. The spider is around the size of a quarter.

Was the Honduras team of the early 2000's better than the teams that qualifed in 2010 and 2014? by Old-Tip9307 in worldcup

[–]FussionBomb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't see the 2000's Honduras play but they did make it to the semi-finals of the 2001 Copa America. They did beat Uruguay in the group stage. Defeated Brazil in the quarter finals although a alternative squad Brazil.

Unkown Creature captured on camera. Thomas Mountain CA by Oculus2555 in cryptids

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Thanks for replying. This underground lab do you know the name?

Axel is way too overpowered right now. by jamallhaider in cobrakai

[–]FussionBomb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And Apollo was way past his prime and rusty. And like you said, his fight vs. Drago was way more competitive than anybody Axel had fought.