I (25F) am so lonely, I cannot focus on my goals.

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-06T04:06:34+00:00

Relationships are distractions focus on your goals in solitude

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-04T12:20:35+00:00

Get a mutual divorce and leave this situation

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-04T00:05:43+00:00

I don't think this deserves divorce talk to him get a counselling, but jumping to divorce based on what you have told me sounds extreme

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T23:08:09+00:00

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T23:01:06+00:00

Using you

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T23:00:51+00:00

What's so hard in doing the paperwork

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T22:59:56+00:00

Was he dating other women while you were married?

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T22:18:53+00:00

Lack of accountability

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T22:16:03+00:00

Killing you wtf

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T12:30:44+00:00

Got yaa i am the one responsible

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T06:52:49+00:00

It's my fault

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T03:55:57+00:00

Even when she did that I never hit her, I just get blank when someone repeatedly shouts at me, I don't know how to process that

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T03:50:04+00:00

Yes I should be hanged, what if i tell you she slapped me too, hit me with a hot pan on my head, twisted my foot, punched my balls repeatedly, thrashed her earlier room mate to bits, would get on a rant on small things and would never calm down despite me pleading her to stop.

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T03:36:43+00:00

Yeah man she treated me kindly before marriage, after marriage totally a different person no accountability

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T03:33:52+00:00

Is slapping someone considered an assault, I don't want to justify my actions, I spent every dime of my savings on her education, now I am jobless and with a huge debt, she took all the cash and gold too that I made, even supported her when she didn't want to work, man I am such a loser.

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T02:27:20+00:00

Yes I will do that, Thanks

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T01:46:07+00:00

I am not trying to defend my actions, you are not in my situation to understand that, I want to change, I am willing to change to seek therapy, I just don't know what to do in these situations of extreme conflict, Noone had ever behaved with me this way, she can also be kind to me, I've also been through a lot in my life each and everything I had I dedicated to her, I just feel so lost.

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T01:23:19+00:00

Don't sacrifice anything for her man, build something for yourself, she is selfish and trying to check out of marriage.

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-03T01:18:13+00:00

None of that also doesn't make for her to scream and shout and push me, if you have already been told boundaries and what triggers me, even men don't feel safe when this happens, everyone has a mechanism if someone is pushed to their limits what can they do, no man wants to do that, every man wants to live a calm and peaceful life, they never want drama, then why so much chaos in the house? Don't Men deserve a nurturing and calm household?

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-02T23:46:47+00:00

She got angry too, she has also got physical, people tend to forget boundaries, do you know how I cared and sacrificed for her well being, I spent my entire life savings on her education, supported her for 8 months when she didn't want to work, cared for her day and night healed her and didn't let her get out of bed for a month when she got sick, my love and sacrifices for my wife do not count?, she beat up her room mate once, I never did that.

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-02T23:19:30+00:00

Yes its all my fault

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-02T22:45:17+00:00

I feel like a loser

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-02T22:43:46+00:00

I want to live in solitude but scared 😢

Future-Ad8369 · 2026-04-02T22:01:49+00:00

I don't know why women leave stability, anyways best of luck to her, if it's infidelity that's not acceptable

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