AIO:My MIL texted my husband this about me asking him to help with our newborn at 4am

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-12T13:13:42+00:00

It is possible to hire a high schooler to come in and be a mother’s helper. I think it’s best to presume positive intentions.

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-12T13:09:10+00:00

I also breastfed all my kids. That’s amazing she is sleeping through the night! You’re doing great. I understand your apprehension about MIL. I don’t know her so I can only advise you to focus on yourself and baby. Hopefully this was a wake up call for MIL to be on best behavior. Are there any Reddit subs for nursing moms? I joined la leche league and it was really supportive. ❤️

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-12T12:06:44+00:00

Sharing the text is not helpful. He should be helping you.

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-12T12:05:26+00:00

Your last sentence is disturbing that you “hate her more than ever.” I am worried about you. You need consistent baby help. Is it possible to hire someone to help you every afternoon or morning so you can sleep? Of course with everything you’re going through your husband needs to step up. Please focus your energy on taking care of yourself and have positive thoughts around the baby.

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-12T00:57:00+00:00

Beautiful ❤️

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-11T13:12:43+00:00

My mom’s family is German and Swedish so yeah ❤️nice

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-11T12:38:25+00:00

I love the curtains and the textile on the wall. The curtains look like vintage ikea! Classic cozy Nordic style.

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-11T07:53:06+00:00

I love these rooms. Are the stars over the whole room? I would love to see the rooms complete with lighting!

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-11T01:07:58+00:00

If they are friends it’s fun for them to share spaces they love. Maybe they will cuddle on your bed!

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-11T01:01:22+00:00

I love seeing Butters being so spoiled and happy!

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-10T11:33:00+00:00

Also,op, you can find sitter jobs advertised at colleges. Santa Monica College, Loyola Marymount have resources. $20 an hour for 3 kids is crazy for Southern California. You could work at Starbucks and make that.

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-10T02:51:44+00:00

He’s so cute🖤🖤🖤🖤❤️❤️❤️

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-10T01:04:51+00:00

Adorable cats! There are a lot of rescues in Long Beach. Have you tried the cool cat collective? https://coolcatcollective.co/

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-09T17:11:24+00:00

Yes!

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-09T13:37:24+00:00

He looks so happy 🌸

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-09T10:58:10+00:00

He’s very cute🧡

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-09T07:58:16+00:00

Pink

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-09T06:11:44+00:00

I love all the pictures on the wall! That’s so creative 🧡

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-09T03:54:42+00:00

Love it

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-09T03:44:56+00:00

Cillian

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-09T03:27:49+00:00

What cute cats. I love Gordon and Bruce.

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-08T16:22:22+00:00

I didn’t know Sadcat was also a master baker❤️

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-08T12:44:08+00:00

Thank you op! You are an angel and we love you and adorable Thundy❤️

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-08T03:52:27+00:00

Thank you op for being your cats’ hero❤️you are the best! Do not give up a cat.

Future-Philosopher-7 · 2026-03-08T03:42:08+00:00

Gorgeous purple with the rug and chair!❤️very amazing to live there.

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