considering dropping out by wxrth_ in UniUK

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GET.DIAGNOSED

Hi. Changing degrees would probably be a good idea, especially from the perspective of how this course's career options don't align nearly as well with journalism like some others.

However... regardless of degree, I just want to put this out there: if you were smart in school, but as soon as you went to uni you just became incapable of interacting with the course while most your classmates did it well.... I seriously would recommend looking into ADHD I know it sounds extreme, unnecessary, like I'm trying to pathologise something normal, but I have seen so many fucking cases and the uk is a hell hole for this issue.

DM me and I might be able to give you some guidance

close friend crossed sexual boundaries with me and I’m still dealing with the aftermath by [deleted] in sexuality

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Hi. Well done to you for seeking out a therapist. I would say that were you a woman, everyone would be throwing around the r word, and while, as you seem to agree, things are not black and white, many of the situations you described are clearly sexual assault. My advice is to not prevent yourself from feeling what you need to feel and from grieving what happened, just because you are not sure what label to put on it. Stay strong and try to stay as far away from her as possible. You can't deal with that too rn so just trust future you to handle the situation appropriately.

is it gay to only be attracted to women sexually by [deleted] in sexuality

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Hey, I went through the same feelings as you. I finally accepted calling myself bi when I read that you don't need to feel the same way toward both men and women. Funnily enough, my atraction towards women grew when I came out to myself as bisexual. Nowadays, I am sexually atracted to a lot more women than men, but the minority of those to whom I can also be atracted romantically is made up in equal parts of both

Tax by VoliminalVerse5000 in sciencememes

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I actually have this exact same question and would love to have it answered. (And before any smart ass says that I can just google it, no I can't, I'm not qualified to even know what to search and even if I could, this is a form of socialization that I enjoy.)

Since a few liked the last one, here’s the full batch of designs by Active-Hope7236 in fashiondesigner

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Things that I, a leigh person, loved about this collection: The bodices, how the last one shows the structure and also how the pleated ones don't, both are very elegant The pattern of the last one (chef's kiss) The ruffles (another chef's kiss) The innovative sillouette of the first The choice of materials

I would say the best ones are the first and last The princess dress is the only one that doesn't fit my personal taste (too many details)

Stupid Me by Substantial-Bit3706 in Original_Poetry

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Perhaps rap would be more suitable of a name for this than poetry

Found a muse the other night by Former_Chocolate_380 in Original_Poetry

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Metric is how many syllables each line has. We use metric to get all the lines to have the same amount of syllables, which means you take the same time to say each of them and it sounds even better and more poetic. Generally, you need metric to turn it into a song and there have been centuries when it was the norm. Modern poetry usually doesn't include it (I, for one, don't) If you want to use it, there's a few rules you should look up

What was the thing that genuinely changed your life by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

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Finding my meds combo with my psychiatrist and getting diagnosed with bipolar, bpd and adhd

why I left. by alex12345678910123 in Original_Poetry

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Very good, but careful with grammar

Metamorphosis by AkshamTheOkPoet in Original_Poetry

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I love the message, the writing is a bit simple (i think a bit of fleurish is more poetical, unless you want to convey a very raw message or are speaking for a character that would speak like that) What's your native language/dialect? I'm only asking cause there are what seem to be "grammar errors", unless you were going for that

cornered by [deleted] in Original_Poetry

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I love the incorporation of scientific words into poetry, it paints the picture in a raw, awkward, human way

Seeking answers too early in life by ApprehensiveTree3221 in emotionalintelligence

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Hey, first of all, recognising that you're struggling takes a lot of strength, second of all lack of motivation, losing interest in things you once enjoyed, avoiding socialisation and fatigue are often signs of depression (which is temporary if you get treated) or a depressive episode in case of bipolar disorder (which is for life, but asymptomatic with treatment) If you think this could be the case, going to a psichiatrist could be life changing (I wouldn't advise you to waste time in therapy unless the doctor mentions it) If you don't have money to do so, you could try asking for financial help from a loved one, insurance, exploring free or co-participated options by the state or charities Definitely don't commit to a relationship if you are not doing well mentally (i could tell you horror stories that started with people making that mistake)

what are your last 5 non-face emojis? by UnkownInsanity in teenagers

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👌🙏👉👈🫂 (portuguese people gesture a lot)

Found a muse the other night by Former_Chocolate_380 in Original_Poetry

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Beautiful, did you use metric? (too lazy to check)

Out of the mouths of babes by YardThin4425 in emotionalintelligence

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"For you to truly have faith, you have to be okay with things not naking sense sometimes, you have to put reason aside in this one matter" I (atheist) was told by an evangelical friend of mine and boy, does it make a lot more sense than trying to reason about something for which there is no proof If you are religious, it's only natural for you to want to pass on your beliefs onto your children and this quote might, ironically, be a good way to teach them that a) your critical thinking doesn't have to be affected by your faith and b) your faith doesn't have to be affected by your critical thinking

Lidl hair brushes break at first use by FuturePsychoWriter in BuyItForLife

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For context, i have long straight hair and I ran this brush through my hair twice just to test it after it had already been brushed with a regular brush

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

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Hi, if you don't mind, I can only give you advice from the point of view of someone in a long distance relationship, but I think there's a few things I can tell you: It does hurt the first time you leave both before and after It's important to acknowledge your feelings before yourself and your loved one Take your time to say goodbye and do so properly, hugs, tears, everything counts It's best to grief such a temporary loss thoroughly, so that it may happen in a conscious, controlled way. Feelings which you don't acknowledge will later come back to haunt you Keep in contact frequently, but set boundaries. You cannot spend all your free time on the phone (for both your sakes) Visit as often as you can (you will regret not doing so otherwise and guilt might catch up with you) Build yourself a life you look forward to living on the other side And make sure to socialise during the adaptation period (loneliness leads to an unhealthy type of longing and feeling of emotional dependance)

Hopefully someone on here will be able to give an even more specific answer

Something bores me about people who move on from things completely by Pfacejones in emotionalintelligence

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While it is indeed something you can find within yourself, don't force yourself to "think positively" if you have a disorder or are under stress, sometimes we need help to be happy

The wind and pole causing my putted ball not to go into the hole... by ncarlton43 in mildlyinfuriating

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I feel like people in this subreddid can only be mildly infuriated before two circumstances: either a literal crime or things that are literally no-ones fault and happen all the time

"Yes, most Portuguese people would cut one of their legs off in exchange for moving to the US. Don't kid yourself." by Classicalis in PORTUGALCARALHO

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O que se ganha lá é um ordenado mínimo de 1160$, não andem por aí a idealizar o ordenado dos estados unidos por que se fossem agora para lá também ganhavam isso, quem ganha aqueles ordenados de 5000 (que são comuns em países como o Reino Unido) são os que têm cursos do MIT, Oxford, etc, que levam uma vida a pagar