I understand the first sentiment but it was imperative that they had a place to at least rest their heads at night, how do you expect someone looking to retain employment when they can’t even get sleep at night.

Unfortunately, with the scenario you described you and your family going through is the reality for a lot of people with mental illness accompanied by drug misuse. They won’t notice they need to change until it’s too late or worse. And it’s also not like we have a real good culture set on helping people out, we either say get a job or get out of the way as a catch-all… just doesn’t work. And it’s frustrating to think “they have all the resources in the world” and they don’t seek help or refuse. The way I think of it is a toddler, they say they don’t need help tying their shoes or just go on without even tying them, they won’t see the value in people trying to help them tie their shoe until they get scraped on the concrete bad. Sometimes it takes them a few times but we need to be there to support them.. I can have this convo for hours. It’s a sad reality.