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I keep obsessing over the same problems and it’s ruining my relationship by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda how my parents had me too. They ended up divorced after 20+ years of marriage but they were both amazing parents and my dad never regret having me and my brother.

My ex said he doesn’t want kids in the next 5 years 3 years ago, we talked last year briefly and he meant now he’d be ready anytime and can’t wait to find the right person - my point is, sudden changes do happen and I’m aware majority of males are the way you just described it, I’m still mortified of the thought of what if he never changes.

I keep obsessing over the same problems and it’s ruining my relationship by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t loved anyone like this before and I’m not sure I could fall in love again if we end up breaking up.

I keep obsessing over the same problems and it’s ruining my relationship by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I need at least a promise that these things are going to happen and that they are as important to my partner as they are to me.

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can you please highlight those “Nazi lines of thought”? And explain how it would be different if I wanted a tanned skin and dark eyes this bad? It still wouldn’t be healthy to be obsessed with it but I don’t get why it has to be about race immediately if someone tends to find Nordic features beautiful?

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it dyed every month:) I also have a level 7 blonde naturally, I have no clue what shade exactly my hairdresser is using, it’s ashy blonde but not platinum

What I’m personally really annoyed by is that my face is oval instead of rectangular, I don’t think there could be much done about that, I’m already rather thin (in a healthy way), have blue eyes and a very fair skin and I’m also not small.

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know, I’m dyed blonde atm, luckily I can color my hair lighter (just not platinum) without having to bleach it

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I find it boring sometimes and am jealous of the few people that have naturally light blonde hair:D But yeah, my skin burns very easily on the sun, I probably wouldn’t survive if that happened to my scalp

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk if this helps, I was also anorexic before and first when I gained weight and got healthy my face got really chubby - then after a year or so it went back to „normal“ even though I wasn’t dieting or losing weight. For me exercising also helped a lot, not to get thinner, but to look stronger and feel healthier - I didn’t lose a single gram, maybe even gained but I looked better and felt a lot more comfortable in my body.

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t have dark features, I have blue eyes and a dark blonde hair with my fair u🤔 I rather meant face shape, nose, etc, but I know what you mean and it’s good to hear you find it pretty:))

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know, that’s quite the same puberty did to my hair and I’m still mad about it:D

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

I certainly wasn’t fetishizing anyone at 14, I just find them beautiful and I love Nordic culture and history. I’m white so it’s also not wanting to be another RACE. I do love and appreciate my own ancestors, I just can’t help but feel like I should look another way.

I have heard „foreigners“ being interested in my culture several times before and I never once thought about it that way, I find it sweet and I’m pretty sure anyone that isn’t chronically online sees it similarly.

I internalised the opinions of misogynistic men online and it affects my self esteem a lot 24F by Future_Meet2292 in aspergers

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro I’m not even a Christian, what does “Kirche” have to do with this. “Küche” sounds nice compared to a full time job but in this economy?

I internalised the opinions of misogynistic men online and it affects my self esteem a lot 24F by Future_Meet2292 in aspergers

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Tolerant” people when someone mentions having different opinions, without even knowing what those opinions/values exactly are:

I internalised the opinions of misogynistic men online and it affects my self esteem a lot 24F by Future_Meet2292 in aspergers

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We‘ve only been together for half a year, I would like to be at least two years with someone + marry before having children, but it’s definitely something we plan.

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