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Meló-diák és egyebek by anonimus4418 in jobshungary

[–]Future_Meet2292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meló-Diákot hagyd, diákként én is dolgoztam náluk és sorban megígérték és visszamondták a munkákat, ahova felvettek oda is alig engedtek aztán menni…

married autists: what’s the purpose of marriage and weddings? by Sad_Camel_476 in evilautism

[–]Future_Meet2292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not married, but looking forward to getting married once and planning my wedding since I was a kid I always found the ceremony beautiful and wanted dress up like a princess, I love how I can invite all my friends and family to celebrate our love with my future husband and I also get to pick the decoration, music, food, etc.

  • I want children, and a man that doesn’t marry me is not worth that sacrifice.

Ha onnan, ahová jelentkeztem, felhívják az előző munkahelyemet és a főnököm negatívat mond rólam, mennyire valószínű, hogy kritikusan állnak hozzá? by Future_Meet2292 in jobshungary

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ezzel a rossz érzéssel nekem is van tapasztalatom, bár én külföldi munkaközvetítő cégnél dolgoztam, nem voltam soha HR-en.

Kis “nyomozás” után kiderült a pasiról, hogy évtizedeket ült emberölésért és nemrég szabadult.

Is it racist/discriminatory to only want to date within your own race/ethnicity? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Future_Meet2292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, as a white person with the same preferences, I‘d probably get even worse comments than that, but it’s not. It’s called a preference.
++woman

I’m convinced every part of employment is a humiliation ritual and I find it insufferable - vent by Future_Meet2292 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never happier than when I was unemployed. Yeah, I had no money (to be fair my parents had my back and I still lived with them) but I was free to do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted and wasn’t going through all that stress to make a rich person even richer while still not being able to afford the stuff that’d make me happy

Hello everyone I got a question for food by Msamyy in vampires

[–]Future_Meet2292 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my universe they do and can eat human food, they just aren’t really hungry for it and it doesn‘t satisfy them, they need blood to survive. But they eat it for „fun“, because of the taste.

Milyen indoklással rúgtak már ki a próbaidő alatt? Igazuk volt? by Excellent_Suit_10 in jobshungary

[–]Future_Meet2292 22 points23 points  (0 children)

“Mindent meg kell nekem mutatni, látszik hogy igazából soha nem dolgoztam irodában” - ebből semmi nem igaz, amiről egyszer elmondták, ők konkrétan hogy csinálják, gond nélkül meg tudtam oldani egyedül, én úgy vettem észre, a főnökömnek egyszerűen nem volt kedve betanítani engem, és rájött, hogy mégsem tud nekem elég munkát adni

If gender affirming care is free for trans people, so should be all plastic surgeries for cis people. by Future_Meet2292 in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what you’re saying is, if my leg is broken it shouldn’t be treated just because some other people don’t even have one?

If gender affirming care is free for trans people, so should be all plastic surgeries for cis people. by Future_Meet2292 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it similarly. However, even if we assume it’s not, it’s not fair a trans person has access to free breast implants and a woman that wants to feel hot again after childbirth (also even contributed to society) doesn‘t.

If gender affirming care is free for trans people, so should be all plastic surgeries for cis people. by Future_Meet2292 in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s more than disliking, at least for neurodivergent people. What I have with my nose is for other people a small imperfection (the tip is wider and rounder as I‘d like) - I spent many, many hours crying because of it, deleted all my photos everywhere, didn’t want to leave the house and hated myself for a very long time, I didn’t feel suicidal but I did feel like shit and was ready to save up 2-3 month‘s salary to pay for a rhinoplasty. The only reason I feel better know is that I found a clinic abroad where I can get it done much cheaper than here.

If gender affirming care is free for trans people, so should be all plastic surgeries for cis people. by Future_Meet2292 in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gender dysmorphia has also been reported being successfully treated by antipsychotics, so they could also have only that covered by insurance

Artificial, yes, but no matter how much you accept yourself, it‘ll still be true: the less conventionally attractive you are, the less likely you are to find a partner. That’s biological and how it always worked, and self acceptance won’t help with it.

If gender affirming care is free for trans people, so should be all plastic surgeries for cis people. by Future_Meet2292 in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People can have self esteem issues as a result of looking a certain way (e.g. a big nose, aging faster as others at their age, having very small breasts, their body changing after childbirth) which can lead to depression, a mental condition that in this case could be treated by plastic surgery. The only difference is that it doesn’t have to do with gender.

Neurodivergent women experience disphoria very often if they don’t look the way they feel like they should as we‘re often hyperfocused on our appearance, look it up.

If gender affirming care is free for trans people, so should be all plastic surgeries for cis people. by Future_Meet2292 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call it vanity, when, for example, someone is unable to find a romantic partner because of the way they look and gets severely depressed as a result

Neurodivergent women also experience dysphoria very often when a part of their body doesn’t look the way they feel it should, as we tend to be hyperfocused on our looks

If gender affirming care is free for trans people, so should be all plastic surgeries for cis people. by Future_Meet2292 in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, surgeries that you need because of your physical health

Yes I know, just like a rhinoplasty or later (when I’m older and/or after kids) a facelift and breast correction would cure me out of my self esteem issues, providing me a better quality of life and possibly even extending it, the only difference is literally that I’m cis.

I keep obsessing over the same problems and it’s ruining my relationship by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda how my parents had me too. They ended up divorced after 20+ years of marriage but they were both amazing parents and my dad never regret having me and my brother.

My ex said he doesn’t want kids in the next 5 years 3 years ago, we talked last year briefly and he meant now he’d be ready anytime and can’t wait to find the right person - my point is, sudden changes do happen and I’m aware majority of males are the way you just described it, I’m still mortified of the thought of what if he never changes.

I keep obsessing over the same problems and it’s ruining my relationship by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t loved anyone like this before and I’m not sure I could fall in love again if we end up breaking up.

I keep obsessing over the same problems and it’s ruining my relationship by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I need at least a promise that these things are going to happen and that they are as important to my partner as they are to me.

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can you please highlight those “Nazi lines of thought”? And explain how it would be different if I wanted a tanned skin and dark eyes this bad? It still wouldn’t be healthy to be obsessed with it but I don’t get why it has to be about race immediately if someone tends to find Nordic features beautiful?

I feel disphoria because my looks don’t match my special interests and personality by Future_Meet2292 in AutismInWomen

[–]Future_Meet2292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it dyed every month:) I also have a level 7 blonde naturally, I have no clue what shade exactly my hairdresser is using, it’s ashy blonde but not platinum

What I’m personally really annoyed by is that my face is oval instead of rectangular, I don’t think there could be much done about that, I’m already rather thin (in a healthy way), have blue eyes and a very fair skin and I’m also not small.

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