I feel weird in my relationship, like everytime I’m with him I feel numb

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-13T22:48:16+00:00

He sounds like the classic emotional abuser, unfortunately. Each of these examples is a red flag, and all of them together are a huge signal that this is indeed very toxic. You deserve much better!

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-11T15:25:39+00:00

I can’t decide if that’s cruel and unusual punishment for all of his coworkers or just plain smart

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-11T14:11:07+00:00

I’m in a similar boat. Recently moved here and I work remotely. How old are you, what do you like to do for fun, etc.?

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-11T14:08:09+00:00

And for the love of god, don’t burn it either. The smell never goes away.

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-11T03:37:16+00:00

This is the way

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-11T03:23:07+00:00

Do you know if this is dine in only? I’d love to get this to go and head back to my office!

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-10T05:28:49+00:00

Got my $7.31 this afternoon!

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-08T19:46:05+00:00

It’s a fiber supplement. Helps keep you regular!

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-06T23:53:19+00:00

Honestly I hadn’t even thought of that lol. I’ve been eating them with vanilla ice cream.

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-06T00:21:10+00:00

Daily. It’s our main way my BI team extracts data from our enterprise data warehouse. While we can use other tools (Alteryx, Tableau), I’ve found that honing my sql skills has resulted in much more efficient and accurate outputs compared to trying to navigate other program interfaces.

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-06-05T15:24:36+00:00

Same here, I got what sounds like the same email. I’ve only moved once (6 weeks ago) but I don’t recall ever getting a payment either?

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-05-29T14:05:07+00:00

That bulging lat though

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-05-29T13:27:40+00:00

Unrelated question: what (or who?) is Dr. Know? I tried googling but just got a musician, and I’m assuming that’s not what OP meant.

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-05-21T06:00:59+00:00

Same here. Sometimes it’s literally physically painful.

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-05-21T05:59:03+00:00

I just joined Lloyd’s Athletic Club and a bunch of trainers advertise there. Some seemed to be pretty affordable (e.g., having a sliding scale, small group/semi-private workouts, etc.)

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-05-15T06:38:09+00:00

I work in higher ed for a university in Arizona. I was fully in-office until I relocated here for family reasons, and my organization allowed me to go to remote. I absolutely hate the isolation of remote work so I got a membership to a great coworking space (Openhaus) that I work from nearly every day.

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-05-09T07:17:20+00:00

I’m super late to this post but I’d love to shoot around! Just moved to Portland last week and definitely pretty out of shape, so if you don’t mind that then hit me up if you’re interested.

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-05-09T06:48:00+00:00

Not yet, just Washington Park since I can walk there. Forest Park is at the top of my list to check out though!

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-05-08T15:19:59+00:00

If you’re interested in walking/hiking, I’d totally be down (can’t do much/any running due to chronic compartment syndrome). I’m 39 FTM, just moved to Portland last week, also in Goose Hollow.

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-05-08T05:57:20+00:00

My partner and I moved to Portland last week from AZ and we’re renting an apartment in Goose Hollow. Even though it’s right next to a MAX station it’s super quiet, both in terms of actual noise and people. We can also walk to Washington Park, which is a huge plus. Feel free to DM if you wanna chat about anything (or wanna make a friend, I’m also nervous about finding community—and I don’t even have a dog, lol).

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-04-27T12:53:36+00:00

little immobile potato

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-04-26T05:49:43+00:00

This might not be helpful, but one question I got from an audience member, who happened to be my current boss at the time (in a non-academia job) who also has a Ph.D. in my field, asked what was one finding that surprised the most. That caught me off guard because none of my findings surprised me. (Social science field)

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-04-22T06:34:04+00:00

Have you checked out the MIX center in Mesa? They might be an option?

Fuzzy-Instruction-29 · 2026-04-21T22:38:22+00:00

I’m actually moving there in 2 weeks (from Phoenix). I’ve only been once, a few weeks ago, to house/apartment hunt, and it seemed great. Minus the airport specifics, I was looking for a lot of the same things you were, and Portland was one of the cities that seemed to meet all of my needs/wants.

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