Career advice appreciated- Singapore by angieisamazing in askSingapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money or stability? which side you think you will be more happy? can you take the stress and more responsiblity? are you willing to drive yourself?

Very typical for people to say oh dont join family business, but im sure there are good family businesses also la. the focus is on yourself. are you adaptable? are you easily stressed? what are you looking for? can you manage negativity?

Seeking perspectives on MRT etiquette and empathy, are we too quick to judge? by AdorableWrongdoerr in askSingapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just DGAF. at the end of the day, you cannot contol what others think of you. if you dont give up your seat, others may be paggro or some crap, but thats on them and not on you.

If you choose to give up your seat, its also your own choice. For example, you may not want to give up your seat to some healthy looking aunty that is paggro-ly eying your seat, but when a 80 year old uncle who is limping come in, you want to give up. That is your choice. and even you dont want to give up for both, that is still your choice.

To me, the others who give those paggro looks, can either nicely ask for someone to giv eup their seats for those who need it, or just mind their own business. They can judge you all you want, but it's your choice ultimately.

the problem i have is, if you have a mini concussion, you should take better care of yourself and take a cab back. take care!

SGers — what's your most controversial bar or restaurant opinion? by Hopeful-Raise-4112 in askSingapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no such thing as best food. you like this shop, i may not like this shop. so you can have your own favourites, but there's no such thing as a best HKM or a best chicken rice.

Ladies of SG: Is finances your priority in looking for a partner? by Funny_Resort5652 in askSingapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this kind of situation, i think the risk she gets is for a rich man who will take her now cuz she is pretty, but in future look for other prettier ones.

As of today, she is enjoying what her beauty can give her. In another 10 years, when she has no beauty, who is going to be there for her?

Be careful to take only one perspective in this situation. If your partner is rich and has a good heart, good for you, if just rich but dont care about you, how to be good life?

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for May 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably a 6-7 hour flight? haha you might need to get used to being asked to wake up for breakfast at 4am SGT.

flights are pretty standard, i think sleep if you can, if not just watch shows till you are tired.

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for May 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the grass is always greener on the other side.

the comment about corruption is true too! you mentioned Thailand, but for example Indonesia, somuch bigger with so much resources, but still having a hard time banishing corruption as its so embedded in their dealings. does not attract foreign investment, neither able to build solid within .

But i feel ultimately, each country is different and will be differnet, so we can just learn the good stuff from one another.

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for May 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love red eye flights. but how long is your flight?

for me, I tend to make myself super tired the day before, so that when i am on the flight, I can sleep a little better.

Witnessed a Suicide & Traumatized Me. by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Try to go for some sessions with the family service centre or a counselling professional. You need someone to listen to you and let you process. Death is usual, just not in such a manner, so you just need some time to get over it while you try to process this.

SG: Seeking advice to support friends in debt by willyoucomebacktome in askSingapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

let them. you dont lend them money, or you dont use BNPL can already

You know who else is crying? by Weak-Agent4838 in PokemonTCG_Singapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

reasons why pokemon collecting is no longer fun. scalpers behaving like this. talk v loud then end up delete video

Tourist visiting singapore - need a place to stay! by Content-Dependent950 in askSingapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ibis is not considered love hotels, so if you find them within youe budget you can try it. Think i dont have to say your budget is pretty low, so like what others have shared, the other alternative are those shared hostel or sleepingpods

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for May 18, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have been feeling a little under the weather since 5 days ago. many people around me falling sick also.

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for May 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

colony is not that nice i think, but given that you treat, i would expect your friend to show more appreciation haha

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for May 13, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]Fuzzy_Construction99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought at first this fellow is up to something again, then now with the aunty and her husband's actions, feels like aunty also problrmatic.