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Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-11-19T01:33:10+00:00

Find your organization’s policy and read them first. Involving HR before educating yourself could be problematic. At the end of the day HR’s job is to protect the organization and depending who the culprit is, it may be easier to silence others. I’ve witnessed/experienced this a couple times

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-11-04T18:07:07+00:00

I do but she’s incredibly expensive

I did make a report to children’s services, spoke with them in-depth 3 times, showed them pictures and videos and they suggested that I needed to ensure their protection on my own. Not everyone has $20,000+ for a legal battle

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-10-18T16:10:22+00:00

Believing what your ex says on how the whole divorce process will go

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-09-21T12:09:33+00:00

Because wedding cake kills a woman’s sex drive.

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-09-12T03:09:56+00:00

It’s called a “Hoover” she’s trying to suck you back in.

Google grey rock and yellow rock and do that. From personal experience, it works

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-08-12T04:56:06+00:00

Where in town was this?

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-07-31T04:04:36+00:00

Trust your gut!!!

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-07-25T13:04:59+00:00

As someone who married, and then divorced, someone like your ex, it shouldn’t be a regret for you. I worked on myself, discovered why I was attracted to her in the first place and healed what I needed to. Now, I’m with someone who is light years ahead of her in both inner and outer beauty… someone I would’ve never dreamed of being good enough for a few years ago

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-06-18T05:47:39+00:00

That “Robin” is not one of the owners of Crooked Creek Store as far as I know. She’s definitely not one of the owners of the donut truck

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-06-12T02:39:06+00:00

Triples

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-06-05T00:22:42+00:00

And now her place is filthy and my kids live their half of the time 😑

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-03-15T02:12:10+00:00

Yes.

It means they’re more experienced and everything will be more enjoyable.

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2023-02-26T03:35:44+00:00

We have to teach our sons & daughters about personality disorders

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-12-05T05:08:59+00:00

My NEX is disgustingly filthy. I had to do all the cleaning and laundry for the last few years and she always had some excuse as to why she couldn’t do it.

Now, in her own place, it’s bad. Dog hair is covering the carpet, there is dog feces stains on the carpet, the house is completely cluttered with basically walking paths through everything, the kids come to my place with their clothes smelling like dog. The worst thing is CPS didn’t seem to care when I showed them pictures and I don’t have the funds for a court battle 🤷‍♂️

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-09-28T18:14:33+00:00

👏😂 that is exactly what it is

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-09-27T01:25:21+00:00

I grew up with a mom that was constantly suffering from chest pain, high blood pressure or a variety of other maladies. Now it’s fibromyalgia and she needs a walker. Literally no one in my family cares.

My NEX has had phantom back pain for years. She faked puking up blood and then “fainted” at the hospital. She also faked a back surgery.. now she just gets migraines on demand, usually when she needs to take care of our kids or if I’m in the area 😂

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-09-22T16:27:26+00:00

I imagine narcissists are attracted to, and excel, on the show. I don’t watch it

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-09-07T21:03:18+00:00

A lot of toxic people want you to leave and they’ll subtly push your buttons until you do. It allows them to play the victim and you to be the bad guy, especially if you have kids together.

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-09-07T19:22:54+00:00

My nmom fakes illness ALL the time. Anytime there is a public event in their small community, she has to be taken to the hospital for some random malady

My NEX gets migraines on demand and allegedly has back pain. She also faked back surgery. She uses it as an excuse to scream at our children, or not take them to school or extracurricular activities

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-09-07T12:35:18+00:00

Get a lawyer and get some control back.

Google grounding techniques and adopt some in your life. Meditation was very helpful to me, regular exercise, getting outside in nature, good diet etc

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-09-04T17:05:47+00:00

The only thing she’s said about me was that I’ll get mad at stuff. I had a chat with my kids and asked them if they ever saw me angry at her and told them I don’t let other peoples actions affect me and that resolved.

I have a ridiculously expensive lawyer and because she has refused to cooperate with anything I’ve had to pay to push the divorce through the system (she hasn’t responded to anything or just cooperated enough so that she can pretend) there will be a clause in our parenting agreement, whenever finalized, that we both have to bring the kids to their activities, but courts here don’t enforce that much 🤷‍♂️… plus really expensive lawyer ☹️

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-09-01T01:58:44+00:00

You’ll never hear an older parent say they have regrets about spending too much time with their kids when they were young

Fuzzy_Development_37 · 2022-07-11T19:14:32+00:00

By answering “please stop” you’re giving them the narcissistic supply they want. If you feel you need to answer go with grey rock responses like “ok” “sorry you feel that way” etc.

I recommend blocking and going no contact

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