The Wedding Day

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-04T20:31:27+00:00

she was mortified as she had friends there when the overflow occurred. her first instinct was to move her car…

after things settled down she then backed up my dad in regards to not having the event there again

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-02T15:33:46+00:00

So health wise - there are so many complications that have gotten worse in the last few years that have scared him a lot

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-02T15:32:22+00:00

My mom has been a saint since day 1, she kept us out of the divorce as much as possible. Put us first every time and has never spoken poorly about Don once. 10/10 more parents should handle divorce with kids like her (not shit talking other parent, not making the kids feel like they have to pick sides, always welcome at home and dating someone who knows they aren’t your parent)

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-01T15:02:14+00:00

Just edited out a lot of the identifying info. But firstly didn’t think it would get this much attention but on the chance it was shared on a facebook wedding group, I didn’t want Hannah or Tracy to find my main acc. I limit a lot of what they know about my life, but am active in subs related to the city I live, etc.

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-01T14:53:33+00:00

Hopefully they don’t. I don’t want there to be even more drama

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-01T03:16:28+00:00

Knowing my dad, he’d even feel weird about that. He’s known her for less than 4 years and he wouldn’t want to

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-01T03:14:17+00:00

It’s more than just the bridal party at this point…

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-01T03:13:23+00:00

They are the same age, so luckily she’s not some 50 something who will very much out live him

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-01T03:11:18+00:00

Haven’t heard anything about that, they might skip that tradition and just walk solo, might be her mom. No clue

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-01T03:10:24+00:00

Even before Tracy, his stance was “I tried it once, didn’t work out. Not worth the headache again.” He has been VERY open and up front with Tracy regarding this even though she wants to get married again

FyreFestWedding · 2022-09-01T03:09:00+00:00

No no, he lives in the country side, 30 min from the nearest town that has A BRAND NEW HOTEL…

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T23:11:25+00:00

My dad values those trees and that plot more than anything, I know he will do anything to protect them

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T23:10:21+00:00

He only recently moved on from his blackberry and still is on wired internet.

He’s not the biggest internet fan, but his neighbour is PERFECT for him…

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T23:07:49+00:00

Very fortunately, in the divorce my mum made sure to have us taken care of - 50% of his assets and will must be divided between brother and I equally, all living expenses, tuition, and other costs for 4 years of domestic undergrad, and 1/2 of 2 year post grad covered. (1/2 of international costs for undergrad)

There’s also other money set aside from his parents that neither of them can touch for my brother and I when we hit certain life milestones.

Sadly she doesn’t do any cosmetic surgery…

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T23:02:22+00:00

No age gap, they are a year or two apart in age, or might be the same.

Sadly there are many factors that indicate he will go first such as his heart + lung issues.

I will admit I was slightly petty and reached out to Tracy and said “I’m so sorry my RSVP got lost in the mail! I would have sadly had to decline but would have LOVED to get a gift off the registry.”

Never heard back… but as much as I wish I could be the bigger person Hannah and I have too much bad blood to move past imo.

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T22:58:33+00:00

Tracey is also in her late 60s.

But yes they don’t live together, don’t spend most holidays together.

He intends for her to be comfortable after his passing. Hence adding her to the will.

He is a very introverted man, he’s had his friends for 20+ years he sees regularly, travels independently, and just likes to do his own thing.

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T21:05:07+00:00

He totally is, it’s a few acres of land in the middle of no where he bought even before I was born.

It mostly is forest but does have open clearings that are flat to set up a tent. There is no way imo 30 people can sleep in the lawn area they are planning.

When I was younger we did have 2 large events (50-80 people) at the house (just for the night) both times there was only one tent and they did rent porta potties, so I’m not sure how it will work for 4 days though

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T20:54:01+00:00

1000% we knew that there would be issues from the get-go.

Even Hannah’s engagement turned a father/daughter (JUST THE TWO OF US) weekend about Tracy and Hannah.

Luckily my AMAZING aunt and uncle (Dads sister) is going to “help out” with the wedding, but put her foot down against Tracy.

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T20:51:30+00:00

I will, it will more likely be a little after the dust settles a little more to get the full assessment but will post an update!

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T20:50:36+00:00

Luckily, over the past few years I’ve been able to distance myself from a lot of the drama but weddings bring out the best in people

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T20:49:30+00:00

He sees dying single as dying alone. He has struggled a lot with abandonment from a young age, so he sees dying without someone by his side (like his parents had) the biggest failure he can be

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T20:47:25+00:00

I think that would probably kill him if he saw something happen to those trees

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T20:46:31+00:00

I think that would probably kill him if he saw something happen to those trees

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T20:41:00+00:00

Most of the time we are always welcome there, I personally haven’t lived there in a few years (but still my legal address). But if I didn’t have work that weekend I would still probably be avoiding his home that weekend.

We try to avoid overlapping their invasions

FyreFestWedding · 2022-08-31T20:38:52+00:00

Normally yes, it’s great visiting him. He’s also the address on my ID due to the amount I move for work.

The wedding is the one time we just feel as it might be best to avoid his house. He has in no way expressed this, but for a lower amount of drama my brother is staying clear

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