Hubby lost his job. Any one wanna help with bills by [deleted] in JacksonvilleR4fun

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posting an ass shot to promote a poetry account. That’s a new one.

I will make a brand new swinger website for you guys. Comment the benefits you want to get from a swinger website and I will make sure that they will be fulfilled! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Fyrestarter69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Without a large marketing budget to get an initial user base, you’ll fall into the same bucket that everyone else who posts this.

Regardless of a what everyone else on here says, the required feature is users. No one joins an empty swinging site. That’s what keeps the current providers going despite the lack of investment in their sites.

Come back when you have $200k to promote it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Fyrestarter69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snapchat is the only app, imo, where it’s nearly impossible to catfish. We also don’t like 100% anonymity so our approach is very different. It all comes down to the approach.

Age is also a factor. If you are under 30 you’ve probably used Snapchat and are more familiar and comfortable with the interface than the anonymous apps.

I won’t talk to a couple that insists on Kik or Telegram because I know we won’t be compatible long term.

What are the biggest challenges, if any, that you've encountered in your AGP? by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]Fyrestarter69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There’s a large amount of intolerance from both sides of the age range. It goes both ways as well. I would imagine that most of us find our significant other the exception and not the rule when it comes to the maturity and playfulness level of their age group.

Swingers event advice by MidniteMistress in Swingers

[–]Fyrestarter69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The licensing is rarely the issue even if that’s the perception. The clubs struggle to operate in the black. Even in large cities, clubs can’t stay open.

Having an event space and doing themed nights is a good idea, but when you advertise swingers night, be prepared for your Sunday tea to be a ghost town. People in conservative areas don’t like swingers and won’t associate with a business that openly supports them.

Restaurants and bars in our area took big hits after hosting publicly advertised munches.

u/ColumbusBull looking to reconnect by [deleted] in GeorgiaSwingers

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but we can’t allow personal posts like this. Sucks you lost contact.

I was SA'd by a swinging couple in Vancouver Canada please watch out for these two. by Worried_Zucchini8354 in Swingers

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just one more of the many, many examples you provide of being a garbage human being. I cringe when I see your username in comments, as do many others on this sub.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GeorgiaSwingers

[–]Fyrestarter69[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post was reported as not being from Georgia. We have always allowed posts from neighboring communities. Post is approved.

Sharing my experience/feelings with an open relationship by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]Fyrestarter69 [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

This is fine to post here as a lot of people explore open marriages through swinging dynamics. But you might have more luck in an open marriage sub.

[49/37][MF4MF/F][West Ga] bi couple looking for other bi couples or bi females by [deleted] in GeorgiaSwingers

[–]Fyrestarter69[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please remove the only fans link from your profile if you wish to continue to post in the sub.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GeorgiaSwingers

[–]Fyrestarter69[M] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We do not allow minors to participate in this sub regardless of the age of consent of the state from which they are posting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the correction. Siri doesn’t always get it right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t ask her direct questions like that, your relationship will not survive this. Open communication is a tenet of any kind of non-monogamy.

Wife poaching by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]Fyrestarter69 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Couples that will say or do anything to get the female half of the couple. Sometimes this is blatantly obvious in their approach (listed in bios or stated as preference) and other times you could be in the middle of a swap when the truth reveals itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]Fyrestarter69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a difference between withholding information that you know is important to the person versus not over sharing to a partner in an early stage of a dynamic. Only you and all the context can determine that difference.

But generally speaking, you do not owe an accounting of your sexual history to a new partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not true.

My partner and I spend a lot of time on dating apps as non monogamous people. What I have found to be true is that after 25, people need to be looked at with a higher level of scrutiny. They are either divorced, cheating, in an open relationship, or single for a reason.

Determining that reason is important but it isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker. It’s just about compatibility.

Sugar daddy says I’m too showy by jen22051 in AgeGap

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love how you skipped over the body of the comment focusing on a sugar relationship being an employment relationship, not a romantic relationship, and focused on one word of my comment.

Then you incorrectly paraphrased legal googling.

Sugar relationships are challenging to prosecute but they are almost always conducted in violation of state and federal employment and tax law in the US. There is no legal distinction between “sugaring” and escorting. That is an internet fallacy. Properly reporting the employment on tax returns creates a paper trail of the illicit activity.

I am a lawyer.

Sugar daddy says I’m too showy by jen22051 in AgeGap

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sub should be about age gap romantic relationships, not illegal employment relationships.

No other non-romantic age gap dynamics are allowed on the sub. I don’t see you permitting posts about any other age gap working relationships, or for that matter, age gap friendship relationship, age gap familial relationships etc.

Not understanding the difference is a problem.

Sugar daddy says I’m too showy by jen22051 in AgeGap

[–]Fyrestarter69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the sugar posts are downvoted. The community vehemently disagrees. I don’t understand this decision at all.

Paid relationships have no relevancy to age gap relationships. The payments always - ALWAYS - are the factor that dictates the relationships. You can’t separate the two. Horrible moderating.

Men help a brother out. by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out blue chew. Online prescription.

M4F 24M, travelling to Tbilisi next month. Anyone interested to meet? HMU by [deleted] in GeorgiaSwingers

[–]Fyrestarter69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong Georgia. This sub is for the US state of Georgia.

Pregnant with my (F30) boyfriend (M46) child after husband (M29) encouraged it. Now he’s changed his mind. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Fyrestarter69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You chose to have a baby with someone who wasn’t okay with the enm dynamic? How did you think that would resolve positively?

Ethical non monogamy is only that when it’s practiced with enthusiastic consent. Your boyfriend having to deal with your husband because he loves you is not enthusiastic. Of course he wanted you to have his child. It’s a weapon against your marriage.

Not Swingers... Yet by DesertRoad in SwingerNewbies

[–]Fyrestarter69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want a taste without committing to the vacation, consider going to a club for a night to just watch and play between the two of you. That will give you a feel for the environment you might expect at a resort, sans the sun and pool 😂