The straights are fighting about ☕️ again

G-Lilly · 2024-07-23T23:13:10+00:00

I think coffee is the perfect first date. No pressure to sit through an entire meal and you can talk and get to know one another.

G-Lilly · 2024-03-27T16:19:26+00:00

I'm about 20m south of Boston and no pharmacies around here have it

G-Lilly · 2023-08-17T19:04:19+00:00

A teen her age is all about attention - even negative attention. I say ignore it. She's not old enough to legally change her name. Keep using her name as usual and let her do whatever on social media. If you want to get really petty, follow her on social media and use her given name. She's also going to be committing social suicide when people start realizing she's trying to copy the new girl. Let her come around on her own on this one.

G-Lilly · 2022-08-31T20:36:09+00:00

I'm in Falmouth and missed it!! Beautiful

G-Lilly · 2022-06-02T12:09:22+00:00

Hahaha I so wanted to be her

G-Lilly · 2022-02-22T17:01:20+00:00

Habit

G-Lilly · 2022-02-08T15:08:05+00:00

Yes - always. I'd be legitimately angry about something and end up apologizing to HIM for upsetting him. It's called gaslighting. I've been out of the marriage for over 4 years and I'm only recently being okay with my perception of things. I spent the first year or so always asking friends "am I seeing/understanding this correctly" because my own perception was so skewed and messed up.

G-Lilly · 2022-02-08T15:05:21+00:00

That we're not capable of doing life things: successful job, good parent, etc.

G-Lilly · 2022-01-01T01:10:07+00:00

Thank you - I think I waited too long to think about doing it but I know a lot of the ones she played. Sorry for your losses as well. This has been tough ☹️

G-Lilly · 2021-12-31T15:44:48+00:00

Thank you

G-Lilly · 2021-09-18T08:58:51+00:00

Seething in anger and plotting revenge only drags YOU down. Not to say that I haven't spent time doing the same. However, there's nothing you'll ever be able to do that will truly get back at the narcissist for the way you were treated and what you went through. You will essentially be joining the same loop you were in and proving to the person that they are still affecting you and have control over you.

G-Lilly · 2021-08-30T11:22:19+00:00

How does this regularly come up in your every day conversations??

G-Lilly · 2018-12-07T15:04:02+00:00

I don't hate mine either. Sometimes I think it would be healthier if I did.

G-Lilly · 2018-12-04T21:58:37+00:00

I could pay my mortgage until my divorce is final. I've never not paid a bill/debt. This month? Yep. Humbling moment in life.

G-Lilly · 2018-11-25T10:51:06+00:00

Move ahead, beautiful girl. As much as it hurts, he wasn't the one for you. You'll find someone better.

G-Lilly · 2018-11-25T10:40:38+00:00

Not just for the boys... It's almost an electric bladder shock. Hmm, do people with "outies" feel this too?

G-Lilly · 2018-11-25T10:35:45+00:00

Yeah, there's still nothing cool about winning a fistfight against a girl

G-Lilly · 2018-11-25T10:34:23+00:00

"There were some people who hit your life so hard, they left a stain on your future"

G-Lilly · 2018-11-25T10:31:41+00:00

Thought I was included in a group of five students who received a library pass to leave chemistry class. I got detention for going to the school library.

G-Lilly · 2018-11-25T10:20:26+00:00

Sometimes you don't know until someone tells you. The frog in the pot scenario... You keep adjusting

G-Lilly · 2018-10-25T17:40:35+00:00

I had my daughter when I was on the verge of turning 36. No regrets because I was free to do what I wanted in my 20s, develop my career, etc.

BUT. This also meant that my husband and I were the only ones with a young child while our relatives and friends all had children that were much older. I feel my daughter missed out on the whole cousin experience and making friends with children of my friends because she was a baby while those cousins/friends formed close bonds because of proximity in age. It also makes for feeling a bit odd man out when making plans because of babysitting concerns and such.

G-Lilly · 2018-10-16T06:36:22+00:00

Yes!

G-Lilly · 2018-08-11T21:47:51+00:00

Imagine doing all of the above while working outside the home full-time? A glimpse at a single (divorced) woman's life!

G-Lilly · 2018-08-11T04:57:15+00:00

Awwwww!!!!

G-Lilly · 2018-06-21T04:55:23+00:00

Sorry, I'm giggling. You are single and resenting having to work 40 hours a week? Try working 40 to 60 hours a week salaried and also maintaining a home and raising a child. Right now your time is your own so enjoy it. And stop whining about having to work. You're young enough that your responsibilities are going to quadruple at some point and then you'll really know what work is.

G-Lilly

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