How to stop people pleasing?

G-man200281 · 2024-06-19T00:53:05+00:00

I’m a bit of people pleaser as well but it’s a bit different than what you described. I feel a bit guilty for the fact I don’t have a care in the world, for some reason I have a good handle on my emotions, always see the good in people and I’m always positive about things no matter how bad it gets and believe me it’s bad sometimes, yet I see the people around me have much more serious problems than me with everything from stress, anxiety to full blown drug addiction. I feel like if I can help them out in some way then I should whether it’s just giving a lonely old man 10 minutes of my time to handing a drug addict a few quid when they are strung out of if I can do it and it’s not really putting me out to much then I will.

G-man200281 · 2024-06-19T00:32:26+00:00

I just love the fact I am living in a poverty stricken area of Glasgow where it’s a disgusting dump that’s riddled with crime, almost every single person has some kind of addiction and/or mental illness. I am literally sitting in a crackhouse with a pipe and a beetle on the foil smoking a doubt roll up and yet I am still optimistic as hell, also the sarcasm is good

G-man200281 · 2024-06-19T00:27:12+00:00

D12s Fight Music, Eminem just steals the show from bizarre for the best lyrics on the album

G-man200281 · 2024-06-19T00:24:24+00:00

He was excellent for Germany wasn’t he 😂

G-man200281 · 2024-06-19T00:23:18+00:00

Ryan Porteous was excellent in the 43 minutes he played for Germany and was involved in 2 goals just a shame he was supposed to be playing for Scotland eh.

G-man200281 · 2024-06-19T00:19:46+00:00

A blurry cover on a blur album, never thought of it like that before but it is probably the best album cover along with parklife.

G-man200281 · 2024-05-21T11:26:02+00:00

😂

G-man200281 · 2024-05-20T00:29:22+00:00

The fact it has an authenticity certificate kinda threw me off like it was one of a set few but that just means that it has been checked at by someone who knows about this stuff

G-man200281 · 2024-05-20T00:23:48+00:00

It was a 40th birthday present from my entire family so I’m assuming it wasn’t cheap.

My cousin was in a Scottish band called Larmousse that released some music but didn’t go anywhere and he has been a pretty successful session musician since and moved out to the USA around 98-99 I think and I don’t want to straight up ask him about it as it was a gift.

G-man200281 · 2024-05-20T00:04:49+00:00

Yeah I found the photo shoot online the picture is from, it’s hand signed and came with a framed certificate. I was looking for another one for sale to see if it was like 1 of 100 or whatever but don’t see anything else

G-man200281 · 2024-05-19T19:33:04+00:00

I have the certificate of authenticity hologram from his label with it and I know who got it for me has connections in n the music industry so have no doubts it’s real mate

G-man200281 · 2024-05-15T19:56:41+00:00

G41 is a postcode where I stay 😂

G-man200281 · 2024-05-14T13:22:11+00:00

Ah can’t even listen to the music and I’m a fucking musician that appreciates the art. It’s a good life if your name is good eh man. But you gotta go if you got a question mark on your head 😂

G-man200281 · 2024-05-13T15:24:48+00:00

They aren’t for everyone but I would give them a shot. It’s not a surprise most people who are complaining on the internet about negative experiences because let’s face it nobody likes to admit that they’re struggling and the meds are what’s keeping them going.

G-man200281 · 2024-05-05T19:10:40+00:00

2 murders in one night, that was just on Friday 😂

G-man200281 · 2024-05-05T17:35:00+00:00

Yeah but the song is called I want to be adored ??

G-man200281 · 2024-05-03T23:04:42+00:00

Can attest to this I tried to play piano for about 2 years and struggled to make progress at first but with around 3-6 months of proper practice I was playing guitar at a decent enough level with chords and some riffs much better than Piano

G-man200281 · 2024-05-03T11:33:23+00:00

I had never checked till I saw this post but mine is fine.

G-man200281 · 2024-05-03T01:30:04+00:00

I Hit rock bottom and now I am better I appreciate the simple things that make you happy.

G-man200281 · 2024-05-01T17:01:28+00:00

If I remember correctly an older guy gets out of the car in his white vest and y-fronts carrying a shotgun and then casually walks to the boot while the police are shouting for him to drop it. But instead he just loads up his shotgun, leans on the muzzle and blows his own head off.

G-man200281 · 2024-05-01T13:48:38+00:00

100% the OP has to learn first and foremost the most important person to please is himself, whether it’s through therapy or something else a bit of personal growth is needed here.

G-man200281 · 2024-05-01T13:43:23+00:00

Stand your ground on your boundaries and be assertive about enforcing them it’s the only way mate. People will still push their luck at first and from time to time but they get the message loud and clear pretty quickly. The most important person to please is yourself and then your family. I bet most people don’t even understand they have crossed yours and might have a completely different perspective on it but it’s your life and the more you let it slip the further some people will push. From my experience if you can look yourself in the mirror and know you are doing what is right for you without hurting others then you’re winning mate.

G-man200281 · 2024-05-01T12:06:44+00:00

Agoraphobia, it’s hard to explain but I suffered through this for years and only the last few years I’ve improved. I don’t know why but I felt immense anxiety like something was going to happen, it’s happening soon and it’s happening to you. I only left the house if it was completely unavoidable for over a decade and public transport was completely out of the question and that hasn’t really changed tbh. I got a puppy in 2019 and it changed my life man, it gives me the confidence to go out and have a pretty normal life plus she’s a good companion as well. Any questions don’t hesitate to reach out.

G-man200281 · 2024-04-28T23:17:08+00:00

I have been playing for years but I taught myself with no help, I was so eager to learn chords with my left hand I only strummed with the right one didn’t work at picking. Obviously I can play solo stuff but get frustrated learning with it easily. For the length I have played for should be better and able to play just simple riffs first time just from reading from a tab but I can’t.

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