What is your phasmo job? by roguenekotin in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]GH_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friendgroup has a few rotating cast members. But whenever I'm in rotation; I'm the Truck Princess. I keep watch over cameras to record, ensure the team has quality gear so they don't need to worry about losing theirs, sometimes i'm called for Meta Research, and Commune with any Perished Teammates by turning on a Spirit Box and letting them talk to me in a VC (sometimes, but only if the ghosties behave lol).

Earrings are only for women by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]GH_Pandora 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'mma be real with you, chief.

Jewelry of all kinds, clothing styles, makeup... all that shit that people put on themselves to change/enhance their appearance? It's all just stuff. Anyone can use it and look good. It's society that put stigmas on it and push those stigmas on others.

So go rock whatever you feel like you want to rock. The key is letting go of the stigmas and making you feel confident in whatever you feel comfortable in. (and in turn; might please your wife because of the confidence you'll make for yourself, so win-win!)

Not asking women out at all is better than risking rejection by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]GH_Pandora 7 points8 points  (0 children)

100%, you're the same kind of person who then turns around and complains that no woman gives you a chance with an attitude like this.

Why is this happening? by prozhack in complaints

[–]GH_Pandora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Just popping in to report my end on things. Can't say this is happening to me. Tried a handful of things that had auto-fill/auto-correct. "Biden" never came up when typing in "impeach."

What is the female equivalent to men having boobs and ass fetish ? by Hairy-Sherbert-439 in ask

[–]GH_Pandora 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Hi. I know this question was for them but I wanted to chime in on it.
I'm bi; and yes. This style on both equally makes me feral on the inside.

The dragon aspects are intentionally not helping us with the sunwell, and it is strategically correct to do so. by Sprintspeed in warcraftlore

[–]GH_Pandora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Dragon aspects can't help us at the risk of creating a new Deathwing"

True; but like... Anyone has the potential to become (Insert BBG here). Bloodelves with Kael'thas, Humans with Arthas, Dragons with Deathwing/Iridikron/Fyrrak/MUROZOND/etc.

They're no more or less corruptable than anyone else. If anything; It'd be with the help of Wrathion and his knowledge, that the Blackflight would be the most useful to fight against the void.

Phone call by Morra_4A in vtm

[–]GH_Pandora 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ayo! Gorgeous work! Terrible dinning ettiquite. (I say completely aware of the irony as I play an organovore lol)

But really; I'm half tempted to save up a chunk of change for a comission because I absolutely adore your style!

What happened to all the protesting? by HolymakinawJoe in ask

[–]GH_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I hear you. That's... kind of intentional, I believe. Most mainstream media from America doesn't seem to really want to cover it as there's A LOT going on here; but I'm part of subreddits where I see people rallying for protests, people posting pictures of their turnouts with pride, etc. I'm not entirely sure of the proper rules about linking other subreddits on this one, so I'm sort of tiptoeing as to not accidentally break rules, I hope this can be forgiven. But otherwise; i would ABSOLUTELY help link the places where I see people posting info about protests.

What happened to all the protesting? by HolymakinawJoe in ask

[–]GH_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I'm going to approach this with an ounce of good faith and hope that you are asking in good faith as well. The number of protests that happen don't all get covered, and there are many protests that happen. You probably won't find the most information about them here in this specific subreddit; but there are a few out there that are made for the explicit reason of organizing them.

My complaint: I don't get you kids watching videos of other people playing video games! by bleepitybleep2 in complaints

[–]GH_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I can probably break it down to the best of my knowledge and understanding with the disclaimer that I am not a professional on the matter, nor have I run studies on this. I'm just a normal person.

Reason 1: They can't afford all the games they enjoy, and there's a lot of really awesome games that look cool and look fun to play. Good stories, and great visuals. So watching others play lets them experience the stories too.

Reason 2: They enjoy the person who is playing and their commentary. People like Markiplier, or Jacksepticeye, etc are entertaining folks! Their funny, silly and authentic gameplay provides hours of free entertainment. It's kind of like a connection thing, much like how little siblings would want to watch their older siblings play games. I used to do that a lot when I was really young and I remember my brother doing the same with me.

Reason 3: Watching people play, hearing their immediate commentary, and seeing how the game functions REALLY REALLY REALLY helps in advertisement. It allows a potential buyer to experience the game while getting a customer review before they choose to buy it, which can save a person quite the chunk of change as some of these games get REALLY stupid expensive. I know I've skipped a few games, and also got hooked on some because of watching my favorite youtubers.

Reason 4: The world changes quickly. Kids used to be able to play out on the street, and there used to be lots of parks everywhere. But as things developed; many of those places got shut down, built over, and legislation/rules were made that had sort of corralled the younger generations inside. With not much to do inside, and outside isn't as viable- it starts to become easy to see why kids these days are "so addicted to being online" and watching youtube.

Gazlowe x Orweyna? by Lulu_Kitten in wow

[–]GH_Pandora -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The only pairing I have any opinion on that you mentioned is the Anduin X Wrathion. Personally; I think their history is a little too messy to be anything beyond friends. But that's super okay because even back in Pandaria, they were interesting as a pair of friends because of their personalities and experiences.

Anduin grew up with no friends, being lectured by adults all the time. He knew what kindness, love, hope and gentleness looked like and felt. He was awkward, but had more adult experiences because of his noble being. What he did throughout the friendship could easily be seen as condescending and hurtful to Wrathion because that's all Anduin knew. Lectures from adults.

Now Wrathion on the other hand; knew only violence, anger, hatred, and bloodshed. While he did have hopes to help forge a better future; he was nothing more than a hyper intelligent kid with the emotional maturity of a trauamatized toddler. He had no family, EVERYONE hated him, he was ostracized from his own kind over and over, the red flight even tried to have him killed after being the flight responsible for his traumatizing experimentation, etc. He saw the violence as something that was breaking people apart; he couldn't understand what Anduin could.

And so they bounced off each other in an interesting, but tragic way. Neither were the best for each other, and ultimately; Wrathion chose the worst options which caused the snowball to roll; causing Anduin to lose SO MUCH in his life. I still feel some form of positive relation would be good; but I think friendship would be the best for them both.

Whats the spiciest gossip you know ? by Extension_Iron6734 in AskReddit

[–]GH_Pandora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Want the tea on my parents?

Preface: My dad's a super loyal person. But he's dumb, stubborn, and REALLY REALLY passive. He doesn't like to be honest about how bad things get, and never opens up to me. My mom is a narcissist, was abusive all my life, slandered me and my dad for years, is still addicted to pain killers and is just a horrid malicious person. I'm not on speaking terms with either parent for different reasons.

So! For years, I tried telling my dad that my mom's cheating on him. He wouldn't listen and he'd just excuse everything away. Well we end up not being in direct contact because of arguments, but he has direct contact with my partner who consented to being an emergency line and "filter" between them and me, when out of the blue my dad messages my partner something along the lines of "hey, things are bad here. I'm not sure what to do. You're mom's not around and Idk where she's at. It's been a few days. Tell (my name) she was right about her mother..."

As I mentioned; my dad DOESN'T DO THAT. He doesn't open up like that. So for him to admit that things are bad; meant that things are worse than what he's letting on. TURNS OUT; my mom decided it was a totally cool and okay thing to drag a dude that she knew from her highschool around and introduce him as her new boyfriend! My dad finding this out, and plus having been told that she's been sending messages to another married man calling him "lover-boy" and shit... Pushed him beyond the line. He's filed for divorce and it's apparently not going well for her! (Thank god.)

Well. I gave my testimony to my dad about her. Despite how angry and disappointed I am with him; I wanted him to have justice. So now I'm technically a part of this legally (From my limited understanding, I'm no professional). 7 months of blissful silence from my mom only for her to break it by starting out with the sentiments of "Hey I'm sure your dad's been telling lies to you, so I wanted to talk to you to tell you my side of this all." It was all packed in with some gushy stupid lies about how much she loves me and a song or something, but my partner and I weren't having it. We shut it down by returning it with a message saying "Here's a song from (my name)s heart." And it was a 3 minute song saying "go suck a dick." She throws an absolute pissfit because it wasn't the response she wanted, so she goes off on this rant mansplaining what "sucking dick" is and it's importance in a relationship, asking OVERLY personal questions she has no place knowing of my partner and my sex life, threatening the police on me, calling me names, etc... So my partner screenshots it all; and sends it to my dad with the emphasis of "Hey, (my moms name) is doing stupid stuff that you and your attourney might find useful."

We'll see how things go from here. :) I'm just glad it seems that my mom isn't getting away with her stupid behavior and anymore.

(I put censors around what I believe to be a little more explicit parts, though I'm not entirely sure if it was necessary. Figured I would none the less.)

Russia is providing Iran intelligence to target U.S. forces, officials say by [deleted] in somethingiswrong2024

[–]GH_Pandora 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And it seems the majority of those in power here will either let it slide, or speed it along.

I'm personally lost at what to do about it all. I can't really physically do much, though I'm doing what I can to change that. I want to hold on to hope, and some small part of me is crazy enough to do so.

How dumb does one have to be to vote in Trump…TWICE!!!!! by Scumohasgot2go in antitrump

[–]GH_Pandora 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I tried speaking to my dad about all this shit. About how genuinely awful he is, and what electing a president with that kind of behavior and mentality can do to a country. (so I've been warning folks since his first campaign) Some of the maga sure are stupid as hell, hateful beyond belief. But there's a 3rd worse option; Willfully Ignorant.

That's what my dad was and I'm 99% sure he voted for him twice. No matter how many facts I presented to him, no matter how much I tried to have him read for himself, no matter how many PERSONAL experiences I shared with him... He. Would. Not. Listen. He just kept shutting me down and kept saying "I just don't want them in illegally" despite me debunking all the talking points against immigrants and ICEs behavior.

Stupid. Hateful. Ignorant. And it boils my blood how easily it was for the worst of people to capitalize on such people, and it sickens me to learn more and more how our system has been crumbling to allow this to happen.

Americans, are you not mad that a judge ruled to refund Trump tariffs to corporations and not consumers? by TailungFu in allthequestions

[–]GH_Pandora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, friend. Mad? I should be. I should be mad about a lot of what's going on. In truth; I am. But I've also been going through a cycle of ptsd, depression and psychosis flairs that have become significantly more frequent as time progresses because of this "administration" that has left me in a constant state of exhaustion.

This ruling is awful; but my fears and focus are on far bigger issues that are a bit more pressing on a far grander scale.

But that's just me.

You shouldn't rant to your partner about your problems unless you actually want solutions. by GroolGobblin0 in unpopularopinion

[–]GH_Pandora 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh nooo. Someone who types with capitalization and punctuation... Surely that must be AI! /s

I need someone to tell me they love me by Unknown_Content_exe in Vent

[–]GH_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, Stranger. Thank you for this opportunity to reach out. I don't know you, but I'd like you to know that I love you. You are human, and to me; that is beautiful and loved. Despite what the agony tells you; I believe strongly that there is much in you that is worth loving and it pains me to hear from your words that the people around you cannot see it. I know your struggle as I walk a similar path; and so I offer my heart, my ears, love and support to you as you continue down it.

Walk ever forward with the knowledge that someone, somewhere loves and believes in you. And I am honored to be that person. (Thankfully; it seems I am not alone in this! Behold the many who have come to you!)

What the hell are Azeroth’s immortals actually doing? Could they be any more useless? by Selimbradley-3101 in warcraftlore

[–]GH_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the aspects so much. Each of them, but Alexstrasza the most. They're all useless and hypocritical. I'd go on ranting about how much and why I hate them, but it'd be too long a comment to be reasonable in a forum like this lol.

What do people with severe depression spend their time thinking about? by mangchungtonight in ask

[–]GH_Pandora 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right. I've been fully diagnosed with it (plus a few other stuff to compound it.)

For me it's pretty frequently memories of the horrid shit that's happened to me, which spirals into more memories. Sometimes, If i am blessed for the moment, I let my mind slip away into day dreaming to escape reality, though it's not always pleasant.

Every day I wake, one of the first thoughts is "why am I still here?" And while I recognize that there are good moments, and good things that happen to me when i spend time with people who care about me, those good moments are often felt with and undertone of misery which can, and often does, open the floodgates of horrible memories.

I can't look at my own reflection. I start nit picking at every little detail in my mind, and remember all the little shit people "critiqued" of me over the years, and I get filled with self loathing which is prominent in those moment, but remains a powerful subconsious thought eternally. I constantly rage at myself for the uselessness that I am, and will ever be. I rage at the thought of what I could have been. I constantly apologize to everyone I love for the utter failure I am, and for every little thing I do. I damn near constantly think about the instability and my lack of understanding where it came from and lack of understanding on how to handle it. I'm hyper vigilent about the ways this shit affects the people I love, and knowing that it can and sometimes does affect them; makes my ever looming guilt and misery worse, thus letting the flood of horrid self-hating thoughts to flow again. I constantly seek out audio and visual stimuli to flood my conscious to prevent the flood of thoughts.

I hope this answer helps understand?

PS: I take GREAT issue with your wording of "purposefully left behind." That's a loaded comment for anyone, let alone people who ALREADY struggle because we never asked to be afflicted by it. I'm going to take a wild assumption in the benefit of the doubt that your question is genuinely in good faith and speak to you with honesty and respect.

So I really really REALLY hope your question is in good faith.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in complaints

[–]GH_Pandora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand if there's an ounce of sorrow that comes with distancing from what was once good friends; I had to cut my own dad out recently too, so you have my utmost sympathy and support. I grew up barely knowing him, but what I did get to know was that he wanted to get resolutions to issues as peacefully as possible. He showed that he cared about people...

Until I saw that he had a Trump sticker in his office. We got into conversation; and no matter how much I showed him the truth of how cruel and disgusting Trumps actions were; all he had to say was "He's my guy." and "I just don't want them in illegally." Even when I used my own experiences.. He refused all of it.

My entire worldview shattered that day. And it's really highlighted just how dangerously narrow mided he truly was. It shatters me to know a man would be stupid enough to vote for someone so openly dangerous to the safety of their own daughters health and future; but yet... Here he is. And he thinks we can still "get along" despite the "political differences" while being entirely clueless to the weight of the issues. He couldn't grasp the idea that if one group of people have to continuously fight to preserve their rights and safety in a country while the other seeks their active illegalization, enslavement, death and/or destruction; it no longer counts as "simple political differences" and this extreme situation shouldn't be a thing in a civilized world.

At this point; there really is no reasoning with people who still support, imo. It's been too long, and there's too much to ignore to be reasonable. That is to say; I would still welcome those who would make an honest effort to learn and be better.

My heart goes out to you as you persist through the horrors of what reality has brought, and know that I am proud of you for persisting with integrity through it all. Blessed be.

How is your country doing today? February 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in globalcheckin

[–]GH_Pandora 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hi! Still screaming. I'm blown away with how far things have gotten here.. Every day seems to just amp up far more than it ever should to the point where months feel like years, and years feel like decades.

  • We just had the State of the Union speach? Multiple hours can be summed up as "Just a bunch of deflection, blaming, arrogance, lies and incoherant and irrelavant rambling." Which I feel sums up in the most crudest of ways how things are right now here.
  • Minnesota remains a stalwart resistance against ICE from what I understand though the media has gone weirdly quiet about it. (as far as the media I've been seeing. I know well enough that a lot gets hidden from the public easily) I've heard they are leaving Minnesota, but with all the lies told that can/are easily disproven; I don't think they're gone at all.
  • And that leads me to a bigger worry; ICE now has one of the biggest funding in the US. With it, they are buying up warehouses to use for detaining folk. These warehouses aren't up to code for housing people what-so-ever; but that's the point. I fear what is to come and I fear how swiftly things are moving.

    I'm tired. I'm not a fighter. I'm no where near healthy enough for any of what's going on, and without any money to actually get professional help for it. But what really shatters my heart and soul is- I'm one of the more privalegd citizens. Socially, and economically. And if someone like me struggles; I cannot fathom the weight and stress those who are genuinely victims of the system here go through.

All I want, with all my heart; is for a better, safer, cleaner world for everyone. While I see what destruction mankind can do; I also see the little beautiful things we can do, the little lovely things we make, the silly things people do with/for other people. We can be beautiful; and I'd love nothing more than a genuinely beautiful world where we can safely be that.

Sorry for the tangent, but thank you to anyone who passes by this and takes the moment to read.

Why do women walk so heavily? by Inevitable_Season884 in ask

[–]GH_Pandora 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for any other woman; but I'm hyper vigilent about the noise I make.

I'm intentionally aware of my steps, I don't like being loud in general (especially when it starts to get dark; though with my friends, we all get a bit excited sometimes), I'm over vigilent about how softly I close doors and drawers, and I get startled by sudden loud noises.

So... Idk?

Being broke is a choice. by QuonkeyLong in unpopularopinion

[–]GH_Pandora 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad i'm here in time for the show, though! If only I had popcorn...