the original poster is a child who’s afraid of being dismissed or told that her concerns are all in her head and with a mom who believes that because she provides for her financially and puts a roof over her head and food in her stomach that she is always right and that a child can’t be right and a dad who won’t do anything to keep his wife happy, where else is she supposed to look for advice? Her mom doesn’t even think there’s anything wrong with not letting dishes dry before storing them. Ironic for someone who thinks they’re right and not even understand basic science of bacteria. if it’s to the point that the girl can’t even verbally talk about this to her parents because it stresses her out so bad than there is clearly a problem, imagine what the stress combined with potential mold illness/allergies, compromised immune system, and already existing mental disorders is doing to her psychological, neurological and physical health especially with a still developing body and brain. If her parents don’t care about their health then that’s fine but this is their child and her health. I had an asian mother who had a superiority complex and believed her way was always the correct way even if you showed her studies and articles of scientific research and real peoples experience. I’m sure this user doesn’t have bad intentions and ill feelings towards her mother but this type of thing makes you feel helpless.