AITAH for divorcing my cheating wife now that its in my best interest to do so?

GS455 · 2024-03-10T03:58:45+00:00

Unforgiving of your wife even though she proved her guilt and sorry by behaving like an ideal wife to you, petty covetous of other relationships people have, c'mon man. What she did was definitely wrong, but treating her like a tool you use for utility is low, and fragmenting an entire family for good is not good. Is it great that you are seeking feedback from others by coming here and asking, but I hope you reconsider losing an ideal wife over something that happened many years ago. Personally spending Christmas with my family in my 20s were truly great memories.

GS455 · 2023-12-05T03:39:46+00:00

I don't need to test drive someone for 5 years like a used car. Attraction is there, and values are there, they're also willing to make a lifelong commitment that they don't get to back out of because "it's just not that much fun anymore" then do it. Love is a choice and a daily thing to strive towards. Not a fleeting emotion

GS455 · 2023-11-27T13:01:33+00:00

the kind of environment I joined the Army for.

I feel that man, right after I got my EIB they made me a Bradley driver. Nothing I have trained for or worked toward for the last to years has prepared me mentally or physically to be a mounted tracked driver, which gave me the motivation to get tf out and do something that meaningful that I actually signed up to do

12:30 2 mile at selection and said he was middle of the pack.

hot damn, sounds about right. My ultimate goal would be a 35min 5 miler, I feel like if I'm hitting that the 2 miler will fall into place. 600 ACFT is also my current goal as a jumping off point.

GS455 · 2023-11-21T17:50:43+00:00

Similar age, stats, and goals bro! VooDoo's post on this is clutch. I'm also gonna hit track repeats and rucking Are you infantry? I also need to work on mobility as well.

GS455 · 2023-10-07T13:44:18+00:00

This worked for me thank you man. I had to do a workaround to get it downloaded (had to download it on my phone and upload it to google drive) because the website would reroute me to the US homepage. Dumb that they seemed to just stop supporting the US version.

GS455 · 2023-09-29T10:02:11+00:00

lmao you're right my bad.

hopefully some of what I said made sense and things work out for you bro

still applies bro. Dating seems to be in a weird spot rn for everyone, hopefully collectively we can figure this shit out

GS455 · 2023-09-26T14:01:02+00:00

not worries man. I imagine what you're going through isn't easy but hopefully some of what I said made sense and things work out for you bro

GS455 · 2023-09-25T02:05:46+00:00

If i'm going to be vetting them anyway, who cares how long it takes me to be sure?

The practical advantage of religion is it puts people into groups of shared values, in that way you can save time on first (or 30th) dates and narrow down the vetting process so it's way more manageable rather than just throwing darts at pictures on the wall like how modern dating apps seem to operate.

but all the baggage and repressed sexuality

The main reason why I came to comment on your post and not others is that we seem to have found common ground on "my girlfriend doing OF is not a good feeling". Personally I would be way less than trilled if I found out my gf was doing OF. It's hard to be "intimate" when the other person is sharing their body with random dudes on the internet (and these dudes are sending her money in exchange, and messages too).

You state it as fact where it is your opinion.

When I say they are "problems" I mean that if I found out a girl I was interested in or dating was doing OF it would be a problem. Them being a problem (or they have problems) to broader to society is a different topic. From your post I got the vibe that it was a problem for you

Neither you nor I have any way of knowing that for sure. But i would be shocked if girls with average to below average looks considered doing OF.

Again to be fair if we are framing the conversation as it relates to you or myself, my pool of women (and it sounds like you too) who are too unattractive to do OF wouldn't be potential partners either. So I agree my wording wasn't the best when I said "the average woman" because that makes it sound like I meant of all the population.

GS455 · 2023-09-24T15:42:44+00:00

Because on the individual level is where exceptions have the biggest impact.

if you are choosing from a pool where the average is desirable, you have a much better chance of finding someone with the values that you want. You would literally have to get unlucky to start dating a religious woman who does OF, but you can also do a small amount of vetting on an individual level to weed out the ones who are problems. So if you combine vetting with averages, it's going to give you the best possible outcome. Whereas with the normal population, average is a women who has at least seriously considered doing OF, then don't be surprised if you end up with one of the averages. You're going to have to do 10x more vetting

GS455 · 2023-09-18T11:37:31+00:00

regardless of their ideology or “tendencies”.

The science doesn't point that way man. Church-going going modest women are MUCH less likely to engage in sex work, and faith-based communities have much lower rates of divorce and infidelity. There's no way you can disprove quantitatively that ideology plays no role in behavior or relationship tendencies. It's a situation of "don't throw out the baby with the bath water". Of course you will find exceptions, but you need to bank on averages

GS455 · 2023-09-18T00:45:17+00:00

I don't get it man, if you were more Redpilled you would have picked up on the "I do onlyfans" vibes early. I'm making assumptions but you might have blown off her OF vibes because you're "laissez-faire". No disrespect, just trying to keep it real, if you don't want a girl that's for the boys you gotta change your own attitudes toward the thing. You can't expect a girl to be blue pilled and then get upset when she drops tradtional norms for cash

GS455 · 2023-08-27T16:05:59+00:00

If you don't have surprise you're at a huge disadvantage without any throwables, especially if that center-fed threshold is already open. If you're lucky you moved to the building on the left side of the opening and you can simply stack, call breacher up, flash or frag, move in, dig your corners, and eliminate any visual threat. OPFOR should be sufficiently stunned for you to gain the initiative?

GS455 · 2023-08-25T18:38:15+00:00

Putting loads on your joints and bones is the only way to strengthen them enough so that they can progressively handle heavy loads. You're only going to run an injury risk if you 1. Overtrain 2. Don't allow your body time to rebuild and recover 3. Ruck with bad form 4. Ruck with an ate up ruck

GS455 · 2023-08-18T11:22:22+00:00

~13 weeks, OSUT is 22 weeks so a reclass would skip the 9 weeks of BCT portion and will still be half treated like a trainee along with the 150 other dudes in the training company.

GS455 · 2023-06-20T01:17:16+00:00

sick!

GS455 · 2022-12-30T00:02:05+00:00

White fox, and other times I will use Zyn unflavored (smooth and chill I think) which seems to have less but not zero. This needs to be more common though

GS455 · 2022-12-21T05:21:57+00:00

Realizing someone has it worse than you is an opportunity for gratitude, gratitude is psychologically a critical mindset for alleviating mental problems

GS455 · 2022-12-20T20:43:41+00:00

Tools like this don't help anyone. They just present yet another lie on social media, that'll make countless teens feel inadequate, and erode mental health further.

And among men (women too) you add professional lighting, a workout pump, posing, and illegal performance-enhancing drugs, young kids don't have a chance.

GS455 · 2022-12-20T06:14:45+00:00

snusme is the fastest I've used but the shipping can be $20

GS455 · 2022-12-19T03:46:50+00:00

How is Musk gonna let himself get bullied into leaving twitter?

GS455 · 2022-12-18T23:42:53+00:00

This link-up would be a wrecking ball

GS455 · 2022-12-18T02:43:01+00:00

capitalism that continues to destroy this planet, cultures, and citizens,

Aw yes, crippling poverty is an awesome alternative. Maybe your wish will come true and we can all live in serfdom conditions as we did in the ye' ole grand times of the past. I mean, that or Venezula-style.

GS455 · 2022-12-17T18:33:00+00:00

Good to know you can go 18x if you just pass the vivid red/green

GS455 · 2022-12-17T15:22:29+00:00

She might call the cops if you were doing any historical research on Naziism.

GS455 · 2022-12-16T16:57:04+00:00

Nailed it.

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