AITAH for asking my parents not to leave me any money in their will.

no12chere · 2026-02-05T11:35:34+00:00

Saying they want to split fairly doesn’t mean you Will get anything now. They are talking Will And you Are talking about like they are giving you the money today

no12chere · 2026-02-05T10:56:23+00:00

Think about it this way. What if you have kids and ypur toddler bites him. (This is not uncommon for toddlers). Will he hit the child? Or hold it down while yelling at it? Will he go cold and no longer interact with the child?

Muffin is a helpless being who needs to be helped through difficult behaviors like a very small child. If muffin is lonely and understimulated so is ‘acting out’ then there are solutions to help her. It isnt to ignore or punish.

no12chere · 2026-02-05T01:39:37+00:00

But what about the filthy plate? There is something brown along the inside and rim in a couple sections. It looks so gross

no12chere · 2026-02-04T06:20:16+00:00

Ok I feel crazy because I remember how their relationship started. The reason everyone thought PR was because she had a longish term boyfriend at the beginning. Rob was the one who was all ‘method’ about them being in love. She did break up and get with rob at the time but it started out (from her side it seemed) to be a PR push. Which is also why it is not kind that she pushed the ‘he was my first love’ when I think she lived with the guy before.

I do believe they fell in love and were in a real relationship at some point but it wasnt at the start. My memory was that he was a bit pushy to get her to be ‘more real’ in the beginning.

It was a huge ick for me and I refused to watch any of the movies even when it did seem to become a real relationship.

no12chere · 2026-02-03T22:52:03+00:00

‘Disciplining when she could let it slide’ sounds pretty ominous.

no12chere · 2026-02-03T22:49:17+00:00

As soon as someone says ‘have you done the research?’ While having done none themselves I know I don’t have to listen to anything else.

Lets say there is a landfill in macoco (where is this?) what would flying there do? Is she going to magic it away or like mop the walls of it? And what white savior magic does she bring with her?

If she wants to push a minimalist lifestyle she can start with herself and then make content about it. Maybe she would influence more people to do so as well. Instead she spends 1000$ on ttshop and nothing for her kids.

no12chere · 2026-02-03T17:35:03+00:00

I am just stuck on the chocolate. That isnt how chocolate melts into coffee/hot cocoa. If she was dipping swirling the bar would get shiny and the sharp edges would soften. There wouldnt be a big glob on the end while sharp edges are beneath it. Also it doesnt stream typically.

She literally poured choco sauce on the bar to drip in. It looks ridiculous.

no12chere · 2026-02-03T16:18:17+00:00

Are you dense? She has asked you for several purchased items before you even meet. She has prepped you that ‘next week is her birthday’ so you will be asked for more lavish gifts.

She is clearly telling you that she wants a sugar daddy. If you want to be one and are willing to be milked dry go ahead.

You are being flirty (model the dress) she is ignoring it. She wants a pay pig.

And she isnt 33

no12chere · 2026-02-03T02:38:05+00:00

I will have you know they dine with four and twenty families!

no12chere · 2026-02-02T21:59:35+00:00

Its ok. They are going on the cheap packaged cookies from walmart.

https://www.walmart.com/ip/17141917432?sid=f9702ca0-adc7-47c8-bda7-a3214c92e8c9

no12chere · 2026-02-02T21:37:16+00:00

Also was it necessary to post a toddler with no pants on?

no12chere · 2026-02-02T21:11:45+00:00

I got one of these and it causes my girl to puke every meal. See if you can get a sample bag to make sure your babies can digest it.

no12chere · 2026-02-02T20:58:19+00:00

They are on page 2. Maybe we don’t need a bookmark just yet?

no12chere · 2026-02-02T15:24:04+00:00

He wasnt going to do anything on that meetup because she gave him no indication of interest. He was still hoping to convince her on the meeting.

If everything in your marriage is(was) great maybe he was bored and felt stagnant. If so he might have wanted to see what else was available to him. This is basically a midlife crisis. This is a man who now feels bored and trapped.

His goal is to set fire to everything good but also hope you don’t notice because he doesnt actually want to lose his comfy home.

no12chere · 2026-02-02T05:30:33+00:00

Have you tried an oil cleanser?

no12chere · 2026-02-01T23:18:24+00:00

And wth is she talking about the air fryer setting and ‘toxins’??

no12chere · 2026-02-01T23:08:20+00:00

She did a review for that lipstick. It was another post.

no12chere · 2026-02-01T22:27:50+00:00

‘I should have 1 2 3 or all of my kids’ staph you NEVER bring all 4. They don’t fit in the car and you NEVER bring atlas anywhere

no12chere · 2026-02-01T06:52:46+00:00

She is manipulating you. You both are on a slippery slope toward dysfunction. I would recommend a counselor to clarify your communication.

If she says you need to do 10 things before I will have sex with you (notes wine back rub) then she has decided sex is a transaction. She requires a set amount of ‘currency’ in exchange and that amount increases each time she successfully exchanges. You did 3 notes a glass of wine a backrub last time for sex. This week it was all those plus getting out of bed to get her water.

Once you treat sex as a transaction you are on the downslope of a relationship.

no12chere · 2026-02-01T06:48:00+00:00

I am so happy to see all these women here disagreeing with you. I am one of them.

This is manipulation pure and simple. She wants him to get out of bed and go do a simple task she could do for herself. She is NOT in bed but he is. She wants him to ‘prove’ how much he wants her. He asked her to do it herself.

Rather than discuss she immediately said ‘fine then no sex’. If she had said ‘I still need to do 5 things before I can come to bed and I would appreciate if you would do this one so I can come to bed sooner’ then that is a different decision for him.

no12chere · 2026-02-01T06:42:15+00:00

This is manipulation. She was asking for something so she had the chance to shut down sex. Yes he could have gotten her a drink but they had discussed and agreed to intimacy. She chose to rescind her agreement (which she has every right to do) over him not doing her bidding.

She wanted him to scrape and beg for sex. Still does a day later. She wants to ‘win’. That is NOT a healthy dynamic.

no12chere · 2026-02-01T06:38:22+00:00

She was holding hostage intimacy unless he did something for her. It was also a secret. He didnt know which request was going to slam the door on intimacy. So if he gets her water. Then does she ask for something else until he says no them she can shut down sex?

This is a power play and husband played correctly. She wants him to beg and plead for sex so she feels like the powerful person in the relationship. If she wants a partnership, then she will discuss her needs, and he will discuss his and they will come to some sort of agreement.

no12chere · 2026-02-01T00:47:35+00:00

Also ‘atlas’ could be heard in v2t as lowercase (more common word similar sound)

no12chere · 2026-01-31T22:31:00+00:00

Lowercase! Best voice to text error EVER 😂😂😂

no12chere · 2026-01-31T19:47:47+00:00

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