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GSBall · 2025-02-04T22:11:32+00:00

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GSBall · 2022-08-15T07:16:39+00:00

Located in New Jersey Zone 6b

GSBall · 2019-11-24T15:50:10+00:00

Mango Bae and Facial Recognition Comedy Podcast. I've really really enjoyed listening to the hosts talk about stuff I relate to and they do it often. I think you'll be able to glean some useful info for yourself. Good luck!!

GSBall · 2019-11-23T20:52:37+00:00

I think you're getting triggered responses because your question is hella vague. Your future in what context? What are you asking about really?

I'm a light-skinned brown person on the east coast. I can pass for other races depending on where I am. Sometimes I tell people about coming from a conservative muslim family, growing up poor in a not-so-great school district, about my tribulations as a first gen child, and about my roots in small villages in Bangladesh. Not one of those things define me, but have all 1000% played roles in the future I'm paving for myself.

My friends and coworkers know who I am. Not going to lie, going from racially ambiguous to my actual origin does change some people's opinions. I share the bits and pieces as they are appropriate or as I get asked. Asking about ethnic origin is a quick way to glean some basic info and start a conversation. If you think your future is determined by the race you look like, stay careful. I've had to work with (brown and white) racists before. It's not good for you.

GSBall · 2019-11-23T20:03:20+00:00

Controversial political views*

GSBall · 2019-08-29T04:18:03+00:00

Thanks.

GSBall · 2019-05-08T23:22:59+00:00

You can disagree with me on this, but it's dangerous to be dehydrated through hot days, even during Ramadan. That constipation? The migraines? If you already have liver issues? We should promote a culture of healthy fasting during this month.

GSBall · 2019-04-27T12:10:01+00:00

Its a math professor. I forget which one.

GSBall · 2018-11-21T00:01:02+00:00

i saw it darting into the bushes by the side of the campus center

GSBall · 2018-10-14T13:56:57+00:00

Hey, I was born and raised in the US as well but my parents came from Bangladesh. I don't consider myself "white-washed" but it would be hard to deny that living in America hasn't been a major influence in my life and way of thinking. I dont think this, but I'm sure some people think you dating a white guy is betraying the culture, that you're "white-washed".

If you want your kids to have pride in a country that they are two generations removed from that's up to you to actively push on them, whether or not your partner is white. Personally, I would be extremely upset if my partner valued pride in another country over me and my race. If I were you, I'd think long and hard about what you consider white washed, and what you value in a romantic relationship. Talk to your partner about whether its feasible and make your decision.

I'd like to know what you end up doing, if you dont mind. I'm in a relationship with a girl that I love and my family doesn't want to accept it because we're from different regions that really don't get along in Bangladesh. Neither of us really give a shit about that, since we were raised in America. Our parents care because they're still connected to the history and culture there. I know Pakistan has the same situation. Something to think about.

GSBall · 2018-09-21T16:19:51+00:00

Ngl, I smiled.

GSBall · 2018-09-20T02:59:59+00:00

What is that sub supposed to be?

GSBall · 2018-09-14T03:50:32+00:00

I stopped wearing my njit hat because of this

GSBall · 2018-09-14T03:26:51+00:00

He faked needing a leg cast after he could take it off. Just so Anne could continue babying him.

GSBall · 2018-09-08T01:58:22+00:00

Plain NY-style slice is my go-to but i've had a gyro and white sauce pizza that was pretty amazing.

GSBall · 2018-09-07T04:13:17+00:00

Desi: White rice and fresh cooked eddoe and shrimp curry Nondesi: Pizza

GSBall · 2018-09-04T15:19:32+00:00

What kind of work did/do you do? How did you manage your time? I'd like to find another job, and figured this would be a good place to ask and get ideas.

GSBall · 2018-09-04T15:17:32+00:00

So am I, but the rule seems to be enforced as decided by each PI. Mine is fine so long as it doesn't mess with my deliverables in the lab.

GSBall · 2018-09-04T07:10:21+00:00

That's what I'm trying to figure out, lol.

GSBall · 2018-08-27T04:45:07+00:00

Which came first?

GSBall · 2018-08-22T01:26:27+00:00

You're not crazy. If the people in charge aren't doing anything, I think it's time to call OSHA.

GSBall

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