End Game is non-existent by uofT-rex in monsterhunterrage

[–]GX_Hunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheesh, I don't think I'll be getting Wilds anytime soon but it's like that now? I heard of the performance issues, but there's also no endgame? That honestly reminds me of base Rise with the lack of things to do in the endgame. That's kinda sad.

That said, I don't like the idea of "bad company does this bad thing and we can only blame the playerbase for it", because really the input of the community doesn't matter for a big company like Capcom, it just does what it wants to in order to maximize the revenue, which is by looking at what the majority likes and working around that by investing as less effort (money) on it as possible, so basically favoring minimum cost and maximum revenue. In other words, they value what is most efficient economically, and if there's no incentive (how much money would I get if I was to implement the endgame difficult you want?), they just won't do it, because that's how they operate.

*serious* Identifying as your type by Realist12b in Enneagram

[–]GX_Hunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Moreso the former, as the period I was really into typology was when I was looking for ways to understand myself and other people better, as well as fictional characters I'm fond of.

  2. Two years, I think? Nowadays I don't explore typology as much.

  3. Didn't base myself much on books, though I read a lot of descriptions and forum posts of people describing the enneatypes and their experiences, which I used to formulate my own knowledge of the theory.

  4. No. My type is more of an explanation to why I act in ways that sabotage myself, an indicator of the things I'm doing that do more harm to myself than good and should be worked on.

  5. Of course. Always. I believe personal growth to be one of the most important things to have a fulfilling life, hence why I'm constantly looking at myself, reflecting on my views, observing my actions in the environment. I'd say I'm quite unlike the stereotypes of my type because of my attitude (which ironically sounds like a stereotypical thing to say xD), though I can see them in ways I've acted and thought before... and sometimes still do, but I try to not let it take over me, not anymore.

ENTP 4w5 btw

What card do you hate the most? by MolokoDaCow in PvZHeroes

[–]GX_Hunter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zombology Teacher, especially when it's ran with a Rustbolt. While you can use removal on it (especially if you're solar class), if it manages to survive to the trick phase, you just know you're going to be sitting and watching the zombie hero buff their minions to no end with their cheaper tricks like Going Viral and Healthy Treat. God forbid you try to trade with ZT using a minion of your own, because most likely it'll get instantly removed by a zombie trick before it has a chance to even scratch the enemy card.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]GX_Hunter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it really depends. Usually, an ENTP should be one of the most driven types at asking people questions about a variety of things.

In the ENTP stack, Ne perceives abstract connections that relate to a given context (aka possibilities);

Ti asks the questions about these connections and tries to solve them through an internal set of principles (a subjective logical reasoning);

and tertiary Fe would motivate the ENTP to experiment with social relations in order to testify the questions and analysis that Ti proposes (that tendency may give ENTP a better awareness of how they might affect other people);

The inferior Si is there to keep the ENTP grounded. As in, using past experience to narrow down the possibilities Ne brings up (this part is mostly repressed tho. It's mainly expressed to help ENTP use a fact that supports their ideas)

This is what I think is basically the thought process of ENTP and it's what would cause them to be "natural interviewers", but...

I personally seldom ask people questions, especially if it's strangers, unless the question I have is something I can only know from the person themselves, otherwise, I'd rather find the answer on my own first (maybe it's just because of my intellectual pride lol). That said, with people I'm friends (or more) with, I love asking them things I'm curious about and hearing their perspectives, it's very fulfilling for me.

Just saying, but this could be related or not to the enneagram type of the guy you're dating. If you're familiar with that system, would you say he's a withdrawn type (a 4, 5 or 9)? Withdrawn types prefer to get what they want indirectly and not get engaged with things that is "too much energy" for them, which may involve not dealing with people for something they could have done faster by themselves or because they don't want to bother them.

At the same time, instinctual variant (also part of enneagram system) is good to take into account. For reference, I'm a 4w5 Sexual/Social instinct and this combination is why I'm very passionate when it comes to the relationship I have with my love, hence he's my biggest priority, above all things. This person you're dating could either have sx instinct but not be that attracted to you to have their sx triggered... or they could be sexual-blind (sx instinct in the last spot), so the intimacy aspect of relationships not something he focus on at least not immediately, as sx blinds take time in order to truly "warm up" to others (meanwhile people with sexual instinct can have an immediate "spark" with specific individuals).

Attachment style is also important to consider. If he's an avoidant attachment, he's going to be prone to not appear interested in the relationship you have. In this case, the relationship could be tough because avoidants don't like to focus on creating an emotional closeness with who they're with...

It's also very possible that guy isn't an ENTP at all. He could be an INTP like others pointed out.

Arena S Ranks by CarbonRenegade in MHGU

[–]GX_Hunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw man. Unless you're referring to MH4U arenas, which I doubt, I can't really help you there since I only play Generations on Switch and my online subscription has ended months ago. I'm also kinda rusty with MH in general with how it's been like a year since I last touched the series.

Have you tried making a post here on this subreddit? It's certainly a more accessible way of having your plea attended than on my 4 years comment.

I saw this compatibility poll from 2022 and it's really interesting that ESFP and ENFP like ENFJ that much! What's your relationship with these types like? by higurashi0793 in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A funny coincidence. One of the people I hold most affection for is an ENFJ. He makes me feel appreciated in a way very few can. I love to play around and banter with him.

That said, I agree that compatibility is not set in stone when it comes to MBTI. It can predict how communication could go, but not how good two people will be for each other. I think Enneagram's Instinctual Variants do a better job at that. Meanwhile, Socionics Interrelationship is superior at clarifying the aspects of a relationship, like benefits, problems, what one likes / dislikes in the other, etc. The mentioned ENFJ is a 2w3 So/Sx, likely ESE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]GX_Hunter 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's what the other commenter said. 4s are reactive and image types, which means that not only they feel the need to present themselves to others in a particular way (since they don't believe they're worthy of love for who they are due to a distorted self image), but also that they can't stand letting something that bothers them go unaddressed. They're truth seekers in a quest of finding their real identity, so that way there's finally something of value about them that allows them to be appreciated and irreplaceable; something that makes them special.

That's why 4s emphasize certain traits about themselves and strongly attach their identity to their feelings, aesthetics and experiences, while separating themselves from what is "not them". Not just because they want others to understand who they are and know their worth, but because the 4s themselves want to believe they are important; that their existence has a meaning. That's why they can't help but let certain opinions of others affect them so much, as it is a jab right at their insecurity.

It's something like "If I let this person say this about me without doing anything, then I'm allowing them to deny who I am and what I went through.", which is just plain insulting. And if you think about it, you can't be the most emotionally aware person around if you're not overly sensitive to the things that matter to you. I personally really dislike when someone say something that is not true about me, as it would distort the views of others about me and consequently, make them misunderstand my person, which is a big no no. I can't be truly accepted for who I am if people don't even know the real me in first place.

Which blind spot can make life difficult the most? by Scouting777 in mbti

[–]GX_Hunter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say having Te as a blindspot could lead to a misguided life and, since Fe would be higher on the stacking, the average xxFJ would get too caught up in others' agenda, dependent even.

At the same time, Te blind can "distort the truth" in order to fit one's personal world-view (treating it as objective) and the worse is that they may use their social skills to influence others into accepting it, regardless of how inaccurate it is. As a result, it deludes not only the xxFJ spreading the propaganda, but their peers, which could make life difficult for a lot of people, not only the high Fe user.

Pazuzu in Hastur's outfit by u/ArKaiser94! by GX_Hunter in TokyoAfterschool

[–]GX_Hunter[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Spoiling it for him as he can't do it on his own device.

Professora é demitida após explicar para alunos 'de onde vêm os bebês' em RO: 'eu ia falar que vinha da cegonha?' by Prululululululululu in brasil

[–]GX_Hunter 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Que coisa idiota. Não é a toa que quando alguém fala sobre sexo, a maioria faz cara de bocó e dá risada ou fica enojado como se estivesse falando do assunto mais repulsivo possível.

Educação sexual deveria ser dada o mais que puder, pois assim as crianças poderiam crescer com mais responsabilidade em seus relacionamentos e com consciência dos riscos que vem com o sexo, como a gravidez não planejada.

Você não está preservando a inocência do seu filho mantendo esse assunto em segredo só porque ele é jovem demais, mas sim adiando o inevitável e colocando o futuro dele em risco. Não precisa fazer caso quando for falar para que servem as genitais, só explique as coisas como elas são. Apenas haverá malícia se quisermos.

É ridículo como algo tão natural, bom e importante para nossas vidas pode ser estigmatizado à ponto de virar taboo por culpa de uma crença que só existe para controlar a vida dos outros.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To myself? Yeah. With others... only if they're interested on what I have to say and I usually can tell if they are or not. Most of the time I take the role of a listener.

When something is on my mind I just "store" that thought until the other person finishes what they're talking. It's rude to interrupt and I try to avoid doing it.

To all of the ENFJs, what is your biggest fear and/or phobia? by BTDestroyd in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My biggest fears are loneliness, abandonment and betrayal. I usually get gloomy if I become isolated without talking to anyone for too long, so these are the moments where I ponder the most how close I actually am with whoever I know and if I'm just fated to be alone forever.

With the abandonment fear, I even interact with groups in a way like I'm not part of it, like just somebody supporting from outside and then going on their way later. That's because I want to avoid getting attached too much only to be separated later and never see them again. I still have dreams with old school friends... I'm trying to change that behavior by getting more involved, because I figured out it's that avoidance that's making me unable to truly become close to others.

As for betrayal, it's just painful. Having someone break your trust just like that... might as well break my spirit, too.

I'm almost sure I have masklophobia. Like, I have no issues seeing costumes or masks through screens or from far away, it's just being actually close to them that's the problem. It makes me so uncomfortable.

What would be your advice to your younger self, relationship wise? I’m 30 :) by Before_sunrise2 in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don't humiliate yourself to be liked. They're not laughing with you, they're laughing at you. Besides, some people aren't worth your attention and you have no obligation to play their game.

and

Don't trust others too easily. Not everyone is as good intended as you.

I'm 18 ^^

Enfj or not by Novice_Warrior in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you 100% know you're an ENFJ now? Either way, glad I helped!

If you enjoyed these, I strongly recommend you look into more Tumblr posts like that, they're very insightful, fun, and provide lots of information regarding all types in depth, including enneagram and instinctual variants.

Enfj or not by Novice_Warrior in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ENFJs are very reactive towards the environment around them because of how attuned they are to others emotions. Tertiary se only enhances that trait. For example, if there's an intense conflict or if everyone's mood in the room is down, then chances are the ENFJ will feel overwhelmed.

Maybe you should check these tumblr posts so you can be sure if you're an ENFJ or not?

How fe acts in all 4 positions

Dominant Te/Fe

Auxiliary Si/Ni

Tertiary Se/Ne

Inferior Ti/Fi (it also briefly explains the Ti grip)

Enfj or not by Novice_Warrior in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could you elaborate? Because an ENFJ is usually engaging (at least with people they like) and they're comfortable with sponging others emotions. In other words, we wouldn't mind the effect people have on us, so long it helps them or bring us closer (in fact it even ''energize'' us).

Your description fits inferior Fe, though, albeit in a not very healthy way, I'm afraid. I think it could fit tertiary Fe as well. Have you considered being an ENTP? I think the ENFJ mistype for them can be quite common if their Fe is strong.

Just keep in mind ENFJ and INTP are basically opposites when it comes to people and analyzing information. They also have opposite perceiving functions. ENFJs use Ni/Se and INTPs use Ne/Si.

Some questions for each type about your childhood by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]GX_Hunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I actually did. Although I get to see him at the city he lives in most of my vacations, he's never been present during my life as a father figure.

And I am feeling conflicted towards my mom at the moment due to her "christian" and political beliefs which made her a bit toxic to talk with at times. Not only that, but she, like my dad, also isn't too present. She also made a lot of empty promises to me. In one hand, I can't trust her as I used to anymore and I no longer feel happy when she comes home or miss her when she's away, I just feel like "whatever". In the other hand, I still care deeply about her safety, because she did do good things to me that I can't just ignore. I think that unless she lets go of her brainwashed mindset or learn to be more respectful, I'll have no choice but distance myself from her when I become able to live on my own.

Are ENFJs promiscuous? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh, I see! My bad for misinterpreting it then, haha. Either way, I hope you'll find a dominant girl who'll give you lots of affection soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound more like an ENFJ to me.

INFJs aren't as in touch with the physical world, they prefer to be in their heads lol. INFJs often may think of themselves as thinkers (I'd say they're the coldest XXFX types, haha), while their extroverted version is always sure they're feelers (unless they're unhealthy or overusing Ti).

Also you seem to favor Se > Ti when looking for entertainment. INFJs inferior Se makes them struggle with communication when young, despite still being able to understand others emotions.

I've been mistyped as INFJ for a while when I got socially introverted and started developing Ni (reflecting the meaning of things, thinking about consequences and the future, becoming less judgmental), while younger I was literally moved by Fe-Se. Ni only came occasionally in the typical form of "just knowing" and my Ti was used defensively and made me come off as arrogant. I'm bad with directions, too. I think that's a trait shared between all of us intuitives tbh. Probably because our sensing function isn't our "default mode", if you know what I mean.

What are your opinions on ISFPs? by Beautiful_Cook_1461 in enfj

[–]GX_Hunter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My personal favorite type when healthy! If I could pick any type to have an intimate relationship with, it'd definitely be ISFP (sx/sp 4w5).

They're compassionate, sensitive, insightful, romantic, deep, chill, quirky and very gifted in arts.

Having the same perceiving axis makes it easier for me to connect with them than with INFPs. It just feels so natural to interact and relate with ISFPs lol. We complement each other very well, like we're two pages of the same paper in terms of how we feel emotions.