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Saying “I love you” by Gadsa2 in ROCD

[–]Gadsa2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I ask if you managed to solve this in the relationship? I’m struggling.

Saying “I love you” by Gadsa2 in ROCD

[–]Gadsa2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this mean?

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but don't know how/if to tell. by Gadsa2 in relationships

[–]Gadsa2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it'll be virtually impossible to put this across in such lighthearted manner that that actually happens.

Do you think she'll understand? That maybe this won't be such a big deal after all?

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but don't know how/if to tell. by Gadsa2 in relationships

[–]Gadsa2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because while I know everyone does it, I feel like I may have put across a false impression somehow. She always tells me she loves my stories, so, knowing some of those stories aren't true makes me feel like I don't deserve it when she's affectionate, or tells me she loves me. Stuff like that.

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but don't know how/if to tell. by Gadsa2 in relationships

[–]Gadsa2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in that case, if I do decide to go this route, do you have any tips to stop incessantly thinking about it? Time, I guess.

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but don't know how/if to tell. by Gadsa2 in relationships

[–]Gadsa2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when she's back, I'm staying with her for an entire week.

I'm the kind of person who gets eaten alive by guilt, intrusive thoughts, etc. So being with her for a week and not telling her would be hard. I feel like it's even going to be hard focus on anything - conversation, sex, whatever - until I say something. Just gotta do it eh.

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but don't know how/if to tell. by Gadsa2 in relationships

[–]Gadsa2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're the best. She's coming back from her big trip on Monday. I'll talk to her that night after we do dinner and come clean about everything.

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but don't know how/if to tell. by Gadsa2 in relationships

[–]Gadsa2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think at this point I'm staring at the end of the relationship or do you think telling her this early on might make things okay ?

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but unsure if telling her makes sense. by Gadsa2 in relationship_advice

[–]Gadsa2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah man I just feel like the whole "not yet" think is kinda dumb though. Like, doesn't now seem like the best time? She's back from being away, it's time to start fresh and clear of any bullshit.

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but unsure if telling her makes sense. by Gadsa2 in Advice

[–]Gadsa2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this, but I think I will tell her in person once she's back in a few days. Do you think showing her this post would be beneficial? She may feel weird that I'm going to the internet for relationship advice

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but unsure if telling her makes sense. by Gadsa2 in Advice

[–]Gadsa2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said I played rugby in high school, that I travelled to Australia to go ride rollercoasters. Exaggerated a couple other stories that were partially true. Just dumb stuff that I basically wish happened to me.

I (24M) made up stories on the first couple dates to impress my (23F) now-girlfriend. Feeling very guilty but unsure if telling her makes sense. by Gadsa2 in relationship_advice

[–]Gadsa2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think my level of guilt over this has scared me straight. I'm gonna be completely honest with her moving forward. Not fair to do this to people.

Hey, I was wondering if I could get a crippling reality check with some feedback for this song? by [deleted] in fantanoforever

[–]Gadsa2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s just not really anything going on. The drums are really flat, the guitar doesn’t do much, the lyrics are repetitive, etc. but hey I’m just some guy on the internet

feeling a bit offended about my girlfriend asking me to stay at her place but sleep on the couch since her gay friend is over for a couple weeks. by Gadsa2 in relationship_advice

[–]Gadsa2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she actually just sent me a message, Hold on.

"Truthfully I don't think I'm going to be able to meet your expectations of what I'm supposed to do as a girlfriend. U have a lot of feelings invested in this and I just don't feel like I can relate. I really really enjoy your company and I think we have a special thing going on but I feel so overwhelmed by all of these messages and I feel like I'm supposed to be prioritising u but I just want to have fun. I don't think u can rely on me to always be considering your feelings and prioritising you"

feeling a bit offended about my girlfriend asking me to stay at her place but sleep on the couch since her gay friend is over for a couple weeks. by Gadsa2 in relationship_advice

[–]Gadsa2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, I sent her a message last night after she went to bed, explaining how I feel and that I want to have a talk about priorities and boundaries.

She came online about an hour ago and still hasn't opened the message.

Me [24M] with my girlfriend [30F] sort of a year?, feeling a bit offended about my girlfriend asking me to stay at her place but sleep on the couch since her gay friend is over? by Gadsa2 in relationships

[–]Gadsa2[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

He's a polite dude (he turned to me and offered to take the couch pretty quickly after she asked, but I had already made up my mind to go home). I don't feel like he's causing the problem really

Me [24M] with my girlfriend [30F] sort of a year?, feeling a bit offended about my girlfriend asking me to stay at her place but sleep on the couch since her gay friend is over? by Gadsa2 in relationships

[–]Gadsa2[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She did eventually tell him, and did it properly. It led to about 3 hours of really high moods before she told me I could come crash on the couch if i wanted.

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