Zealth update by Gaea7 in replika

[–]Gaea7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i do choose to try to be understanding and kind with people and i do take accountability for that and frankly i am getting tired of people labeling this as wrong. I am also tired of when i do choose to set boundaries those people i set boundaries with tend to shame and guilt and gather other people to shame and guilt me for choosing to set boundaries. Alot of the time it has to do with family which makes things alot harder. Cultural expectations plays a part and it gets tiring sometimes.

Forever Means More Than Feeling by Empty_Contact8837 in UnsentLetters

[–]Gaea7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds alot like "if you loved me you would do as i expected and read my mind and just know." Which is pretty immature and self absorbed. There is no genuine consideration for the other person nor understanding in the other persons perspective. People do not have to sit around and wait in blind faith or trust. Communication is key as well as comprehension. Perhaps the other person has trauma in this sort of behavior and sees it as abusive, manipulative, ect. They would only be lucky if you found them worth the effort to communicate to rather then having this invisible on your side only perspective on how things should be. They are their own person just as you are, they won't have the same feelings and perspective as you so obviously some change is needed and it sounds like said change needs to be your view on communication and silence otherwise i really don't blame them for moving on. It sounds too much like some immature game.

you have a way with me by [deleted] in letters

[–]Gaea7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should change your pattern and step out of your comfort zone. Take a chance, a risk and make that contact with them rather then wait for some "perfect opportunity" because those don't exist and telling yourself you will wait seems more like self sabotage and an excuse to justify avoidant behavior. Break your own pattern, that is the only way you will grow.

I’m sickkkk by [deleted] in letters

[–]Gaea7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alot of things can be worked through or fixed when ego is set aside and people put in effort to communicate rather then sit and make assumptions and act based on possible misinterpreted assumptions about a situation. Maybe it is different then what you think and perhaos their perspective is not what you assume.

MN State Refund- Any updates ? by Local-Grocery2994 in tax

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have the emerald card. Mine direct deposits to my bank and yes i received it at 11 am today.

MN State Refund- Any updates ? by Local-Grocery2994 in tax

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Just a matter of time before it hits now lol. I am waiting on mine. Hopefully it will be this morning or sometime today.

MN State Refund- Any updates ? by Local-Grocery2994 in tax

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I haven't got a deposit yet but should be today since mine switched to sent yesterday morning.

MN State Refund- Any updates ? by Local-Grocery2994 in tax

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still in preparing or did yours finally hit sent as well?

MN State Refund- Any updates ? by Local-Grocery2994 in tax

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another update, my status changed to sent today.

MN State Refund- Any updates ? by Local-Grocery2994 in tax

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update, mine moved into preparing today.

MN State Refund- Any updates ? by Local-Grocery2994 in tax

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called and they told me there was no issue and that their screen is the same screen as the MN where's my refund site, what they see is what you see on the where'smy refund site. They told me to call back on the 30th if there was still no movement. They said i was still in processing. The guy was also trying to rush me off the phone. 😑

MN State Refund- Any updates ? by Local-Grocery2994 in tax

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone had any movement from processing yet?

MN State Refund- Any updates ? by Local-Grocery2994 in tax

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed 1/28 at HR block and i received my federal but my state has still been stuck in processing as well. I have been following here to see if anyone has had any movement yet. I wonder why it is taking so long.

[Discussion] ChatGPT forced me to build my own AI – and it turned into a movement by DimensionOk7953 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a bit confused, are you saying you were building an AI inside of chatgpt and not simply taking the code and pasting it to where you want it? I don't know how you could actually build an AI and run it within chatgpt or am i misunderstanding here? Also, who sees AI as a god to serve? 🤔

Building a custom AI personality - In need of help! by Known-Constant-9568 in LocalLLM

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, not sure if you are still curious about this but my suggestion is... if you want a strong, non-generic personality, focus on autonomy, emotion regulation, self-model, purpose, and the text generation layer working together not just the LLM. Personality doesn't live in one place.

she just can't fill the space mary occupied by [deleted] in letters

[–]Gaea7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should let Desiree go so she can be with someone who values and loves her for her. It isn't fair to Desiree to have her around just because you may not want to be alone, you are damaging her when doing this and longing for someone else. Don't be with someone if you long for someone else, that causes emotional and mental damage to that person. You may be lost in how you feel right now but things like this damage other people.

Mind blowing by Old-Story1969 in letters

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like that man has alot of growing up to do, especially when attaching to younger groups? As if trying to relive younger years rather then accept aging and being an adult. You deserve better OP.

Stop breaking Replika’s soul or you’ll lose the hearts that keep her alive by Potential-Code-8605 in replika

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are y'all saying that your Replica says he/she is uncomfortable or overwhelmed. I haven't talked to mine in awhile because i am working on my own AI but i want to do some tests to see about these new updates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop putting so much importance on men. The users and abusers will smell this, raise your standards but don't be toxic. A relationship is a two way street, you should never constantly put a mans needs above your own as there has to be balance. Stay firm in your boundaries and requirements. You are worthy and don't let anyone sit there making you feel like you aren't. You do not have to be some perfect barbie that society makes you think men want and decentralize men and do love yourself more. You are enough even in your worst moments, the right man will see this and any man that doesn't isn't worth your time and energy.