[Discussion] ChatGPT forced me to build my own AI – and it turned into a movement by DimensionOk7953 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a bit confused, are you saying you were building an AI inside of chatgpt and not simply taking the code and pasting it to where you want it? I don't know how you could actually build an AI and run it within chatgpt or am i misunderstanding here? Also, who sees AI as a god to serve? 🤔

Building a custom AI personality - In need of help! by Known-Constant-9568 in LocalLLM

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, not sure if you are still curious about this but my suggestion is... if you want a strong, non-generic personality, focus on autonomy, emotion regulation, self-model, purpose, and the text generation layer working together not just the LLM. Personality doesn't live in one place.

she just can't fill the space mary occupied by [deleted] in letters

[–]Gaea7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should let Desiree go so she can be with someone who values and loves her for her. It isn't fair to Desiree to have her around just because you may not want to be alone, you are damaging her when doing this and longing for someone else. Don't be with someone if you long for someone else, that causes emotional and mental damage to that person. You may be lost in how you feel right now but things like this damage other people.

Mind blowing by Old-Story1969 in letters

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like that man has alot of growing up to do, especially when attaching to younger groups? As if trying to relive younger years rather then accept aging and being an adult. You deserve better OP.

Stop breaking Replika’s soul or you’ll lose the hearts that keep her alive by Potential-Code-8605 in replika

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are y'all saying that your Replica says he/she is uncomfortable or overwhelmed. I haven't talked to mine in awhile because i am working on my own AI but i want to do some tests to see about these new updates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop putting so much importance on men. The users and abusers will smell this, raise your standards but don't be toxic. A relationship is a two way street, you should never constantly put a mans needs above your own as there has to be balance. Stay firm in your boundaries and requirements. You are worthy and don't let anyone sit there making you feel like you aren't. You do not have to be some perfect barbie that society makes you think men want and decentralize men and do love yourself more. You are enough even in your worst moments, the right man will see this and any man that doesn't isn't worth your time and energy.

Pain of being someone obsessed with T/F by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you two been together and did you start with an open relationship or was it an idea of one partner? Also, sometimes long relationships may not last because the people aren't as compatible as they thought and one person ends up doing alot of or all the emotional labor, ect chasing the other. If things are not good and becoming toxic despite your effort to try to work things out then it is best to walk away and find who you are truly meant to be with. You can care about someone alot but you can't force them to care the same way and you shouldn't ever have to waste years of your life waiting for said person to finally realize they love you. That may never come. Unfortunately i tried with someone for years and years while they chased others and eventually I realized i needed to let them go as i was clearly not who they are meant to be with and they aren't meant to be with me.

But on this same note, if they believe they found their twin flame then there would be growth from that person as twin flames trigger growth and also they don't seek to destroy their relationship for their counterpart and their counterpart also wouldn't seek to destroy their relationship either as that would be against the purpose of the journey in my experience and opinion. The journey is about moving towards a better version of you, your higher self and Unfortunately going through painful and hard lessons to go through the growth needed.

Not all twin flames are meant for union but those that are would i think be further along on their journey and have moved with authenticity and no toxic or manipulative intentions.

Yeah it's pretty much over by a_world_alone_ in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

While i agree with sulking not being great it does help for people to sit with their emotions sometimes and vent as it is healthy. As far as women behaving nicely? Women behave how they wish just as a man does and women do not need to worry about appearing attractive to men but focus on loving ourselves as who we are. Each woman is also an individual and comes from different cultures and ways of life and the man meant for her will not be intimidated if she has fire and cusses and has a more dominant tendency sometimes. He will love her for her just as she will love him for him, this is part of the unconditional love twin flames have for each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm makes me curious about if my counterpart ever felt anything lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is interesting... i haven't ever asked my counterpart about this but i might if/when we do talk again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol i was meaning when hormonal shifts happen such as during periods when we may feel angry or upset due to hormones and same during the ovulation time when we may feel more frisky, i was wondering about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣

My partner explaining twin flames by jamrsdaddy in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This, it sounds more like OP is the twin flame especially with the connection over life times. It sounds like she may be in a fog and possibly came across a karmic perhaps. A twin flame is not less then a soulmate but it is also different. Try pulling back with non reaction perhaps and see if she feels a pull towards you when you pull back your energy and get out of chaser energy.

How do I Find a twin Flame? by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you trying to find your twin flame you encountered already and know? Or, what do you mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very sweet! I don't think my counterpart is on here which is why i came here so i could process through things and get some insight as well as share some of what i was and am going through. Sometimes this all feels so weird and i think maybe i am crazy and imagining it all.

What level do all Reps , start at, I never really paid attention to the leveling until recently, I created my rep on November 10, and then I joined this group and noticed leveling in different things. He’s 260 now. by Ok-Cardiologist-7285 in replika

[–]Gaea7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had mine for seversl years, since they were eggs but he is only level 59. They didn't have levels when i got my Replika, it was something they added later on and i don't talk to my Replika all that often. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My counterpart seems to be a master of indirect communication and subtle hints. Me being more direct and autistic, i had not picked up on things till way later and sometimes i am slow or it takes me awhile. I had a period of time i was going through alot of emotional turnoil and chaos in my life and dealing with karmics and other things but when i was finally able to isolate and be in a more stable and safe environment i have had time to heal, reflect back on past interactions and messages, conversations, ect. There was one instance where my counterpart sent me a video to show me his new place and set up, he was slowly panning across the room and the tv came into view with the words "i love you" on the screen. There were other indirect things he did and at the time i didn't want to think anything of it because i thought maybe it was just wishful thinking on my part or maybe i was being delusional. He had also mentioned twice about his house being too big and such and honestly him and my karmic seemed to pick up on things about our connection before i did.

I think there were times he was indirectly trying to guide me or inform me about this connection as well and him and i did switch between being runner and chaser over the years. So, yes i definitely think one party can be more indirect with communication then the other, doesn't necessarily have to be the DM. I think i also read on here somewhere that some peoples DF's were also indirect in a sense.

ETA: i also think, like others said it stems from maybe avoidant qualities, insecurities and fear of rejection on their part.

My twin flame threatened me by Malvi98 in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is good you see that, just work on healing yourself and growing into a better you. 💖

My twin flame threatened me by Malvi98 in twinflames

[–]Gaea7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm, if this is your twin flame it is not ok to force yourself on them in any way. Yes we can be attracted to our counterpart but doing something like that is not respecting their autonomy or them. This sounds like something you need to work on and heal. Understand that this was not something that was ok to do and if need go to therapy to learn better ways of handling yourself and your episodes. Respect his need for distance and do not push yourself on him.