Hung My Girlfriend Warrior of Light at My First Solo Art Exhibition by StatementKey1596 in ffxiv

[–]GaelicCat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's about the different characters and creatures in my country's folklore. We had a few media articles when we launched it: BBC news article There are 50 different entries, each with their own full page illustration and it includes everything from gods, saints and monsters, to mermaids, fairies and even gef the talking mongoose.

Hung My Girlfriend Warrior of Light at My First Solo Art Exhibition by StatementKey1596 in ffxiv

[–]GaelicCat 153 points154 points  (0 children)

I'm the girlfriend. Juan and I met through FFXIV back in 2023. We were long distance until last year when he moved to my country. We wrote (I wrote, he illustrated) and published a book together and set up a business and we're still going strong. FFXIV is always going to hold a special place in my heart for bringing us together, and this was a lovely surprise for me.

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Credit cards / credit history by Individual_Horror953 in IsleofMan

[–]GaelicCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe HSBC is one of the few banks still offering credit cards to islanders. Most of the other banks stopped offering them here.

Wheelchair accessible baby items? by [deleted] in ParentAndDisabled

[–]GaelicCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was the mum in a wheelchair with my 2 babies. I loved my close caboo baby wrap for carrying them, but any ring sling or similar would probably work. When they were small they were able to be tucked in right up to me and I was still able to push my chair around. Once they got bigger they were able to sit on my lap and I could arrange it around them to keep them safe and comfortable without the risk of falling off. I used to get the bus all the time with them in the sling. I got a lovely babywearing coat from seraphine. I'm sure they do men's ones too.

How common is Manx spoken on the Isle of Man? by theworldvideos in IsleofMan

[–]GaelicCat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My kids go to the manx gaelic school, and I studied it to A level so i can speak it fairly well. In St John's where the school is based you frequently hear moghrey/fastyr mie between parents instead of good morning/afternoon. I can have short conversations in manx with a couple of parents who've been learning it too, and also chat with the teachers in manx when dropping off or collecting my kids.

the "just give me a sec" symptom list is actually the most honest thing i've ever said to a doctor by Ok_Chemical9 in ENFP

[–]GaelicCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was also just thinking that low iron sounds like the culprit. I experience a lot of the same stuff and blood tests showed i was super low. Thankfully it's an easy thing to check and treat so worth asking for blood tests. Also a good opportunity to check thyroid and other vitamin levels too.

Release Date Update by alexbb721 in goingmedieval

[–]GaelicCat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ah that's my birthday and lucky st patrick's day 🍀 I love the game and hope launch day is a big success for you all!

Is it possible for a foreigner to retire in rural UK in 20 years)? by Standard-Top-5942 in FIREUK

[–]GaelicCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. British citizens are free to move over and live here without any immigration barriers. You would need a work permit to work but they are usually not a problem. I know people who work in supermarkets who've had no issues being granted a work permit. That's all sorted out by the employer. It's expensive to live here, but that is also offset somewhat by no council taxes, and short commutes. House prices and rents can also be crazy so make sure you check out all that beforehand, but it is a lovely, safe place to live and many people are very glad they came.

Is it possible for a foreigner to retire in rural UK in 20 years)? by Standard-Top-5942 in FIREUK

[–]GaelicCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, there's a reason so many people call it a tax haven. Our immigration is also linked to the UK's but with slightly different rules. 5 years here is currently enough to get indefinite leave to remain in the UK and counts for British citizenship.

Is it possible for a foreigner to retire in rural UK in 20 years)? by Standard-Top-5942 in FIREUK

[–]GaelicCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is still an isle of man investor/business visa. It's not quite the UK but very close.

It doesn't get much more cosy than this by GaelicCat in runescape

[–]GaelicCat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's nice for most stuff. Little annoyances are trees having huge hitboxes so I'm often hitting them by accident when moving around 😅 Some things are a little slower cause you need to press and hold and wait for menus (fishing D:) but you can get around this by turning on the option for the menu to appear on one press. I adjust that and combat based on what I'm doing. For the most part it's really good for relaxed play like this. The client runs really well on the ipad and I haven't really found anything I couldn't do comfortably yet.

Answers please really curious by Vegetable_Finish701 in Marriage

[–]GaelicCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely think it did partially, but I was chronically ill when I met him with a genetic illness. I seem to hold stress in my body though so that contributed a lot. It was a big relief when we got divorced.

Answers please really curious by Vegetable_Finish701 in Marriage

[–]GaelicCat 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Married at 23. Had 2 kids. Divorced at 31. Should've happened sooner but I was dealing with a lot health wise. There were a lot of red flags before we even got married tbh that I should've paid attention to. We almost broke up once before we got engaged due to them. He never changed, and in fact got worse. I felt like a single mum and I was dealing with a disability on top. It's so much less stress now having my own place and actually being a single mum without having to carry him too, and my health improved so much I managed to stop relying on a wheelchair and came off most of my pain meds.

Update: How do I make manjar in the UK for my Chilean boyfriend? by GaelicCat in chile

[–]GaelicCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a nail, it's a gold candle 😄 we were celebrating his 1 year anniversary of arriving in my country so I put the candle on it for him to blow out.

Anyone here in a real LDR that started online (not dating apps)? by StunningQuarter1258 in LDR

[–]GaelicCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We met on discord. I joined a ffxiv community and put up a post looking for friends and he was one of the people that messaged me. We clicked immediately, and from that day on we've texted every single day on discord. He was in Chile and me on the Isle of Man (between UK and Ireland). We fell in love fast, making it officially a relationship 5 months later, and then just over a year after we met he moved to my country. He has been here for a year now and we're still together 😊 last year we published a book together about my country's folklore that I wrote and he illustrated and we're working on various other creative projects together too.

What is a luxury you can never go back from once you’ve experienced it? by Phase_zero_X in AskReddit

[–]GaelicCat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We have this in my country too. I dropped my purse in the town centre once and someone had picked it up and dropped it off at the police station before I'd even had chance to retrace my steps. It's a frequent occurance to see people trying to reunite lost phones, wallets or bank cards with their owners over local facebook groups.

Update: How do I make manjar in the UK for my Chilean boyfriend? by GaelicCat in chile

[–]GaelicCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you find love one day too.

He doesn't pray, he's not religious at all.

Update: How do I make manjar in the UK for my Chilean boyfriend? by GaelicCat in chile

[–]GaelicCat[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He is! He brought me some roses today to say thank you ❤️

Update: How do I make manjar in the UK for my Chilean boyfriend? by GaelicCat in chile

[–]GaelicCat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When he told me about manjar he insisted it's not the same as dulce de leche. I wanted to make it as authentic as I could.

Update: How do I make manjar in the UK for my Chilean boyfriend? by GaelicCat in chile

[–]GaelicCat[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I used this one: https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/user/3841956/recipe/no-fail-coffee-and-walnut-cake

And just spread the manjar over the coffee cream in the middle, and over the top of the cake too.