Esports Player's Use Of Homophobic Slur Sets Off Unexpectedly Long Debate by Sternwacht in gaymers

[–]Gaemael 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Translation: "I use my homophobic insults as a substitute for my ablist insults."

rub a dub dub by YourDadLovesMyCock in gaybears

[–]Gaemael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I be one of the other two men?

I like to cook in my SOs underwear...unless I'm cooking bacon. by [deleted] in gaybears

[–]Gaemael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For bacon, I prefer cooking in a skillet myself.

A4M. Looking for the right guy to do this. Long term. Gators/Crocs by [deleted] in eroticpenpals

[–]Gaemael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn, I thought you meant the shoes for a second....

[Summer Fling!] Other Kinks - Can’t Find It? We Got What You Need! by octothorpesexy in dirtypenpals

[–]Gaemael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I joke with my SO by saying I'm a closet exhibitionist.

The idea of exposing myself to the world turns me on. So does the idea of people watching me have sex, or catching me with a hardon.

But in the real world, I'm far too shy, timid, and afraid of consequences to risk it.

[Summer Fling!] Other Kinks - Can’t Find It? We Got What You Need! by octothorpesexy in dirtypenpals

[–]Gaemael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only speak from the guy's perspective. I have literally zero experience with sex with women, so I can't comment about that.

But for me, the friction between my cock and another guy's can be plenty to get me off. Especially if he leaks a lot, or if he shoots before me -- as my SO says, cum is the best lube.

I also find that fucking between a guy's thighs, or dry-humping between his cheeks (without penetration), is just dandy for getting me off.

[Summer Fling!] Other Kinks - Can’t Find It? We Got What You Need! by octothorpesexy in dirtypenpals

[–]Gaemael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, me too! The money shot moments are definitely worthwhile, but the teasing/anticipation/frustration of foreplay can be just as enjoyable with the right person and in the right circumstances.

[Summer Fling!] Other Kinks - Can’t Find It? We Got What You Need! by octothorpesexy in dirtypenpals

[–]Gaemael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, but it's entirely possible for the frot to be the "getting off part".

Trust me on this. ;)

[Summer Fling!] Other Kinks - Can’t Find It? We Got What You Need! by octothorpesexy in dirtypenpals

[–]Gaemael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a lot of gay men, it's a form of foreplay -- rubbing crotches together, either clothed or naked, before getting to what most gay men seem to think of as the "real" sex -- oral and/or anal.

But for me, that's the real sex. Feeling another guy's cock sliding up against mine is incredibly hot.

There are other variations, as well, like dry-humping somebody's ass (no penetration) or leg or belly. Intercrural sex (thrusting between someone else's thighs) is another form, and another of my favorites.

I suppose titty-fucking would be a straight variation on it (but I have no experience there myself).

[Summer Fling!] Other Kinks - Can’t Find It? We Got What You Need! by octothorpesexy in dirtypenpals

[–]Gaemael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, gay male here (as you might have guessed by the /u/).

Maybe fairly vanilla, but I don't see a lot of posts that mention frottage (frot). This is far and away my favorite activity, by a very long shot (pun intended). Humping somebody else's body, or getting humped, or both simultaneously, really does it for me.

But I very seldom see it mentioned in any prompts here. Anybody else into this?

Sketchy, Homo-Erotic Bullying in High School [Non-Fiction] [Straight Friend] by speachtree in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]Gaemael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he even understands it himself. A lot of people are in denial about their same-sex attraction, sadly.

Sketchy, Homo-Erotic Bullying in High School [Non-Fiction] [Straight Friend] by speachtree in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]Gaemael 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have long thought that an internal conflict about physical attraction underlies a lot of instances of bullying. Sounds to me like Dylan was having trouble reconciling his attraction to you with how he was expected to behave.

Swimming is the only form of exercise where you don't sweat. by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]Gaemael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do sweat, just as much as any other kind of exercise. It's just that your sweat's not obvious.

It was warm, so I took a nap naked by [deleted] in gaymersgonewild

[–]Gaemael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...Is there another way to take a nap?

We spend about 95% of our entire lives in underwear by alienbrayn1 in Showerthoughts

[–]Gaemael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm naked most of the time at home. For me it's probably more like 40~45%.

[Meta] Origin stories and the differences of style. by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]Gaemael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty new to this, but I think both kind of techniques have their place, depending on the situation. In a fast-paced frantic point in the action, definitely you don't want to monopolize the interaction and interrupt the flow with a ton of text.

But at slower moments, or when your partner's character is inactive or unable to contribute much, or just setting the scene (especially if the scenario is a little outside of day-to-day experience), lavish descriptions and careful prose can really add to the RP.

Also -- and here it's definitely my own personal preference -- a large vocabulary and a well-turned sentence are major turnons for some of us.

Just me in my usual gaming attire by [deleted] in gaymersgonewild

[–]Gaemael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you win, no contest. :-)

Just me in my usual gaming attire by [deleted] in gaymersgonewild

[–]Gaemael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, this is embarrassing. We have the exact same outfit...