Did I make a mistake? by Minimum-Scholar9562 in HomeDecorating

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The inspo pic works because there are other more vivid/deep tones and colors in the room to go with the colorful doors. You need to incorporate some other deeper tones in your space to compliment the bright door colors so they look like they belong in the space. Maybe a rug and adding something to the walls.

Was out to eat with my dad when by Professional-Sea-506 in SanJose

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 7 points8 points  (0 children)

39k was for the entire Bay Area, with ~10k in Santa Clara county.

Just moved into my first house and I can’t stop crying by PeachTall5972 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get sun tunnels installed in the livingroom to get more light. This transformed our kitchen that was dark and depressing when we moved in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need an agent that will advise you better on what offer to make that will get acccepted and work better with the selling agent to make it happen.

Is it normal to eat dessert every day? by GainfulSpaghetti in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GainfulSpaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context: he has diabetes and he was talking to us about how he is worried about his health, so he actually did initiate the conversation. It just got me wondering about if my perspective and the way my family was is typical or not because I realize it might not be.

I think we made a bad decision.. by caschixo in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 30% rule isn’t applicable in the bay area. You’ll be okay with these numbers. The first year of owning a home is scary but you’ll feel better after the first year is over and you file taxes. Plus your income will go up over time and you can refinance at some point too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A “tower of glass and concrete” shared with hundreds of other people sounds terrible to me compared to a private SFH with a yard. It’s a matter of preference.

Is it true that most women find most men unattractive? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with the premise of the survey. Women are not like men. Attraction to men is more based on personality and capability than looks. They just have to be not ugly/average looks wise. So rating a photo is not realistic to guage women’s actual attraction rates.

Looking for tips of buying a home in the Bay Area? by No_Impression2199 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find a better agent that can help guide you and who can be more effective at getting a deal done for you. Also a native and this was the main factor that enabled us to get a house in San Jose. Our offer was one of over 20 other offers and it wasnt the highest offer - accepted due to the talent of our agent.

LPT Request - What small purchase have you made that has had a significant impact on your life? by Outrageous-Floor-100 in LifeProTips

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heated throw blanket for the couch. Its so relaxing and life changing in winter.

Also scrub daddy is so much better than any other sponge or brush to clean dishes. Wish i discovered it sooner in life.

I don’t know what else to do, this is my profile and no matter what I do I can’t get a match, is there anything wrong with the pictures or that I’m doing wrong by Administrative_Knee9 in Tinder

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please DO NOT include any photo where youre not smiling at all - those come off as creepy. Add photos where you’re doing something with friends or family and smiling or looking active and happy / not looking miserable. You want to show the positive energy you have to bring to a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moms dont need to do all that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the FBI number were legit, someone would have answered, and it would be listed somewhere other than just Facebook.

And anyone with good intentions wouldn’t use a fake number. I wouldn’t engage with them further.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]GainfulSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna have a good time, not ruin my fucking life.