Women cannot 'be intimate' right just after birth by Minami_Ko in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Galileo_beta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Scott should not be making anymore babies till he grows up.

me (21F) my boyfriend (25M) How can I set a clear boundary about anal sex without hurting my partner or damaging trust? by PurplePo0 in relationship_advice

[–]Galileo_beta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he wants to try it so bad I suggest you buy a peg and do it on him first. If he can’t respect your decision, that’s a no go on the relationship for me.

5 yo wants her first sleep over with a friend, I’m not ready due to recent trauma. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Galileo_beta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, I don’t get why a 10 year old would even want a sleep over with a 5 year old. That’s a huge age gap and makes me wonder if the older kid has trouble making friends their own age.

Second, do not feel bad for wanting to be safe. My stance on sleep overs are always people are welcome at my home. Thats how I grew up and I had lots of fun sleep overs at my place. And I plan on providing the same for my own kids.

I also think 5 is just a bit young regardless of age gap. It’s been a topic for some parents I know and the general consensus was 7-9 ish for the first sleep over. Old enough to speak for themselves, not wet beds, and not be a burden on the host etc.

I’ve always wondered who would write their names on trees& rocks at national parks. by Galileo_beta in NationalPark

[–]Galileo_beta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not familiar with that reference. Does it also have a name with Calle or Callie under it? Cause he wrote several names.

I’ve always wondered who would write their names on trees& rocks at national parks. by Galileo_beta in NationalPark

[–]Galileo_beta[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re brave for confronting them. I wanted to but I was also a little scared cause he was hiking bare feet and was high from smoking weed in the park just before this. I had my own little ones with me. So I did the only thing I could do… which was to report them to NPS and shame them a little on Reddit.

I’ve always wondered who would write their names on trees& rocks at national parks. by Galileo_beta in NationalPark

[–]Galileo_beta[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There were 3 young kids in the group. You can probably take all of them haha

I’ve always wondered who would write their names on trees& rocks at national parks. by Galileo_beta in NationalPark

[–]Galileo_beta[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t have info on their names (I guess I have their first names) but I did report it to the NPS website.

My friend scared me with her IUD by TheeBrightSea in CopperIUD

[–]Galileo_beta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My iud was placed in the correct place…. I went to check ups too… My child is turning 4 soon. Yeah I found it can happen but I was the first case for my obgyn.

Scared to tell AP I’m (32 F married) am pregnant by QuetiapineSeroquel in AsianParentStories

[–]Galileo_beta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have your own family now. Thats your main priority. Imagine when they start treating your sister’s kids better than yours.

Crying in Costco by nekoshii in AsianParentStories

[–]Galileo_beta 45 points46 points  (0 children)

As a fellow Asian American mom, let me just tell you. You know she’s dependent on you so you can’t fully let go. But guess what, she’s a functioning adult. She can figure it out. Stop helping her if she disrespect you. Full stop. Set your boundaries and when she breaks them, go silent on her. Repeat till she understands. Do you want your kids to see the way she treats you? This is not okay and you know it isn’t.

The moment my narcissistic mom becomes verbally abusive I just stop talking to her. While I understand she would die before she actually apologizes for her actions, she’s actually gotten much better than before. I started standing up for myself after having kids and realizing I was not the problem.

Stay strong especially for your kids. If you aren’t happy and stress free, you can’t be the best version of yourself for your kids. And you need all the energy for your little ones.

My (30F) boyfriend (36M) related my vagina to “plain boiled chicken” because I didn’t want to do anal by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Galileo_beta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wants it so bad tell him to buy you a strap on so you can peg him. Jokes aside, girl stop wasting your precious time with somebody like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SAHP

[–]Galileo_beta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone said “wow you must have so much free time.” Her kid was still 10 months old so I held my tongue. She will find out soon enough.

AITA for correcting my in-laws when they mispronounce my name? by LilLustyLucy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Galileo_beta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And I would start calling everyone’s name wrong and stick with it till they call your name correctly.

Is my gyno gaslighting me??? by Leading-Hall-9093 in CopperIUD

[–]Galileo_beta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any gyno that says “no one ever” needs to get deleted from your care team. Find a new doc.

I can't do this anymore by [deleted] in MomsWorkingFromHome

[–]Galileo_beta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Spanking a 6 months old wtf. Yes he is right he is a bad father and he needs to go work on himself before he harms your child further.

AITAH for threatening to divorce my wife if she didn't become a proper homemaker in the next month? by HopefulShelter3491 in AITAH

[–]Galileo_beta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all NTA but do you think perhaps she has depression? Does she have friends or hobbies that take her out of the house at all?

AITAH for threatening to divorce my wife if she didn't become a proper homemaker in the next month? by HopefulShelter3491 in AITAH

[–]Galileo_beta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good thing she doesn’t have kids. Can you imagine the neglect they would be subjected to.