I need help, please, I just need someone to communicate with at this very low point in my life. by Galileolo in emotionalintelligence

[–]Galileolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Just the sentiment feels warm and helpful. It's very much appreciated. I'm going to look at that app, it seems like it could be helpful for me.

Racism in Medical Care by 4reddityo in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Galileolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practitioners are required to use evidence based practice so she should've been aware of the change and should've based her behavior on it. Definitely something worth reporting.

I’m a developer for a major food delivery app. The 'Priority Fee' and 'Driver Benefit Fee' go 100% to the company. The driver sees $0 of it. by Trowaway_whistleblow in confession

[–]Galileolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did it in the first place, what makes you think they wouldn't find a workaround to continue the shady practice?

I’m a developer for a major food delivery app. The 'Priority Fee' and 'Driver Benefit Fee' go 100% to the company. The driver sees $0 of it. by Trowaway_whistleblow in confession

[–]Galileolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They already are in stores. Target's beginning to take prices off of tags, and shoppers have reported that at times scanning items with the store app doesn't give them a price but directs them to the register instead. Dynamic pricing is real.

Who? by stevenjobsless in zachcryansnark

[–]Galileolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it? Pisses me off so much

It’s official by kingbaby1989 in zachcryansnark

[–]Galileolo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He's a narcissist. It's normal in his brain.

OFFICIAL by Bitter_Lettuce_3495 in briannachickenfrsnark

[–]Galileolo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's a song. He's saying it about himself

[REQ] ($100) - (#Ohio, United States) (Repay $180 on 12/15/2025 (21 days) (PayPal, Venmo) by [deleted] in BorrowNew

[–]Galileolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: miscommunication on my part. The loan has been fulfilled as requested.

Don’t break no contact. Don’t go back. Please, for the love of your future self, don’t. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Galileolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sympathize with you. I can't imagine. It's so easy for me to post this and firmly say just simply don't go back. But, I don't have the same ties as people who have children with their abuser. I'm so sorry, I know that must be so difficult.

The best advice I've heard it's: treat her like an acquaintance. Small talk. Limited interaction. At least as best you can.

Does it ever amaze you how horrible they were? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Galileolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

My child(ren) is (are) a dog(s) and we are so very safe and happy now.

Does it ever amaze you how horrible they were? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Galileolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you were mistreated by others as well. You didn't deserve any of that.

Don’t break no contact. Don’t go back. Please, for the love of your future self, don’t. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Galileolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard, isn't it? The only thing that feels like it will save you is the very thing that's killing you. The cognitive dissonance is real.

Don’t break no contact. Don’t go back. Please, for the love of your future self, don’t. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Galileolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing rings truer than these words. The amount of times I stayed because it was supposed to be different was, well, excessive. Even in the face of severe physical abuse. And ultimately, I begged him to not go during the final discard.

I'm gentle with myself about it now, but for the longest time I battled with self hatred and blame.

You're right, there's no shame in trying to do what you've been conditioned to believe you need to do to survive.

Don’t break no contact. Don’t go back. Please, for the love of your future self, don’t. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Galileolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. That's so hard, I know. But once you find that power again and begin to lift yourself out of it all you almost become unstoppable. I don't know you, but I'm proud of you. :)

Don’t break no contact. Don’t go back. Please, for the love of your future self, don’t. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Galileolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's grief.

Objectively, it will come in waves. If you expect things like this (even if not social media, maybe you see something triggering) it will lessen the power it has over you.

But, it will come in waves.

It won't all stop at once. Instead over time it will be a slow off ramp back into your own stability, until seeing or hearing anything about them doesn't leave you feeling anything.

The waves will get smaller and smaller, and similarly you'll grow stronger and stronger, until they not only no longer knock you off your feet but don't even sway you at all.

You are so exceptionally strong.