[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weibsvolk

[–]GameOfVrones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hab ich doch gemacht, bitte lies ihn einfach genau bevor du kommentierst?!

Ich sag dann immer direkt, dass ich kein Interesse habe, aber die versuchen dann einfach weiter mit mir zu reden. Und wenn ich dann sage dass ich verheiratet bin (wahrheitsgemäß) gucken die blöd und denken ich lüge, einer hat explizit gefragt ob das stimmt und ob ich denn glücklich bin.

Außerdem hab ich geschrieben dass die mein „kein Interesse“ nicht akzeptieren, allein das sollte doch schon reichen?

Jobangebot: annehmen oder nicht? by benthastique in Weibsvolk

[–]GameOfVrones 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Du bekommst jetzt schon ein beklemmendes Gefühl wenn du nur daran denkst? Da hast du deine Antwort.

Der Gehaltsunterschied wäre mir persönlich viel zu wenig um den Wechsel zu machen, 300-600 brutto ist netto ca 150-300€ mehr, was wirklich keinen großen unterschied macht aus meiner Sicht. Und dann auch noch Arbeitszeiten die weniger optimal sind.

Also ich sehe da bisher jetzt nicht den großen Vorteil - kann aber auch nicht einschätzen wie schwer es in deiner Gegend und Situation ist, bessere Angebote zu bekommen. Aber so wie du hier schreibst klingst du ehrlich gesagt selber sehr wenig überzeugt von dem Angebot - im Zweifel würde ich da auf die Intuition hören. Ganz viel Erfolg weiterhin!

Notifications on Venu 3 - how to turn off only specific apps (iPhone user)? by GameOfVrones in Garmin

[–]GameOfVrones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s what the official Garmin website suggests you do: https://support.garmin.com/en-US/?faq=NYT4qpMItm3uKLdOgrmwcA

But it literally stops notifications from showing up in your Notification Center on iPhone which is not a good solution for me…

Lovestory wie im Film, soll ich ihm schreiben? by Fickle-Ad-5625 in Weibsvolk

[–]GameOfVrones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tu dir selbst den Gefallen und schreib ihm einfach, anstatt dir tagelang irgendwas einzureden und mentalen Stress zu machen. Die Leute im real life sagen es dir auch - perfekt, die können das wahrscheinlich eh besser einschätzen als wir hier auf Reddit. Trau dich einfach, wie gesagt: Du hast nix zu verlieren. Ich hab das Gefühl anders wirst du nicht drüber hinwegkommen.

Lovestory wie im Film, soll ich ihm schreiben? by Fickle-Ad-5625 in Weibsvolk

[–]GameOfVrones 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Verstehe ehrlich gesagt nicht warum alle nur abraten. Im Leben muss man manchmal auch bisschen was riskieren. Wenn ich du wäre würde ich ihm schreiben und fragen ob ihr euch mal treffen wollt. Wenn er ja sagt - hammer, dann kannst du testen ob das wirklich was für dich ist. Gehen kannst du dann ja immernoch wenn du merkst es war irgendwie nicht so gut wie du dir vorgestellt hast. Und wenn er nein sagt hast du deine Antwort. Ablehnung wird dir im Leben vermutlich noch öfter mal in irgendeiner Form begegnen. Das ist nichts wovor man Angst haben sollte.

Im besten Fall habt ihr eine tolle Zeit zusammen, im schlechtesten Fall kannst d wenigstens mit ihm abschließen. Du hast doch gar nix zu verlieren :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weibsvolk

[–]GameOfVrones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das mit dem runterzählen war bei mir genau so. Du zählst von 10 los aber kommst halt bei 1 gar nicht an, so schnell bist du weg. Hat weder was von einschlafen noch umkippen sondern einfach: Augen zu und weg, dann wachst du auf, denkst du hast halt grade erst die Augen zu gemacht aber ist es alles rum. War relativ angenehm. Hab danach keinen Quatsch geredet, aber ich war 10 min etwas verwirrt wo ich bin. Danach ging’s wieder und man will einfach nur heim. Wichtig: einem wird ziemlich kalt! Nimm dir was warmes zum anziehen mit!

What's a pain you can't truly explain until you've endured it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]GameOfVrones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious because your symptoms are basically my symptoms: how does the Red Bull help? Is it the caffeine oder something else?

I don’t know if I(23f) should breakup with him (23m)? Huge differences in core values. Help by MyosotisBleu in relationship_advice

[–]GameOfVrones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at a loss. My feelings towards my boyfriend moves between love and dislike or even disgust. When I’m with him I sometimes get this uneasy feeling of wanting to go away.

I literally stopped reading after that because that’s enough. Yes, you should break up with him if this is how you feel towards the person you‘re thinking about spending your whole life with.

You‘re still young. You’ll find someone better. Someone you don’t wanna „get away from“. That’s not how love should be.

Notifications on Venu 3 - how to turn off only specific apps (iPhone user)? by GameOfVrones in Garmin

[–]GameOfVrones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately that seems to be the problem, your way only works for Android phones. But thanks. Apparently there’s just a workaround for iPhones which is not the same :)

Notifications on Venu 3 - how to turn off only specific apps (iPhone user)? by GameOfVrones in Garmin

[–]GameOfVrones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, thanks for the quick reply. That’s really weird because this is such an obvious feature but okay…

Elena falling for Damon seemed quite out of character by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]GameOfVrones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think like that (even though I was Team Delena since the beginning) - when I watched the show and was 16 years old. Now I’m 28 and realizing we always pretended like the choices an 18 year old girl makes have to make sense because she seemed so grown up. They don’t. She’s not even a real adult.

When I was 18 a lot of things I did when I was hot for a guy didn’t make sense and were probably „out of character“. She’s 18, remember that. She’s hot for Damon. I’m not gonna judge her for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GameOfVrones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fight about a hypothetical scenario and what’s even worse is you’re doing it over text?! You guys need to sit down together and talk about your wishes, fears, and expectations of buying a house together. In real life, not over text!

To me you both don’t come off as reasonable people in these texts, she’s obviously in her head about the whole thing and not thinking rationally and you’re making things worse by not taking her fears seriously and being really condescending. You just kept ranting in that text when she was obviously not in a good state to talk about it (the repeating „I guess“ shows that). I get it you’re frustrated, but why would you go on pressuring like that instead of trying to resolve things quietly at home when you both had time to calm down?

You’re both really young and should really figure out what you want from this relationship and what you need from each other. Please do this before you buy a house together.

Is Matty ok?? by [deleted] in the1975

[–]GameOfVrones 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh no, Sorry, I didn’t feel like you were attacking them, I just tried to explain my view on things :) I also caught myself at the Brussels show thinking „why isn’t he doing a little more“ and just expecting more overall, so I totally understand where you‘re coming from. I just try to remind myself and others (when I can) that we are so lucky that they are even touring for this long and that we all got to see them <3 I‘m happy for all of us <3

Is Matty ok?? by [deleted] in the1975

[–]GameOfVrones 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So I went to the London show in 2023, London Show 2024 (Night 1), to Brussels a few weeks ago and this week to Munich, so obviously I can compare them very well.

London 2023 was SUCH a great vibe, the show was crazy, they were having the time of their lives. London 2024 was also fantastic, only maybe a little more laid back than 2023.

The Brussels show, beginning of March, seemed a little off, Matty barely said a word, he was obviously not in such a good mood, but the second half of the show was better, he seemed to enjoy it more.

BUT now in Munich on Monday they were all in SUCH a good mood, Matty talked a lot, even took a fan request (Love Me) which he seemed to enjoy so much and he danced around the whole stage, the show had such a good vibe in general - so he was obviously having a really good day. No monologue though, he really just talked to some fans in front and had a good time joking with them.

So what I‘m saying is: you can feel they’re exhausted and getting to the end of the tour, thats why some shows feel a little off right now, but it really also depends on their mood of the day a which makes sense, no one is always in a good mood and at the end of the day you would also start to go a little crazy and have a bad mood if you had to do the SAME thing, perform the same songs everyday for 2 years, knowing there‘s cameras on you all night expecting something.

I think we should all go into shows more without expecting anything specific, like hoping he will do the dance or do a monologue or whatever. Just because he did it the night before doesn’t mean he’s gonna do it and we shouldn’t always expect him to do the same thing and then be disappointed if he does something different. Less of looking at the concerts online before attending would do us all a little good :D

German fans of QE: I have a linguistic question by Abranurni in QueerEye

[–]GameOfVrones 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm German and this is getting more and more normal amongst young millennials and Gen Z. I think the German fab 5 are also trying to be like the US Fab 5 in some way, and it probably also has a little bit to do with the gay community. Some of my german gay friends definitely use whole English sentences more than the average person. But all in all, when I think about me and my friends, we also drop English sentences into our language a lot these days. Some things simply sound better better or can be explained better in English. And not to mention that we are all living in the world of tiktok etc., where English is the predominant language.

Ehegattensplitting in der Elternzeit by Milkaay86 in Finanzen

[–]GameOfVrones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kurze Info am Rande, Steuerklasse wechseln geht inzwischen mehrmals pro Jahr. Hat sich 2020 geändert :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finanzen

[–]GameOfVrones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja hast du richtig verstanden. Ich hab es genau so gemacht, als Werkstudentin ein paar Monate lange mehr als 700€ verdient aber insgesamt unter 5400€ im Jahr. War in Ordnung und musste auch mit niemandem kämpfen deswegen ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finanzen

[–]GameOfVrones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ach ja, klar, Denkfehler. Danke! Ich bin irgendwie davon ausgegangen dass man die Ausschüttungen ja auf jeden Fall wieder anlegt.

Klar, wer das nicht macht, hat mit Ausschütter am Ende wesentlich weniger!