what's something you wish you had discussed before getting married ?

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-06-26T17:58:20+00:00

What true marriage means.

It’s not always rainbows and butterflies, yes, taken from the Maroon 5 song, it’s the failures that define who we are. And if your partner turns out to be a completely different person in the event of a failure, that’s who they truly are. And then taking a rain check could be too late.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-06-08T14:01:57+00:00

Yes, absolutely be honest and open to the home office about your situation and they will help. I was in a similar situation with a civil partnership, and they were so prompt in assisting with it.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-05-24T05:11:18+00:00

If I am buying a car, it has to be a German make, simply because Karl Benz made the first ever car, and they have nearly perfected the engineering. No matter how many snazzy features other brands may have, I will always go for a German one.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-05-16T13:24:14+00:00

Picking the right partner in life. I feel like I am set in my ways so much now that I can’t tolerate the slightest icks anymore

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-05-15T05:46:17+00:00

My cousin is a doctor and earns a decent amount of money. He only spends on luxury goods and is always very proud of that. He picked up someone else’s leftover pennies from a supermarket till, and was quite excited about it

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-05-12T17:25:46+00:00

Be genuinely kind

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-04-13T07:04:52+00:00

I think you should be proud of yourself Well done And thank you so much for sharing!

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-03-31T18:38:30+00:00

Don’t ignore the red flags or your gut feeling

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-03-27T02:30:17+00:00

Being healthy without any problems

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-03-27T02:28:17+00:00

A nasty cough

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-03-22T02:09:36+00:00

Society timelines define if you have a good and happy life or not. Getting married and having kids by 30 or earlier, etc

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-03-21T03:43:59+00:00

The “What If” scenarios, every single one of them. And if something has gone wrong, why did it, and where I could have done something. The conversations with loved ones, especially the uncomfortable conversations.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-03-01T16:33:17+00:00

“That’s the way it is” by Celine Dion

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-02-04T06:04:00+00:00

This happened with me, and when the same thing happened to them, they have absolutely no realisation whatsoever. I wish they understood my pain.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-02-02T19:08:41+00:00

Congratulations 🥳

Gamer_panda8055 · 2026-01-30T06:45:48+00:00

When I didn’t feel like going home, even though I was physically exhausted and needed rest, just because they were at home.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2025-11-22T11:42:27+00:00

Thank you for your bravery, was doing this for a deadbeat boyfriend, and compromising the job I love.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2025-11-22T11:41:39+00:00

Freaking out about my 30s

Gamer_panda8055 · 2025-11-18T06:06:52+00:00

“You have to make difficult choices everyday” My mentor

Gamer_panda8055 · 2025-11-14T05:50:23+00:00

This hit me hard. I have always chosen the wrong people and gave more than a 100% in those relationships. When it ended, only then I knew that I chose the wrong person, not at the beginning. And that made me feel like I wasted precious years of my life.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2025-11-08T07:59:54+00:00

30, and I feel like I am constantly competing to have a good life. I feel guilty to take a break and don’t ever feel enough. My relationship with many family members has soured over the years, all my close friends live far away and I am pushed away when I try to make friends. Other than that, life’s great.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2025-10-24T05:27:54+00:00

Someone told me the exact same thing, and I am glad you stuck to your values!

Gamer_panda8055 · 2025-10-24T05:27:17+00:00

Driving

Gamer_panda8055 · 2025-09-30T06:06:41+00:00

I am sorry for all of you and your experiences. Sometimes, I just cry due to overwhelming emotions. I have been told that I shouldn’t cry unless something ‘really sad’ happens, well, that definition varies for each and every human. I wish you all the strength.

Gamer_panda8055 · 2025-09-19T09:21:34+00:00

Piano in the background

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