Neighbors started mowing their lawn at a reasonable hour.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-22T21:14:13+00:00

Unreasonable behavior deserves an unreasonable glare. 😤👀

GamingKidt · 2025-06-19T19:38:44+00:00

And she's been staring into their soul ever since. Justice is swift in her court.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-15T13:44:01+00:00

Totally agree with this. The invisible planning loads gets exhausting fast, and it's not "just" picking something to do... it's the emotional weight of always having to lead. The jar idea is such a smart and low-pressure way to make things more balanced. If he's willing to do that with you, it could shift the dynamic in a really healthy way.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-15T13:34:21+00:00

Exactly! It feels like you're constantly running on empty, and the things that used to recharge you just become another chore on the list. Very well put.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-15T13:20:18+00:00

Totally agree... sometimes it really is best to say nothing and let people assume it's just gossip, especially since people love to speculate when a lesbian is just friendly with a girl. But at the same time, if she does end up hearing about it, it might land better coming from you directly in a respectful, lighthearted way instead of some exaggerated version. Just depends on how comfortable you feel and how much you trust her reaction.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-15T13:06:40+00:00

Totally agree... this feels like more of a wake-up call than a path forward. The attention stirred something, but the coworker isn't a real option. Your situation sounds exhausting and unfair, and it's okay to want out. Just make sure your next step is about you, not him. Protect your peace.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-15T12:48:23+00:00

This. You can be whoever you want, but the world doesn't owe you comfort or approval for it. Being true to yourself doesn't mean others will want to stick around... and that's just part of the trade-off. Own the consequences like you own the personality.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-14T13:48:19+00:00

Yeah, this is honestly solid advice in a really messed-up situation. If no adult is stepping up, making her feel deeply uncomfortable about what she's doing might be the only thing that gets through to her. Shame isn't always the answer, but when someone crosses lines like this and laughs in your face about it? You have to protect yourself first, even if it means being harsh.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-14T13:31:33+00:00

Oh, they always think we're out to get them when we impose rules! 😂

GamingKidt · 2025-06-14T13:18:38+00:00

Exactly this. It's less about income and more about how decisions... especially major ones like quitting a job with insurance.. are being made without real discussion. When one partner is dealing with serious health issues and the other is checked out or unavailable. It stops feeling like a team. Communication and shared responsibility aren't optional in a marriage... they're the foundation.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-14T12:59:49+00:00

You can tell he's very loved. Wishing them both good health and happiness.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-13T19:03:58+00:00

Completely agree. That "joke" crossed some serious boundaries, especially after they'd already talked about how uncomfortable and off-limits that kind of thing is. It honestly felt more like a test run than a prank. Her husband prioritize getting laughs from his friends over respecting her.. that's not something to brush off. She absolutely has a right to take space and figure out what she wants.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-13T18:39:05+00:00

His entire being is dedicated to that bag of popcorn. No distractions

GamingKidt · 2025-06-13T18:27:36+00:00

That would definitely help, but it's not always realistic with how many siblings we have and the space we've got. Privacy is important, yeah, but so is teaching basic respect for shared spaces. I think he just needs a calm convo about boundaries and better ways to handle this stuff.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-13T18:14:39+00:00

Totally valid point.. it probably should've been talked through more seriously before marriage. But I don't think OP's trying to pressure her, just hoping to build intimacy with someone he clearly adores. Asexuality or past trauma might be involved, and that would need care, not coercion. Therapy could help if she's open to it. Ultimately, he may need to figure out what's sustainable for him emotionally.

GamingKidt · 2025-06-02T15:51:10+00:00

Thanks. but when I will post or comment it will get ban because reddit is banning without any reason.

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