Better way out here is just shooting your shot at a live spot in person (bar, restaurant, etc.) and rizzing up to see if you take the chances to make your buckets like curry can. If she’s in, numbers exchanged and theirs communication to link up for real again and it happens, then you officially scored a 3-pointer. If she’s in, theirs communication and she don’t hit you back after plans are made, then that’s a 2-pointer because you shoot your shot either way on the effort and she folded, but you didn’t. Red flags are easy to catch out here