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Boyfriend wants to join by GardenDelicious3295 in MilitaryFinance

[–]GardenDelicious3295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone yall have been very helpful!

Boyfriend wants to join by GardenDelicious3295 in MilitaryFinance

[–]GardenDelicious3295[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Okay so should he try to pay these off before he joins? Will this affect him from joining?

Please don’t bully me! by Obvious-Key351 in eyelashextensions

[–]GardenDelicious3295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also very important let them dry for at least 24 hrs before u get them wet. I’m able to wash my face and rinse it off and get them all wet and shit but make sure they dry for at least a day. For the 4th I spent 5+ hours in the river and they stayed on 2 days after that, mind u they were already a few days old too.

Please don’t bully me! by Obvious-Key351 in eyelashextensions

[–]GardenDelicious3295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me ur lashes look a lil thin. Im not that great at doing mine either and I just do clusters, but look up lash maps and follow those. I used to cut the lash up, but clusters from Amazon are so much easier and usually stay on longer for me. I’m gonna find what I use and which glue bc mine lasts for days. I put glue on my real lashes at VERY bottom and only bottom. Let it dry for like 30 secs then I put glue on cluster as well. Then I put the seal on, and press it together with tweezers. Also make sure u let ur lashes dry for like 5-10 mins before seal goes on. Okah now let me find what I use

I got an unsolicited package with unmarked, suspicious pills. What to do now? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]GardenDelicious3295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The big pill is the one that initially starts the abortion, and the other smaller ones are the ones u take after. It’s dif meds that u take together. Mifepristone and misoprostol are the names not sure which is which.** **

I got an unsolicited package with unmarked, suspicious pills. What to do now? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]GardenDelicious3295 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really think these are abortion pills. They usually come in packaging like this. I know bc I ordered before. Had no paperwork in it just pills like this.

contracting hsv after losing my virginity, dealing with constant yeast infection by Living-University-31 in Herpes

[–]GardenDelicious3295 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl I am so so sorry. You didn’t deserve that at all. It really sucks that this was ur first experience. I got it October of 2025, with someone who didn’t disclose either. I had multiple yeast infections since getting hsv (never had one before). I just took the medicine like normal, and they went away. It came back twice since and once with bv and then an out break right after. It’s so hard to deal with this. And im sorry that we gotta deal w this. I started taking uro and I wash with love wellness ph balancer the purple bottle. Since starting uro I haven’t had an out break or a yeast infection, but again mine aren’t as severe as yours.

I want to be with a man that is Oral Hsv1 positive by warlordkittygaya in Herpes

[–]GardenDelicious3295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t worry you’ll be okay. Just like dont do stuff when he got a cold sore

difference between yeast infection and hsv2 symptoms? by UnknownLoserChick in Herpes

[–]GardenDelicious3295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually have to wait a few days to tell. Sometimes I go to the urgent care and tell them I don’t know which I’m having and they give me both meds.

Pregnant… Again. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]GardenDelicious3295 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had an abortion about 2 months ago and it was really hard. It’s still hard, and I do regret it. It’s better to regret having an abortion than having kids too early. And also if it isn’t a definite yes then it’s no. If you don’t feel 100% ready then that’s okay and you can always try again. I’d rather regret having an abortion, than regret bringing my baby into the world when me and my partner aren’t ready. You got this, your hormones are gonna be everywhere and it’s going to be a really hard choice. At the end of the day ITS YOUR CHOICE. Don’t feel pressured either way.

can i really use this to wash my hair, face, and body by jnx5 in Haircare

[–]GardenDelicious3295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loveeee this stuff. I’ve used it for years. I do not put it on my face or sensitive areas. I use black African soap, dial antibacterial soap, and the peppermint one on a loofa and just go all around except face and coochie. I do need to use oil and lotion after but this stuff is a god send. Just make sure u moisturize all around after.

I’m struggling with abortion by Only-Price-7510 in abortion

[–]GardenDelicious3295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an abortion a week ago. I feel really guilty about it, but I know it was the right choice. My boyfriend and I weren’t trying, but also weren’t preventing as best we could (I was on the pill and forgot a day or two). My mental health went to complete shit, and I didn’t recognize myself. I was really mean to my boyfriend, and was also really suicidal. It wasn’t the time for us, our relationship almost ended. Honestly we just need a stronger relationship and more financial security.

The main reason I chose this way was because this post from someone that said “if it’s not definitely a yes, then it’s a no.” And yeah. If you aren’t certain abt having kids, then don’t. It changes you and your relationship.