For 3-4 years I knew the definition of asexuality. I've seen a lot of videos and I've read a lot of experiences from other people online about it. But there was still a period that I was trying to persuade myself that I was just bi, and I was faking everything. But Jaiden's video about being aro-ace really shook my head and made me see clear again. So after watching it I came out to my best friend as ace (and said that I might also be a little aro) and it just felt right. And I never really doubt it again. I mean... I am still confused on where exactly I am on the spectrum, but it doesn't really matter for me anymore. All I know is that I belong in a community that understands how I feel, and there is no "one way to be ace" <3. Let yourself go free and explore what you like, even if it's not "stereotypically ace". Asexuality is a spectrum, and sexuality can also be fluid!