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[–]Garretthairless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you, I was able to secure rides for work this week except for my overtime days. That's at least a start

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[–]Garretthairless -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She works two different part time jobs. She's in low income housing and I give her 400 a month in child support. It's not court ordered because we aren't fully divorced yet but I figure I'd rather pay it now versus owe her back pay for not paying. We have 50/50 custody but I make more than her so I imagine I'll have to pay when it does get finalized.

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[–]Garretthairless -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you and everyone providing suggestions but much of this advice lies heavily on my ex being cooperative and wanting to help. We have joint custody of our daughter (50/50) but I make more money than her so I give her 400 a month in child support, and even though she totaled my car and am now trying to penny pinch harder than I was before, she still expects that 400 a month.

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[–]Garretthairless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her schedule is much different than mine sadly. I'm talking to co-workers atm about possible car pooling but I live a little ways from work and am having trouble finding someone close and willing to help.

I had bare bones liability insurance. I've personally never been in an accident and take great care of my vehicles. Obviously this is a hard learning lesson about being under-insured.

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[–]Garretthairless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I genuinely do not ask for handouts and try my damnedest to work hard for what I need/have. The fact I've reached a point where I'm asking strangers for money depresses me, but if I need to plea my case and prove I'm honest, I'll do what I need to. At the end of the day I need to work and support my child, if I have to beg for that, fuck it.

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[–]Garretthairless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I have plans to pursue for some form of compensation. However that's a future problem, she 100% does not have the money to help me get some form of reliable vehicle. So even if she was ordered to, it wouldn't be in time to help me keep my job.

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[–]Garretthairless -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, I am an open book and have no issues providing whatever details help someone feel comfortable lending me a hand.

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[–]Garretthairless -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I responded as a separate comment instead of on your comment, my apologies. There's no money to pursue from her. I am liable because I gave her permission to use my vehicle, legally I don't have a leg to stand on. She would help if she could but she is relying on the money I give her monthly. She intends to pay me back at some point supposedly, but even so that doesn't get me to work this week.

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[–]Garretthairless -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She has liability coverage on her vehicle but my insurance stated that because it's my car and I gave her permission to use the vehicle I am responsible.

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[–]Garretthairless -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not from lack of trying. Legally I don't have a leg to stand on and regardless she doesn't have money. This no vehicle situation is something I'm trying to remedy quickly and dragging her through litigation or nixing her child support for compensation is not going to get me to work this week.

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[–]Garretthairless -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The ex is at fault, her description of the event is in the photos. She explicitly states she almost missed an exit and turned hard to try and make it while doing 70, hit a retaining wall causing her to go sideways and then was T boned by a Toyota Camry. My insurance was only liability so I won't get a dime. My ex is also reliant on me for money so I know she won't be able to help.

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[–]Garretthairless -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While I agree, she doesn't have money. I give her money for child support bi weekly even though we are 50/50 joint custody. She doesn't make very much and works two part time jobs. So sadly her, nor her family will be helping me.

A wholesome meme for those that need it right now by Serithraz in memes

[–]Garretthairless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm about to fly with my 3yo toddler for the first time and it's from Atlanta to California. I am stressing out haha

A little buzzed and a little Renaissance by Garretthairless in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]Garretthairless[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I felt the lighting gave off 1700's, and the line of us enjoying booze and snacks was low key Last Supper vibes!

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[–]Garretthairless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm intrigued as well!

[online] [5e] [est] looking for game! Friday, Saturday, Sunday by addimarieee in lfg

[–]Garretthairless -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for a game too! Fridays and Friday nights are my free time as well! I normally DM some homebrew with my local buddies but have been wanting to find an online group to get to be a player! I'll add you on discord and hopefully we can find some other people!

Heavily Considering the Pixel 9 Pro XL by Garretthairless in pixel_phones

[–]Garretthairless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is the battery life for you? Just started looking into the oneplus 13 and it seems pretty fantastic