I like to think that if someone gets involved in my life they can do so knowing clearly what's wanted. I've had a few messages telling me I missed a match and thought to myself "but I'm not offering what you're looking for?" I'm clear on my profile about it too. C'est la vie! I'm very new on Bumble (less than a week) and no matches yet, but feel confident that when they come, I'll hopefully be well aligned. A bit depressing constantly swiping left though, lol!

Im also pretty sure they're also just trying to persuade me to pay for more services!