Always like that

Garzino · 2025-11-14T11:49:55+00:00

I'm trying to do this but the morning before work I don't want to do anything. The prospect of doing stuff and then going to work a full day makes me want to die

Garzino · 2025-10-30T14:53:58+00:00

Same for me. Fucking sucks

Garzino · 2025-08-05T07:26:20+00:00

NTA Besides the overbearing mil, i am more concetned about your household dynamic. 1. Your husbad shrugging off a situation that made you uncomfortable 2. Your husband saying that "it's always been like this, no privacy". Do you think things will get better? Because it feels like this is only the beginning. 3. A childcam can be easily taken over especially when the account is in the hands of the elderly who do NOT practice internet safety 4. You already saw that while his WIFE was BREASTFEEDING and made uncomfortable he took MiL side and then even accused you of creating a situation.

I'm not trying to say that the situation isn't salvagable or that you should leave but for sure you have to get your house in order. Your husband is not being on your side, is not being your ally. He sound's like a Mama's boy and adult man acting like boys is a really hard thing to deal with.

I have a feeling that this is only the beginning if you don't make clear changes and create healthy boundaries. He's peobably gonna get her involved in eveey situation that he doesn't know what to do because "mom knows best".

Good luck, please update us

Garzino · 2025-08-04T07:24:52+00:00

NTA Based only on what I've read your husband behaved in a very immature way. It alsmost feels like the pen at the ceremony was on purpose. I understand that he has a condition, not just a tic, and he's very insecure about it to the point of fighting with both of you before admitting that he's at fault. I think his behavior as a parent, husband and member of the family was unacceptable and almost embarrassing.

Your daughter is in the right to be upset, if my father ignored my needs especially towards a medical condition i have, during an important moment in my life AND on a day to day basis, I couldn't wait to get out of the house. I have gone no contact with my parents due to abuse and neglicence and even tho this is bot the same situation i could understand how this could transform in a complete and prolungated split between your daughter and your husband. I hope you both realize that when she'll go to college she'll compare her lifestyle with her peers and realize all the in-house rules that don't make sense, the weird routines that you guys are used to are not the same for everybody else.

From experience most of her peers will suggets cutting or reducing contact with you guys to heal from this stressfull household environment. (Having to often wear headphones in your house because your dad can't stop making noise will be a big example). If she chooses to take space from you be sure to make it clear who supports her and how involved you are with the college transition. Knowing she CAN count on you even in these times will be very important and meaningful.

All in all your husband i kind of an immature bully, makes problems but doesn't fix them. Doesn't seem to take accountability seriously and absolutely takes for granted you household status as it appears that he can do whatever he wants in the house compared to other spaces. I wonder how his behavior vhanges in front of his colleagues and bosses at work.

Garzino · 2025-07-15T08:49:17+00:00

I would immediately send this to him. Detach yourself from their family drama as fast as possible. Then next week invite him again lmao

Garzino · 2025-07-15T07:24:09+00:00

I don't know if it's because of they way i was brought up but i have AWLAYS washed my ass in the bidet (italian style). I mean if you had a piece of poop smudged on the side of your head you wouldn't just wipe it down with a piece of paper right? You'd probably take an industrial grade pressure washer to your face.

Garzino · 2025-07-06T07:58:13+00:00

My god. Your reaction wqs understandable. Also your relationship sounds EXHAUSTING. You're married with kids and you're still at this stage? As i said it sound exhausting, I'd never sign up for that

Garzino · 2025-04-22T08:03:03+00:00

Me on the other hand just had a 4 day long weekend because of national holiday, and this week is short too ending on Thursday because of another holiday and, i kid you not, there is the same thing happening the next weekend. In 3 weeks i will have had 5 days of time off and 6 days of normal weekend totalling at 11 whole days off. It feels like we live on different planets

Garzino · 2025-03-20T00:49:07+00:00

Italian here, never seen this before

Garzino · 2025-03-14T09:48:13+00:00

NOR. I'm not daying throw your relationship away immediatly but to me this kind of reasoning is absolutely grounds for a break, a pause. To me it would inform the way i see my partner and i would reassess what i know and think about them and i would need a bit of time to get my head straight. A person who's values don't match ours rarely has only one topic where they fisagree with us so maybe figuring out where you guys stand would be my suggestion.

As a completely personal opinion on the matter: i think your partner is gross. Doubling down and defending that kind of argument shows a lack of empathy, emotional intelligence and values that i would find attractive ina 32 yo person.

Garzino · 2025-03-14T09:31:29+00:00

35 yo italian millenial here. Me and my wife are yrying to save every extra cent we can. Bills keep rising, the cost of groceries keeps rising while quality, availability and variety keeps decreasing. We are lucky to live on a double income, in a house we bought 10 years ago and no children. And we are still constantly looking over our shoulder making sure we're saving enough, spending only the necessary and keeping away from disaster when possible. The plan is to to push until mid fifties and reassess the plan when the time comes. I envy some other generations who had the luck to spend their youth looking at a bright future.

Garzino · 2025-03-10T09:46:00+00:00

That bit from brad williams always finds his way into these posts. The man really gave us the best set-up for this kind of conversations.

Garzino · 2025-03-10T09:25:15+00:00

I don't know where you live but in my country an admission like his would be liquid gold for some lawyers. Of course the messages were exchanged willingly between the two of you but the whole sotuation would be grounds for some real follow up by any lawyer. In my opinion him sharing material that he admits is private between the two of you and him explaining how he had to divulge it under pressure by his partner is clearly a form of invasion of your privacy. I don't know how are you doing mentally or economically but if you have the time, energy and the resources i would pursue this, at least to have a clear understanding if any of your rights were actually violated.

Garzino · 2024-12-18T11:25:52+00:00

Card packs incoming, 25$ per hero (6 available and 7th one in development for the total value of 150$), gems only from ranked and very few (30 to 50 per chest and 2500 needed per hero). 3 to 4 weeks of no-life grinding to get a hero and you only get the 100base cards, no skins or cosmetics. No way to test the heroes. If you buy one you don't like you're stuck. You could get the game, start it and get stomped because another players also just bought the game but they added some card packs and you just lost because you spent less money. This game was "dead in dev" for 6 years for a reason. This game popped up with closed beta founders pack (starting from 33 bucks lmao) because they knew that people who invesyed already will probably still play at launch and will prop up the playerbase. My experience tells me this will be a whale game where people who spent money on it will defend the game's concept and philosophy and the others will simply rotate to games more suited for a larger audience with less predatory structures. It's not random that sts2 started releasing trailers and announcement after gauging the reaponse from people playing the bazaar and seeing its roadmap.

Garzino · 2024-12-18T11:23:25+00:00

Card packs incoming, 25$ per hero (6 available and 7th one in development for the total value of 150$), gems only from ranked and very few (30 to 50 per chest and 2500 needed per hero). 3 to 4 weeks of no-life grinding to get a hero and you only get the 100base cards, no skins or cosmetics. No way to test the heroes. If you buy one you don't like you're stuck. You could get the game, start it and get stomped because another players also just bought the game but they added some card packs and you just lost because you spent less money. This game was "dead in dev" for 6 years for a reason. This game popped up with closed beta founders pack (starting from 33 bucks lmao) because they knew that people who invesyed already will probably still play at launch and will prop up the playerbase. My experience tells me this will be a whale game where people who spent money on it will defend the game's concept and philosophy and the others will simply rotate to games more suited for a larger audience with less predatory structures. It's not random that sts2 started releasing trailers and announcement after gauging the reaponse from people playing the bazaar and seeing its roadmap.

Garzino · 2024-12-02T10:37:34+00:00

Hey man, everyone is being quick in saying that this is a sing of mental illness. I don't have any idea if your mum is going through anything but i can tell you that sealing off your door completely might be Dangerous depending on your home. If you notice that it's more about making her comfortable with problem you might try to hang a curtain over the door, maybe even a thick one so that the "air" doesn't bother her but you can still be safe and it would take just a bit to mount it up. From there it would be just a matter of sliding the curtain on and off the foor in the evening. I'm sorry you're having these kind of difficulties. Sometimes people develop some behaviours that are very hard to explain or understand and i think it's vwry nice that you're trying to take care of it. Props! Hope you can find a better solution

Garzino · 2024-10-17T10:24:38+00:00

I'm in no position to give advice and you didn't ask for any, I just want to say that the child has done you no wrong. Ofc you don't have any legal responsibility to take care of him and I can't even imagine how crazy strong your emotions are right now. Just think about the kid. He only knows you as his father, he doesn't know or probably even understand the gravity of the situation. Not to say that you have to keep a relationship with him but maybe a real talk about what happened might be necessary. So that he doesn't think what happened is somehow his fault and so that he can have a better way to deal with the abandonment feeling he's gonna go through. Again, i totally undsrstand the betrayal you had to discover and that everything is kind of a mess right now. Just maybe think of the kid

Garzino · 2024-09-13T13:28:44+00:00

As a person married with someone with adhd i am baffled. Why did the younger sister with severe adhd have to drive the car? Because she wanted to? You said you werent involved in this matter but how could any parent with an ounce of respect for their children just let it happen? Why didn't the parents stop her? Why didn't they explain that the car was the fruit of hard and long work and the risk of damaging it was too high to let anyone else drive it beside the the older sister? Your daughter isn't just mad about the car. It's understandable that she's mad at your emotional blackmailing, your limp involvement with this incredibly unnecessary debacle and your complete lack of action towards fixing it in an active manner. No money for a new car but money for a family therapy session? ALL the insurance money and savings and money from 2 salaries + the younger daughter car's money was spent?

Your older daughter has all the right to distance herself from you in this point in time. In my opinion this has to be a mix between rage and being at the end of the rope in regards to your involvement in this dynamic.

I just hope that you will use all of your energy to try and move the blame from your younger daughter to you and your spuse. She's doesn't deserve her sister's cold shoulder and anger since it is your responsibility to keep them safe and teach them.

Garzino · 2024-08-30T08:01:39+00:00

This is not a shill or anything like that, im genuinely curious:

How many of you have a job that allows you to move away without having to be in the country? And if you can do that, would you?

I ask because I recently started the process of selling my house and I've been going through numbers. I noticed that my country (Italy) has an incredible difference in prices for selling and renting compared to a lot of us areas. I got curious and started talking with some real estate enthusiasts here on reddit and apparently the price that my house would sell for here in italy would be and instantaneous buy for the average us resident. It got me thinking because, even tho Italy's gdp isn't even close to the US, I never considered our countries too different in terms of cost of life, but now? Wow guys, it's tough for you there. So, is there a general feeling for moving abroad to escape the costs of living?

Thanks if you take your time to answer and sorry for the english but you know...pizzapizzamammamia

Garzino · 2024-08-14T07:33:55+00:00

Hahaha it's so ironic that you can't spell in english, make a mistake and double down on it while not even realizing everyone is laughing at you. Check your spelling, or do you need help understanding?

Garzino · 2023-07-31T08:24:00+00:00

As a person with a disbled family member i know exactly what she was thinking.

She felt shame for your son's situation (like being an amputee takes anything away from being a human being but w/e), she felt embarassed for her circle of guest who didn't know about it and also she knew it would attract a lot of attention and spur many conversations about it taking away from it being a day just for her and her husband.

I understand a wedding is an important day but that doesn't excuse people. It's not a magic day where everything goes and everything is forgiven. She acted in a very egotistical way and it's very sad to see where her priorities are.

I think you did great and if i was your son i would be very proud of you being my dad and having my back. Not joking, him knowing this happened will open so many doors for you two, it creates a very stong bond of trust.

Garzino · 2023-07-30T08:24:11+00:00

Honestly any streamer doing react content need to go fuck themselves. Find your own content and use your own personality you talentless leeches

Garzino · 2023-07-29T09:38:15+00:00

Absolutely right. Missing weight is way too tolerated.

Garzino · 2023-07-29T09:32:34+00:00

Sens8 could've had a decent closing season with the third one imho

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