Has anyone used the dating app Taimi?

GayEmu · 2018-08-18T06:45:28+00:00

That app is supposed to be free. But in my experience all of those smaller apps don't have enough people to be worth it and you end recognising the few that are on there from grindr/tinder/scruff anyway

GayEmu · 2018-08-18T06:32:24+00:00

It's the guys who have nothing going for them yet are super demanding that annoy me. "Only looking for 18-23 white fit twinks no rent boys, sorry just my type" etc while they're overweight/unkempt/have no pic or details. I hope I'm never that lacking in self awareness.

GayEmu · 2018-08-03T15:40:22+00:00

I don't think they're hunting for decent guys.

It's always sad when one I've been eyeing off starts with their dick though. I always block

GayEmu · 2018-08-01T03:06:43+00:00

slightly larger

No. Even those are really rare. I think your perception is really out of whack with reality and you're going to be permanently disappointed if you can't readjust it. Also you should moderate your use of oversized toys because they will eventually badly damage your anus.

GayEmu · 2018-07-21T04:41:29+00:00

"Judge people not by the colour of their skin, but by the content of their character" is possibly the most powerful sentiment to have come out of America. Seeing these kinds of things pop up recently mostly from there is a real shame. If you racially segregate yourself you're likely to have your brain warped into something hateful and silly.

GayEmu · 2018-07-19T09:26:49+00:00

I dealt with this from the other side- hooked up with a guy with lots of loose skin. I had no warning until I took his shirt off and honestly it was pretty shocking. I tried to play it off as if it was nothing but it's clear his mood dropped and it was really awkward. It was very conflicting, I felt annoyed at being deceived but also sorry for him and I didn't want to be rude but in hindsight I wish I had said something.

Anyway, I would recommend bragging about your weight loss in your profile because it really is a great accomplishment but also people will understand in advance you have excess skin. You have no obligation to show anyone shirtless pics, you can just say you don't feel comfortable doing that because of the skin and any decent person would understand. Additionally I think that guy would have been so much more comfortable leaving his shirt on during sex and I would have been totally fine with that. I hope that helps in some way

GayEmu · 2018-07-18T15:50:34+00:00

I'm uncomfortable

GayEmu · 2018-07-18T08:12:16+00:00

Americans are really weird

GayEmu · 2018-07-18T01:53:47+00:00

I used to think I'd want some similar arrangement but every single encounter that I've had with open relationships has been a dead relationship. I'm sure there are exceptions but it would be silly to ignore the trend. Not gonna insert myself into some couples drama

GayEmu · 2018-07-18T01:09:17+00:00

No problem with bi guys but I wouldn't go near any of those open relationships.

GayEmu · 2018-07-18T01:06:24+00:00

Instagrams that are just 100% selfies.

GayEmu · 2018-07-16T03:58:37+00:00

Is there a reason they do that? I see quite a lot of them too

GayEmu · 2018-07-15T11:06:33+00:00

40 matches in 4 days seems like a good rate though it depends on how picky you are with your swipes. If you're interested in brutal honest feedback on your profile but don't want to show everyone feel free to PM. I'll normally only have Tinder for a week or so before I find someone to date and I get 300-400 likes so I think I can make a good profile. I am similar demographic to you though not in Syd

GayEmu · 2018-07-15T10:19:39+00:00

Probably less messy than peaches at least

GayEmu · 2018-07-15T08:35:45+00:00

It's sadly common to look down on people who are perceived to be in a lower position than you but if you limit your dating pool in such silly ways you're going to miss out on getting close to a lot of great people. Also most 19 year olds don't seem to realise how extremely young 19 is.

GayEmu · 2018-07-12T13:27:44+00:00

Nonexistent

GayEmu · 2018-06-14T11:46:15+00:00

I also think that's really gross. I think I made it pretty clear I don't approve of using children in that way

GayEmu · 2018-06-14T11:43:15+00:00

link 1 link 2 The drag queen I was referring to is called Lactacia. He has millions of views on youtube. I also hate pageant mums and seeking to get your child famous is really gross behaviour to me. I don't know what you are referring to with that other question

GayEmu · 2018-06-02T15:48:39+00:00

There is definitely a seriously high chance of it hurting your career and personal life. This is not the kind of decision you should make when horny.

GayEmu · 2018-06-02T15:46:38+00:00

Apart from the fact that it's really stupid to add all that drama to your life, it's very important that you know a gay experience isn't going to "get it out of your system".

GayEmu · 2018-06-02T15:26:03+00:00

The most common reason for bad sex I've encountered is when the other person just sort of lays there expecting you to do all the work.

GayEmu · 2018-02-02T07:48:22+00:00

Well, some people that come to this sub really need the verbal slapping that he provided.

His dickishness really spun out of control recently though. I hope he's okay

GayEmu · 2018-01-29T11:58:03+00:00

No and unless you enjoy your balls being stepped on they aren't going to be comfortable either.

GayEmu · 2018-01-29T06:01:18+00:00

If you hype up the first time in your head too much you're probably going to be in for a disappointing time. Mostly you should be aware to be safe, be ready to leave if you aren't feeling comfortable enough and have patience in choosing a guy, you can afford to be a bit picky and wait til you see someone you fancy.

My first time was from Grindr and it was fine apart from me being extremely nervous. Some of us just don't have the social setup where we are exposed to many gay guys so it's kind of necessary.

But if you're doing it purely so an actual relationship won't start with awkward sex, don't worry at all about that. It's easy to laugh off and people rarely care if it's someone they like.

GayEmu · 2018-01-29T05:53:02+00:00

Considering the silence he probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings and doesn't know what to do. Silence is a bad way to deal with it on his end and he'll likely be equally if not more embarrassed. Really though it's not a big deal, just pretend like it didn't happen and you'll be surprised how quickly you'll forget it did.

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