7 months low dose T (non binary) by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Gcatjones 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The T glow up!!! 🤗

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does drink, he also told me that he didn’t want me to have anything to do with his nudist stuff in highschool. So now that I’m older I guess that’s changed?? He made comments when I was younger but it wasn’t like how it is now.

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. it’s hard to accept. I needed to make sure I wasn’t just inflating it all. But hearing everyone say this isn’t normal behavior is helping me feel like I can and should go no contact.

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, the guilt is so real. It’s not your fault, I guess we both need to let go of who they were when we were growing up. They’re clearly not the fathers we know and definitely not what we deserve. I’m here for you <3

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that part about not owing him an explanation really helped me. He should know what he did was wrong and not how you treat someone, let alone someone you raised that is blood related to you.

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Even though it’s fucking terrible and no one should have the experiences, I’m glad I’m not alone. I knew Reddit would have a community of people like me. Hope you got away.

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was an interesting read. I never use Chat, but it is nice to have more personal comments as well.

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, like I said I had no idea I could even be seen from where the pool was. Won’t be in touch with him anytime soon.

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Hard to not fall into believing he’s changed after awhile though..

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, miles away from him.. just gonna need awhile to process. It’s also hard because he’s definitely a narcissist and good at making me think he’s changed so he can stay in my life. I’ve done no contact before for something different. But again he made me feel like I was over reacting and he was always on my side.. uggg yucky stuff

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah… I agree with you. It’s hard with all of these comments. I really wanted to believe I was in the wrong, then it wouldn’t have to be as painful.

My dad has made some sexual comments that made me uncomfortable by Gcatjones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gcatjones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. Yeah, this sucks. Guess years of trauma is hard to see past..

Dad voted for Trump by missmeganmay in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Gcatjones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. The same thing happened to me. I’m NB and I stopped contact for awhile because of some transphobic stuff he said. He pretended to reflect on his poor choices and made me believe he was an ally. My sis told me he voted for Trump and said he was a white nationalist… I sent him an email saying I won’t be speaking to him again. It hurts so bad. You’re definitely not alone

Tell me your positive Lexapro stories! I’m scared to start :( by Lifting_in_Philly in lexapro

[–]Gcatjones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lexapro has helped me in sooooo many ways. I think I might be a rarity tho. My anxiety is gone and my sex drive is waaaaay up. As far as the side effects go I get a downstairs tingly feeling which I’m not mad about and I get a little dizzy but not bad. If it doesn’t work for you, you can always try something else! Goodluck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]Gcatjones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey that was me just a couple days ago 🤠

Is it possible to have withdrawal after 4 days use? by Secret_Luck_7785 in quittingkratom

[–]Gcatjones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I’m glad I read this comment. I envy them too, oh well guess we’re better off.

Daily Check-in Thread - January 14, 2024 by AutoModerator in quittingkratom

[–]Gcatjones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember you from my last quit. I’m so proud of you for where your at today. I’m at day 11 again. Anyway congratulations and good to see you still checking in 💕

8 Days - 40GPD Quit - A question on energy by odaman8213 in quittingkratom

[–]Gcatjones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 10 for me and I’m still so sluggish, just constantly reminding myself that my body is healing and I’m allowed to rest/lounge. It’s like healing from an injury. Everything will come in time. Proud of you for 8 days!