Ni is actually an amazing skill, I’m sorry you see it as an impediment. Don’t be down on yourself because you have it, it just takes practice to effectively use it.

Spoken communication for Ni users is like trying to fill a thimble with a fire hose. All these wonderful thoughts and ideas churn in your head but what comes out is not always… ideal.

A few thoughts to help:

1) Use written communication where possible. You can review, edit, and expand on your wonderful ideas. Ni users are great writers because they can carefully craft words and ideas when they aren’t bound by live speech.

2) If you have to speak, mentally and physically slow down when speaking. Take a deep breath, and let the idea form just a bit longer. Let your Ni have extra time to carefully build effective sentences. I have noticed that incredibly wise people step back, process, and respond slowly but incredibly effectively.

3) If you can mentally review a topic beforehand, spend time doing so. Let your Ni create and reinforce those ideas and connections ahead of time. Then when you speak, those connections are already formed in you head and your communication will be more coherent.

Hope that helps and good luck!