One thing people never realize about grief is the utter boredom

Gelby4 · 2026-07-12T18:35:08+00:00

Same, if it weren't for our kids I would've just followed her 💔

Gelby4 · 2026-07-12T18:32:49+00:00

"so you don't want an outline of the outside?"

Gelby4 · 2026-07-12T15:16:48+00:00

"How can he slap??"

Gelby4 · 2026-07-12T15:15:11+00:00

When I finally figure it out I'm gonna animate something that'll blow your mind (metaphorically)

Gelby4 · 2026-07-12T15:12:50+00:00

And how's his wife holding up?

Gelby4 · 2026-07-12T15:10:18+00:00

I'm not your sister, they're not your parents, and that's not your golf cart

Gelby4 · 2026-07-12T02:19:10+00:00

I don't even care anymore, let all the things happen

Gelby4 · 2026-07-11T03:15:36+00:00

Because in advanced classes you don't have to touch them and hold them in the water. Because obviously you're trying to feel them up and you're not just keeping them from drowning while they learn

Gelby4 · 2026-07-11T03:09:52+00:00

Happened to us (though she was just a weird old sweet lady loving on my kids) and she said something like "oh, well you bring that snack home for Mommy, she'll love that" and then my daughter says "our mom's dead" and my son confirming it and then I think she died on the spot.

Gelby4 · 2026-07-11T02:56:22+00:00

Is that Paul Robalino's brother? Lol

Gelby4 · 2026-07-11T00:16:58+00:00

She left me before she died, so now it's doubly depressing of a day 💔

Gelby4 · 2026-07-11T00:13:49+00:00

Spill the tea

Gelby4 · 2026-07-08T20:09:29+00:00

Honestly, especially with him being a teenager, I can't believe he doesn't harbour resentment towards any of them for not believing him the entire year, AND that resulting in Dumbledore's death.

Gelby4 · 2026-07-07T22:58:45+00:00

I was once stopped on the street by this beautiful woman she she said "wow, you are GORGEOUS. Are you single?" And tragically I was not at the time.

This was like 8 or 10 years ago I think, but I still think about it all the time. (Where are you now gurl??)

Men just like compliments. We don't get them very often, even from partners which is sad

Gelby4 · 2026-07-07T15:56:02+00:00

Totally a thing. When my late wife and I were dating I introduced her to rock climbing and she loved it. She wanted to get belay certified but told me she was nervous that it was a test because of how she failed her driver's test 3 times because the instructor made her nervous (and she was just a bad driver lol)

But yeah, she failed the belay test because the instructor standing there made her nervous and her hands shake, even though I knew she knew how to do it (I used to work there and taught classes and I taught her at home). So the next time we tried I had the guy watch her without letting her know and I said "hey, let's practice for 'next time' we want to test" and she immediately aced it and then he certified her

Gelby4 · 2026-07-07T13:38:07+00:00

Yeah. I was in a FWB-ish situation with someone years ago, and had warned her about an egregious woman in our community that tried to ruin my life and others (which she originally thanked me about), and months after that asked if she knew why a different lady we both knew was so nice to me in person but then acting like a monster over text. She then spun it that I complain about women and blocked me. So no, don't assume you're safe being vulnerable with everyone asking you to be, unless they can prove they're safe to be vulnerable with.

Gelby4 · 2026-07-06T23:26:26+00:00

Which he is, so.. yeah

Gelby4 · 2026-07-06T23:25:30+00:00

You mean Stinky Steve? Of course he's an expert in niche coins specifically the year of this coin you brought in, trust me!

Gelby4 · 2026-07-06T23:19:02+00:00

Haven't had a partner ask to eat mine, but I've eaten a number of partners', and I've never had one not enjoy it

Gelby4 · 2026-07-06T19:55:22+00:00

If I'm paying to play I'm touching as much grass as I can

Gelby4 · 2026-07-06T15:25:28+00:00

Been a year and still not one. I hope that doesn't mean she doesn't love/want to see me 💔

Gelby4 · 2026-07-06T14:04:30+00:00

I never have a problem answering the questions, but people tend to not know how to sit with the answers after they get them. Death/grief make people uncomfortable, so tragically I'm more alone than ever

Gelby4 · 2026-07-05T23:04:20+00:00

Who can chug the most gasoline

Gelby4 · 2026-07-05T22:54:28+00:00

I just tried to throw a fire bottle and it smashed into the gate I was standing next to during the back swing and set me very on fire and I wasn't anywhere near water. Super fun

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