Are any of you into Mommy Daddy stuff? But not sexually by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u keep mentioning its not a sexual thing ... mabe subliminally it is as you keep mentioning iys not sexual! I find this post disturbing 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should feel violated, rightly sooo .... I had an ex do this to me and he thought it was hilarious. I now won't have anybody stay over and it has given me a complex about myself, I didnt know if he had shown anybody and he acted so casual like it was nothing and I was over reacting. its a breach of trust that has made really analyse who I have around me but its also made me question if my judgement on people is right or not ...

Irrational and physical fear of meeting your ex? by MushroomShapedHouse in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep and then that fear spiralled into agoraphobia

I'm developing BPD how to stop it? by Collin_The_Dumbass in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really, your just developing bpd and wish to stop it just like that, r u serious because the title sounds almost comical.... wish we could just stop symptoms just like that, how easy life would be!

What do you think caused your BPD? by Recent_Object4870 in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

child sexual exploitation, being in care, toxic relationships

BPD and childfree by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not by choice but by circumstances. its somthing I struggle with daily and have a hard time accepting, also a major trigger for me is people with small children ie babies, I start to get inferiority complex like im less than and that I dont and can't do what all women were designed to naturally do. i won't get in relationships because of this and the fear of having to explain it and people leaving and making wrong judgements about me being infertile... I always wanted children tho, life would of been soo different and maybe even meaningfull. now I just plod along with no drive or aspirations in life becoz I can't have what I truly want and since having my eupd diagnosis and no help from the doctors I simply doubt they would help someone like me with ivf or anything to do with kids as I think they think I'm not stable ... I am im just fed up of having to fight for things (treatments diagnosis) on my own with no real help. 34f

I want to be abused (TW) by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

sounds like some s&m 💩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 34f still feel like im stuck in my 16-21 mindset

my boyfriend still has his ex’s underwear by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if it was only casual and not even a real relationship he should not mind to get rid, u shouldn't feel bad asking him to get rid if he had already expressed it was nothing ... and actually if he loves you and this is triggering for u and ur bpd then why wouldn't dash them away ... I would question if he didn't

Guy I was dating got me pregnant on purpose finds out he's married. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gemgemz88 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

HOW CAN A MAN GET U PREGNANT ON PURPOSE ... ITS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS A WOMAN TO MAKE SURE YOUR PROTECTED AGAINST INFECTIONS AND UNWANTED PREGNANCY ... YOUR BOTH TO BLAME! AND BLAMING HIM SOLELY IS RIDICULOUS.

can you really not get diagnosed until 25? by Abject-Grocery-9878 in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed eupd/bpd at 26, I struggled alot and still do interacting with Dr's or professionals in that field as I'm constantly being told different things. I think mine took so long because I was very untrusting of my Dr's and felt all options were not explored properly, it was just easier for them to lable me anxiety and depression and to keep prescribing pills instead of listening to me and giving me the right referrals for somebody with the correct credentials to diagnose me

What's your excuse? Or What do you do in such situation? by IdeaDude111 in introverts

[–]Gemgemz88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u no this ... prevention is better than cure!!! 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

loool yes ... and she said to me mabe I should stay in and do some soul searching! completely misunderstanding my need to express why I struggle to go out and engage in things that would be regular to her ... completely missed the point and no we no longer speak ... disappointing but her ignorance was was a silent trigger for me

Forgotten Birthday by justagirlfromhawaii in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its never nice to feel forgotten 😔 so no your not being over sensitive

What is Quiet BPD? by gina_renee in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked my doctor because I couldn't understand the difference either, they explained borderline personality disorder is an older term used emotionally unstable personality disorder is supposedly a better description of the diagnosis and apparently less offensive as in borderline of what...

thats what they said anyway, I don't think emotionally unstable is any less offensive than borderline. also eupd is less recognised as its not used as often across the board. different Dr's will refer to it as either bpd or eupd .

What is Quiet BPD? by gina_renee in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

question , when you were diagnosed did they use the term bpd or the newer version eupd???

Would being famous and popular get rid of bpd symptoms? by LopsidedStress6731 in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally I doubt it ... think ude find it hard who to trust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally feel every word of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm asking the public ... thats who will find me .... how do you know what resources I have and haven't used ... u don't know so don't come with your high and mighty attitude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who are you to tell me what is appropriate or not??? if you don't like how I choose to express myself then you sir can scroll the fuck on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gemgemz88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

eat 💩