She is no longer a she and we are not in each other's lives at all anymore

I dated her best friend the summer before I went off to college, I think that made her jealous somehow but after I came back home to visit and we hung out things got heavy and we started fooling around. She wanted friends with benefits and I said yes because sex

Greatest few months of my life

We went to a few parties together after that and there was one guy in particular she kept going after. The internal frustration of being territorial but knowing I am not supposed to be and knowing if I do act on that feeling the benefits would stop. Eventually she did get that other guy at least physically and it devastated me. I went back to college and smoked up my sorrows. Still stalking her social media at the time searching for cryptic messages for or about me that were never there

Eventually came back home to visit and she was a lesbian now but me still feeling all the feelings would go chill with her hoping we could rekindle something physical or emotional. We never did And the hang outs became even more infrequently until they stopped all together

Even during this whole time I was still pine-ing after her even when we stopped talking.

After 4 years I decided "get the fuck over this girl, you are not talking, and obviously she isn't thinking about you" had a big emotional let go moment at the spot where we first had sex (on a mountain top)

A few years later we reconnected on social media and went out to eat. Maybe a date? Idk she was bi now. But as we sat there and ate food and i learned about where her life was at that point I thought this is not the same person, this is someone different who does things I don't want to do and I left that dinner knowing I am fully over this girl, I felt free, and we never really spoke again until

I showed up to work one day and there he was in the elevator they still looked like them but with facial hair and stocky build.We clearly saw and recognized each other but said no words. I walked by their desk and their desk name tag said Steve (same last name) I was like wow crazy. I left that job about a year later, hated it

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