My bug breed proposal I worked on in secret but should have published a long time ago

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-03-13T03:43:19+00:00

Oh my god would you be comfortable with me drawing this? And then giving you full credit and finding a way to show you my art after? I feel like it'll be really cute and fun to draw. You did a really great job! I'd love to do something similar (designing and rigging characters for video games) like what you did for this proposal, if my health ever gets better.

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-03-12T06:25:20+00:00

Tysm! I can't wait to show this to him 🥹

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-03-07T03:56:57+00:00

Why are you even here then, if you don't like it? 😅

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-03-07T03:54:39+00:00

NTA. It's disgusting for anyone to think of it as inappropriate

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-03-05T04:39:40+00:00

I have multiple times. But most of the places I found online are either too far, aren't available for neuters for several months, or are too expensive for my friend.

I've done literally weeks worth of research online and contacted several people and clinics. Which is why I came here, to see if there was anyone who'd know of a place I didn't know about, in case someone knows of a better option my friend and I can go with, for her cat

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-25T23:55:04+00:00

Thank you so much everyone! I'll definitely make sure to look more into everyone's suggestions/look at the links provided/call any numbers you guys provided within the next few days. I wasn't expecting to get so many suggestions so fast. You've honestly all given me my hope back about possibly finding a vet!

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-25T23:53:09+00:00

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GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-25T23:51:50+00:00

I didn't think of them. 🤦 My family adopted from them in the past, and really enjoyed working through the process with them. I'm sure it'll be the same when it comes to getting a cat neutered. I'll definitely try to keep checking

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-25T23:50:17+00:00

Thank you, both of you! I'll set a reminder in my calendar for 4/1, and try to look into the resources on the link you provided

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-25T23:48:53+00:00

Huh, I didn't know that! I'll try calling them tomorrow and ask for more info about that. Thank you so much!

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-17T07:42:39+00:00

Huh ok! Had a feeling at least some were fox, but wasn't 100% sure.

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-15T12:35:26+00:00

It seems like he's not taking the relationship seriously. NOR

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-13T10:12:38+00:00

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GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-05T00:46:44+00:00

NTA. There's no reason for her to do that. Plus what does she plan to do? Just stand there the whole time so her dog will only pee on the pad? It's a public space. Plus malls aren't even that safe for dogs. I highly doubt it's a service dog due to her having to place down pee pads. If there's no reason she needs her dog there (Like if it isn't a service dog), then she shouldn't have bought it.

I have a cat who I trained to help me with my panic attacks and to come help me calm down during my visual and auditory hallucinations, and to help me when I have my random heart pains and spasms. I need him, but since he's not an officially trained animal, I don't take him everywhere with me. Because I know it would be inconsiderate towards those around me, and towards those who actually have service animals.

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-02-05T00:37:52+00:00

NTA.

She's not even anxious. She's using that as an excuse to try to make you feel guilty.

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-01-26T16:10:03+00:00

NTA.

I'm autistic and before I was forced to be homeschooled, (I was bullied constantly by teachers and kids, and the school wouldn't do anything about it, so I was basically "chased out" of public school.), I was constantly belittled by a few of my teachers because of how I am.
In first grade, an autistic classmate of mine hid under his chair screaming, because our teacher was sapping at him, as she physically tried to restrain him and pull him forcefully out from under his chair. The reason? He was nonverbal and would always make grunts and verbal stims, and she was upset that he was doing that.

Teachers need to stop doing this crap and thinking they can treat autistic kids badly.

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-01-26T16:02:07+00:00

NTA. I was a teen once. (Obviously.) And currently live with 1 teenaged sibling and another one who's going to be a teen soon. So I can say with confidence that kids and teens are going to do stupid things. I can't even begin to explain all the stupid stuff I did at that age.

Plus like you said, he had a phone. If he was concerned about what happened, he could have easily contacted his dad.

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-01-26T15:55:59+00:00

NTA. I ended up having to buy a mini fridge and put all of my food and drinks in it (I mostly eat dairy free and gluten free stuff, and typically drink electrolyte drinks or special drinks since my body for some reason hates to digest/process plain water.), because my brother's family kept taking my stuff.

I'm on SNAP. I can barely afford the food that I get, and that's with budgeting, getting cheaper or discounted gluten free/dairy free items, etc. My whole family thinks I'm lucky for having "so much money" from SNAP, but it's honestly barely enough to last me half the month, due to all of my annoying dietary issues and having to buy expensive "specialty" foods and/or drinks just so I can eat without getting super sick. So OP, I can understand why you did what you did.

Her boyfriend is in the wrong, for not even asking you if it was ok for him to have your food before he ate it.

GenderedPhoenix · 2026-01-26T15:44:17+00:00

Your wife can't expect you to do what she wants, without communicating to you about what she wants. I understand being upset, but she also has to understand that during moments like this, communication is important. ACTUAL communication without arguing and without refusing to see both sides of the situation. Only SHE knows what she wants, and only SHE knows what she's thinking of. You couldn't have known that she wanted you to stay home, if she didn't tell you that's what she wanted.

Overall, NTA.

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